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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Black Celebrity News: King Magazine Takes a Dive

So it has just been announced that there will not be anymore issues of KING Magazine, and the company claims that the economy is to blame for its demise. I know there are going to be a lot of men up set about this so they better cop the last issue which will hit stands April 21st. The last issue will feature Joe Buddens girlfriend Tahiry, and she has enough ass to fill at least two issues, so this should keep the men satisfied for a few months.

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Posted By LadyBaby to Your Black Gossip at 3/31/2009 08:41:00 PM

size matters?

Everybody's buzzing about "More to Love," an upcoming reality TV dating show that will feature overweight bachelorettes vying for the love of an overweight bachelor.

Maybe I lost all my reality TV cred when I became a fan of "Wife Swap," but ignore that fact for a minute.

I think "More to Love" is a new pop culture low.

It suggests overweight people can be loved -- but only by someone of their own size. That feeds the superficiality that already defines physical attraction in our culture.

I'm all for a dating show that isn't only about beautiful people. But reportedly, the contestants on "More to Love" aren't "average." They're overweight. That's a real medical problem.

And by telling these contestants that they should seek reality TV fame instead of getting healthy, "More to Love" producers are subtly reinforcing the inactivity that's super-sized our country.

first-date foods

How much thought do you put into what you order on a first date?

If you need another reminder to stay away from garlic and refried beans, check out this list of "first-date foods that take romance off the menu."

While writing a recent prom etiquette article, I flashed back to the high school days when all my friends would order nothing but a side salad before formal dances.

I've never been one to scale back my eating habits for a guy, and when it comes to entree selection I'm usually more worried about messing up my outfit than looking like a heifer.

In the end, I think food choice is secondary to the many other opportunities for awkwardness that come with the dinner date.

Like this one: Are guys who order for you chivalrous or controlling?

Black Celebrity Gossip: Rihanna Changes Her Mind….Again

I am guessing that the final break up between Chris and Rihanna was not on good terms, because at first Rihanna wasn't going to testify against him but now she is. WTF??? According to one of Rih Rih's attorney's, "She will do everything that the law requires her to do” . Now to me this is definitely some BS because what made her change her ways all of a sudden, could it be some built up animosity or maybe she just wants to look good in the public eye. Either way I am not with it.
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Posted By LadyBaby to Your Black Gossip at 3/31/2009 10:54:00 AM

Jill Scott Does a Movie

Jill Scott has a new show "The No. 1 Ladies Detective Drama" that will begin airing next Sunday on HBO. Jill plays the main character Precious Ramotswe, who owns a female detective agency in Botswana. Co-staring with Jill will be Anika Noni Rose (a.ka. the girl from Dreamgirls) and she will be playing the character Mma Makutsi. Overall the show seems pretty boring and I won't be watching it, mainly because I don't have HBO, but for those of you all who want to it will air Sunday March 29 at 8 pm.

Monday, March 30, 2009

cocktail tasting party!

Looking for a girls' night out this week? Visit Flip Flops, 1111 Broadway, Thursday night.

The bar will host a cocktail tasting party where you can sample over 20 different summer cocktails. They'll serve appetizers, too.

Cost is $20, which includes food and drinks.

Call 706-505-6829.

beware the un-dater

The only thing worse than being on a bad date? Being on a bad date and not knowing it.

Jezebel introduces us to the un-dater, the socially oblivious person who often can't differentiate between "hanging out" and a real date. Here's the official definition:

An un-dater is a person who accidentally ruins the date by not realizing that they are ON a date.

I like to think I'm pretty observant when it comes to signals from the opposite sex, but it hasn't always been that way. Let's just say an invite to help finish a bottle of Pucker -- alone in a room with mood lighting -- is never platonic.

Don't worry, un-daters...help is on the way.

You might be on a date IF:

*Your chauffeur's car reeks of cheap cologne

*Your table mate pays for your alcohol -- and it's not $1 PBR night

*The night's soundtrack is a CD labeled, "Baby-making mix vol. 1"

That was fun. Continue the list in the comments section!

Friday, March 27, 2009

Your Black Celebrities: Kobe and His Wife Get Sued

Don't let the smiles fool you b/c apparently Kobe and his wife Vanessa aren't as nice as they seem. That's right, the couple are being sued by their former housekeeper because they treated her like sh*t, LITERALLY. Maria Jimenez claims that Vanessa verbally assaulted her several times, and as if that wasn't bad enough, she was once forced to dig in dog sh*t to get Vanessa's tag. DAMN, now that's messed up!!!

 

what's going on this weekend?

Friday night, head to The Uptown Tap, 1024 Broadway, to wish good luck to Jeremy McCall. Next week, the Columbus singer will compete in the regional round of "America's Got Talent" auditions.

Here's the rest of your weekend lineup:

FRIDAY

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

Fervor, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Codfish Quartet, 7:30 p.m. Ossahatchee Oyster Bar, free. 706-582-2629.

Last Episode, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

• The Unsung, Debutante Massacre, Thrill of a Gunfight, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

Forced Entry, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

• Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

SATURDAY

Sonia Leigh with Jessi Lynn, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

Gucci Mane, 9 p.m. Club Ritmo, $35. 706-687-7087.

Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• DJ Greg Grantham, 7:30 p.m. Ossahatchee Oyster Bar, free. 706-582-2629.

Spent, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

Holdcell, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

Killing Ground, Disposition, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

Black News: Jennifer Hudson Sets a Wedding Date

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When Chicago’s favorite dream girl gets married, don’t expect to hear anything about it before it happens.

Jennifer Hudson is moving forward with planning her wedding to fellow Chicagoan David Otunga, but the Oscar- and Grammy-winning actress is keeping mum on when the big date will be.

After she recently taped a performance for "American Idol," Hudson told Ryan Seacrest she has set a date for her wedding, but she says, "It’s a secret."

Otunga, perhaps best known as "Punk" from the VH1 reality series "I Love New York 2," has been training to become a professional wrestler. The 28-year-old Harvard Law graduate told Sun-Times reporter Paige Wiser in February, "It was almost like love at first sight. We just clicked. We met one day and have been together ever since."

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redneck and single

Tired of the club scene meet market ? Here's an alternative dating option, but you might have to beef up your NASCAR vernacular.

Redneck and Single has entered the online dating world.

No, that site is not a joke.

It's an "online honky-tonk, but without the drinkin', cussin' and fightin'."

Just for fun, I did a search of eligible redneck men in Georgia. Among my favorites? RemingtonSkoal, 25, of Valdosta. His profile speaks volumes:

I love rednecks. Rednecks are great. Rednecks are incredibly cool and I like mud boggin' and huntin'.

Sign me up, sexy!

(via Jezebel)

Black Celebs: Diddy Accused of Hating Dark-Skinned Women

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According to a reader that I’ve been corresponding with this afternoon, she received an email for a Ciroc Vodka casting but was disappointed after reading she did not meet the requirements. As she continued to read the casting ad she became outraged and appalled as she was excluded from the job for being neither a white, hispanic or light skinned African American female. This led her to believe that Diddy does not like dark skinned African American woman.  (To his credit, he’s making babies by them…)

My Question is this: Why did it take so long for someone to call Diddy out on this? If you look up the commercials for his “Unforgivable” and “I Am King” cologne, you will notice that Diddy has rarely (if at all) used dark skinned nor African American woman in those ads.  For his Sean John ads, he employed both Cassie and Lauren London who are both light skinned women.

Check out Exhibit A,B,C,D,E & F below…

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I’m not saying that it’s right but no one has complained about it before.   Check out the reader’s complaint letter to Ciroc plus the Casting Call below:

Click to read.

Black Celebrities: TI Preps for Jail

World-famous rapper T.I. will appear in a federal courtroom Friday for sentencing on weapons charges related to purchasing machine guns and silencers.

T.I., whose real name is Clifford Harris, has mentored at-risk students as part of his community service.

T.I., whose real name is Clifford Harris, has mentored at-risk students as part of his community service.

T.I., whose real name is Clifford Harris, is expected to be sentenced to one year in prison and be ordered to pay a $100,000 fine, under the terms of a plea agreement reached with authorities last year.

The agreement allowed Harris to remain out of prison for a year while he performed 1,000 hours of community service.

In that time, Harris has completed his hours by mentoring at-risk students at 58 schools, 12 Boys & Girls Clubs, nine churches and many other nonprofit organizations, according to court documents.

Meanwhile, the rapper has released his sixth CD, "Paper Trail," which has sold close to 2 million copies, according to Nielsen SoundScan.

Harris recently talked to CNN about learning from his mistakes.

"You shouldn't take the things that I've gone through and the negative parts of my life and admire me for that," Harris said. "If anything, admire me for how I've accepted responsibility for the part I've played in placing myself in these situations and what I've done to recover from it."

Click to read.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

J. Hudson & David Set Wedding Date


Jennifer Hudson has set a wedding date, however she & David ("Punk") are keeping it a secret. In an interview with American Idol host, Ryan Seacrest, J. Hud states: “Yeah, but it’s a secret. I can’t tell anybody.”, in regards to her wedding plans.

We can see Jennifer soon! She starts her tour with Robin Thicke beginning March 31st. You can get tour info at http://www.jenniferhudsononline.com/.

Glad that things are looking up for Jennifer. Congrats to her!!!


the relationship test

Everybody's buzzing about this mathematical model that could predict the success of your romantic relationship -- with 94 percent accuracy.

The link above lets you and your partner take the test. But be warned, it's complicated: A video camera and lots of numbers are involved.

The test's specifics are beside the fact. This isn't the first time I've heard of a test that purports to apply researched, mathematical odds to a relationship's likelihood of survival.

In theory, the desire makes sense: Find a tool that will tell me if I'm wasting my time on love.

But when it comes to compatibility -- the long-term kind -- algebraic formulas aren't necessary. I think you can tell in your own gut if you and your partner are meant to last...it's just a question of whether you want to come to grips with that realization.

Let's assume someone discovers a test that would reportedly predict your relationship's success with 100 percent accuracy.

Would you take it?

what's going on tonight?

Here's your Thursday night lineup, partiers:

• J-Mac, 9 p.m. The Vault, free, 706-653-8277.

Forced Entry, 9 p.m. Shanty Shack, free. 706-507-3418.

• Gary Parmer, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, free. 706-494-1584.

• Martin Ortiz and friends, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, free. 706-322-3460.

the digital PDA

Happy Thursday! Today's nightlife column is about digital PDAs -- you know, Facebook status updates dominated by references to the greatest husband in the world.

I think these PDAs are even more disgusting than the token couple making out in a smoky bar's corner. Why? Because they suggest that in order to have a successful relationship, you need to be thinking about your partner 24-7.

No joke: I have friends who have never posted an online status update that doesn't have to do with a boyfriend. Sure, it's cute at first -- kind of -- but eventually you have to wonder about someone who devotes their entire profile to another person.

It's like, "Really? Do you have nothing else to think about?"

Digital PDAs: Cute, or a little desperate?

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Your Black Celebs Out and About

As usual this has been a busy week for the celebs so check some of your favorite stars out & about below.

Keri Hilson, arriving at her album release party


Keri bopping during her CD signing at Wet Seal

Is that the black Barbie??? Nope, that's ya girl Trina

Trina posing for Louis Vuitton

The "Sister Sister" girls have grown up

Their solo pics
Ciara on the streets of NYC
Janet Jackson and her boo J.D. leaving LaGuardia Airport

Fantasia was @ the airport too looking a HOT GHETTO MESS as usual, but I am feeling those shoes.

LaLa and her son spending some quality time together!!!

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Posted By N. Taylor to Your Black Gossip at 3/25/2009 11:44:00 PM

meant to be spent alone?

The scene is a perfect couples' getaway: comfy sheets, a stunning view of the beach...and your partner's nose-hair trimmer on the sink.

Traveling with your significant other can be incredibly romantic - and incredibly stressful.

Here, YourTango asks if your relationship can survive a vacation, an experience that for new couples can unfortunately illuminate some poor grooming habits.

The piece has some good advice: plan in advance, remember basic etiquette, don't over-schedule.

But I think the most important thing to remember is that transporting yourself out of your standard environment hardly ensures every second of your trip will be romantic.

Too many people equate travel with earth-shattering romantic bliss, and then get totally disappointed when every hotel dinner doesn't culminate in fireworks.

Sometimes, the greatest romantic benefit of traveling comes with the renewed sense of togetherness you discover once you're back home.

cougars becoming extinct

Looks like Mrs. Robinson is more fantasy than reality.

The idea of younger men craving older women is exaggerated, this Boston Globe article reports. It talks about dating services that have set up match-making events specifically to hook young men up with a cougar. Those events have failed due to a lack of participants.

I'm not surprised.

I think most guys would like a "one time only" encounter with an older woman, but as far an actual relationship, probably not so much. Guys thrive on the idea of being the protector, the bread-winner, and I think those qualities are somewhat jeopardized when you date an older woman.

Do cougars still prosper in the relationship jungle?

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Black News: Rapper Trick Daddy Has Lupus

Rapper Trick Daddy recently announced that he has been suffering from Lupus, a disease that affects the skin, for nearly 12 years. As expected Trick is not letting his illness keep him down, he is scheduled to release a autobiography and star in a film this year. So good luck to him, and keep him in your prayers.
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Posted By N. Taylor to Your Black Gossip at 3/23/2009 10:11:00 PM

'friending' an ex

How many exes have you "friended" on social networking sites?

Answer carefully, especially since this Minneapolis Star Tribune article cautions that when it comes to exes, Facebook friends are rarely "just" friends. An excerpt:

So if you're tempted to reconnect because reconnection is instantaneous and offers what seems like a harmless thrill, think again about your motives: You probably have all the friends, on Facebook and otherwise, that you need.

And, assuming your marriage is solvent and dear to you, either ignore a new "friend" notification or accept the face from the past and post a benign, polite message, says Jack Quesnell, relationship therapist for the Midwest Center for Personal and Family Development in Minneapolis.

Be honest: How many times have you accepted an ex's friend request solely for the sake of friendship?

Yeah, that's what I thought.

(via YourTango)

Monday, March 23, 2009

tired of waiting?

So everyone's buzzing about the Harrison Ford/Calista Flockhart engagement. Peruse articles on the topic and you'll see the announcement padded with a "finally" disclaimer: The couple had been dating for 7 years.

I read a book once that said after two years, you should know whether you want to tie the knot with someone.

I think that's a little too short.

It's one thing to impose an arbitrary age deadline for when you'll get married.

But is it any better to, once you know you really care about somebody, tell yourself "we're going to be engaged by xxx or we're breaking up"?

I think it's a fine line. As much as I hate applying time frames to relationships, I've seen so many girls hang on to guys who clearly aren't the marriage type. They'll relocate and alter their schedules all under a remote hope that one day the guy will magically change his mind and yearn for some deep commitment.

Is that hope alone worth a seven-year wait?

the blind date

Saturday night, I spotted a variety of prom goers inside a Columbus Park Crossing restaurant. There was a lot to look at -- cocktail dresses! cheesy tuxes! -- but I couldn't stop staring at one couple in particular.

They sat on opposite sides of a booth seat, staring in separate directions, periodically texting.

I pitied them because I had been them: victims of a blind date.

OK, so maybe they were a real-life couple just having a fight or something. Still, the body language translated all too easily to the awkwardness of a setup.

ABC News has this story about what happened in an experiment when people's dates looked nothing like their online profile pictures. Internet aside, there's always that friend who tells you her cousin could be Brad Pitt's stunt double -- which makes you wonder why he's 5 feet tall with a mullet.

Same goes for personality traits. Nothing's sadder than realizing the "he's funny" endorsement actually translates into "he's funny if you like obscure mathematical humor."

We love our friends and we want them to be in love. Unfortunately, sometimes that means exaggerating their desirability.

Anyone have a good blind date story?

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Lady Drama: Chris and Rihanna Drama Part 50, of course


Although Chris and Rihanna have broken up the rumors keep coming & they seem to be getting worse. It is now being said that the two made a sex tape and to make matters worse the tape is getting ready to leak. According to a close source,
“They’ve had tons of crazy nights in bed, and Chris has recorded many of them…They both have very kinky sides.” It’s also claimed that Rihanna enjoys role-playing and dressing up as a dominatrix and that she is allegedly worried Chris could put the footage out there for the world to see. The source went on to say: “Rihanna has no issues with her sexuality. But she’d be mortified if her friends and family found this out! “This whole beating incident is terribly humiliating for her. She’s already traumatized and will do anything to make it all go away as quickly as possible.“The last thing in the world Rihanna wants is to see herself in the sex videos all over the Internet! She’s an intensely private person.”

I really hope this isn't true b/c personally I don't want to see Chris taking anyone down. Plus, why do these couples keep making these sex tapes like they aren't going to be released? Come one now, they should have learned from Kim K., Paris Hilton, Pam Anderson, and the list goes on.

Friday, March 20, 2009

CHARLAMAGNE THA GOD SPEAKS UP AND OUT

You people kill me. When I say people I mean the so called new media; the bloggers and websites who have taken it upon themselves to be the so called journalists of this generation. I say so called because many of you are not journalists at all. In fact there is no journalistic integrity in 95% of the bullshit yall report. All you do is take rumors, gossip and down right lies and report them as fact. Think of all the blog rumors you have ever read. Do any of these blogs ever get proven as fact? I'm sure a few do, but when I say a few it's only about 5% because as I stated earlier 95% of what's reported is bullshit. There is no investigative journalism that goes into your stories.  If I call a blogger right now and say, "Yo, I heard such and such got beat up last night," they will say, "Word?" "Let me make a few calls." Within minutes on their blog you see there is a rumor on there that says "Such and Such got beat up last night." What investigative journalism did you do to insure that "such and such" really did get beat up last night? You didn't do any research because you don't care about journalism. You care about getting your story up before necolebitchie.com or gyantscoop.com.   You are more concerned with generating traffic to your blog or website than you are about reporting a factual story. That's the problem with the game today; if video killed the radio star then the Internet killed the journalist.

You know what our culture needs more of? We need more real journalists to write blogs.  We need more real activist and intellectual thinkers like Boyce Watkins and Michael Eric Dyson to do video blogs and talk about the issues that effect our people on a daily basis. Think of all the hits that sites like mediatakeout.com and bossip.com get. There comes a point when you have to ask yourself why there is not more positive content on these sites? Why aren't real issues being addressed? How come everyone cares about Chris Brown whipping Rihanna's ass? Is it right for a man to hit a woman? Hell no? Does it happen on a daily basis, hell yeah! I've put my foot up a female's ass a couple times (when I was younger and believe me I got bad karma for it) but what is the issue? Or you blog sites and websites reporting it because your trying to make people realize that domestic violence is and issue that needs to be addressed or is your site just reporting it because it's Chris Brown and Rihanna?

 

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what's going on this weekend?

Here's your weekend lineup, partiers:

FRIDAY

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

Assphalt Gypsies, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

• Peggy Jenkins, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

Seven Zero Sixx, 8 p.m., Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

Mindblender, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

SATURDAY

Forced Entry, Ultradrive, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

Platinum Fuzz, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

Connor Christian and Southern Gothic, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

Jaded Soul, 8 p.m., Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

undo send

After a night of partying, you plop yourself in front of your laptop at 2 a.m., plate of Bagel Bites in hand. Suddenly, you're consumed by an urge to channel the writing skills you last used in literary criticism class.

The result? A good, old-fashioned drunk e-mail.

They range in severity from "I can't believe I wrote that" to "I can't believe I wrote that and you're still speaking to me."

But now, one e-mail host might make the drunk missive obsolete.

Gmail has added an Undo Send feature that gives you a five-second time window to reevaluate your decision. Sure, that's pretty short, but it's better than nothing.

And I speak from firsthand experience when I note it only takes two seconds to realize you hit "reply all" instead of "reply."

Thursday, March 19, 2009

THAT couple

College Candy gives us this list of annoying couple-isms -- a collection that includes pet names, fighting in public and PDAs.

The Frisky elaborates on the list with its own set of bad couple habits, like too-frequent use of "we." A good share of commenters have already contributed their own additions.

The bottom line: Hanging out with couples can be really difficult. And not just if you're single.

I tried to come up with a really creative couples gripe, but my No. 1 choice is probably the same thing that bugs most of you: the excessive PDA.

In the majority of cases, I think it's used more to get a reaction out of other partiers than for the couple's own benefit.

Which couple-ism annoys you most?

what's going on tonight?

Here's your lineup, Thursday partiers:

• J-Mac, 9 p.m. The Vault, free, 706-653-8277.

Mustang Sally, 9 p.m. Shanty Shack, free. 706-507-3418.

• College night with open mike, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free. $1 PBR.

Gary Parmer, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, free. 706-494-1584.

Neal Lucas, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

crazy women

This week's nightlife column focuses on a common male explanation for a breakup:

"She was crazy."

The line has always annoyed me, because I think in the majority of cases it translates into, "She was crazy because she wasn't the female version of me." A big part of every romantic relationship involves putting up with your significant other's quirks and tolerating a couple meltdowns.

But here's the most important thing: You can only attribute your failed relationships to someone else's craziness for so long.

Even if those exes were genuinely bad seeds, you chose to to date them.

So -- at the risk of sounding crazy -- I'll say the problem could be you.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

fromances

I thought this blog had reached a new linguistic low when I first used the term "bromance." Clearly, I was wrong.

Now there are "fromances."

This woman introduces us to the concept, a convenient meshing of "friendship" and "romance." Enter fromance -- a friendship with a member of the opposite sex that's dominated by thoughts of "what if." As in, "what if we hooked up."

The term is cute, but it loses some credibility when you consider how many people think friendships between men and women are all fromances.

Thoughts?

(via YourTango)

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Your Black Gossip: Kim K and Reggie Bush

Check out some of the pics from Kim K. and boyfriend Reggie Bush's recent GQ spread!!!



Now I am not a fan of the whole idea of mixing it up, and ya'll know what I mean, but Kim K. and Reggie are definitely one couple that I can't hate one.

st. paddy's day party spots

UPDATE: Just learned H2O, 6499 Veterans Parkway, added a St. Paddy's Day party. There will be green beer and green shots, plus a "Kissin Contest" from 99.3 FM. No cover.

Hope everyone's having a great St. Patrick's Day. I just ate at Scruffy Murphy's -- I strongly recommend the corned beef casserole.

As promised, here's tonight's party lineup:

Irish pub Scruffy Murphy’s, 1037 Broadway, serves Irish-themed food throughout the day. Captain Mackey’s Goatskin and Stringband, an act from Cork, Ireland, takes the stage at 2 p.m. A $6-$8 cover charge starts at 3 p.m. and includes a food buffet.

Broadway bars host a block party where one $5 cover gets you into the majority of downtown hot spots. This doesn’t include Scruffy’s, though.

The Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road, is hosting a performance by Mercury Heat at 9 p.m. For $3.50, you can get a 20 ounce St. Patrick’s Day cup filled with draft beer. No cover.

Belloo’s, 900 Front Ave., opens at 5 p.m. and celebrates with $3 green Jell-O shots and $4 green draft beer. No cover.

Mickey’s Pub, 4105 Buena Vista Road, has DJ music beginning at 7 p.m. No cover.

SoHo Bar & Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, offers Irish-themed drink specials and party favors. No cover. Doors open at 2 p.m.

CC Entertainment and Rivertown Adventure Club host a fundraiser to benefit Oxbow Meadows Environmental Learning Center. It’s 9 p.m. at Mario’s Restaurant & Pop, 1010 Broadway. Entry is $5, and you can also pay $5 to spin a wheel and win locally sponsored prizes.

News: Beyonce Knowels on Vogue

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Houston native Beyoncé Knowles has landed in a coveted spot: on the cover of Vogue.

Gracing the April issue, the pop superstar is one of a handful of black celebrities to appear on the cover of the storied fashion magazine in its 117-year history. She is wearing a blue off-the-shoulder gown by Nicolas Ghesquière and De Beers diamond earrings. Her hair is slicked back, and she appears to have on minimal makeup.

She joins a short list that includes Oprah Winfrey (1998), Halle Berry (2002), Jennifer Hudson (2007), first lady Michelle Obama, who graced the current March cover, and LeBron James, who appeared in a controversial pose on the cover with supermodel Gisele Bundchen last April.

Though it’s a landmark for Vogue, Knowles is no stranger to fashion magazines. She most recently appeared on the January cover of Elle.

 

Click to read.

Back News: lGospel Singer Bebe Winans Assault Charge

BeBe Winans attends a post show reception for "The Color Purple" at the Broadway Theatre, in New York.

Grammy-winning gospel singer Benjamin (BeBe) Winans has been charged with misdemeanor domestic assault after a dispute with his ex-wife in Nashville.

An arrest warrant filed Wednesday said 46-r-old Winans got into an argument with his ex-wife, Debra, aboutyea their children at her home.

"He pushed me to the ground in front of my children," Debra Winans told CNN.

 

Click to read.

 

magically delicious

Happy St. Patrick's Day! I'll post a roundup of local parties soon, but I'm kicking things off with a couple leprechaun links. Check this stuff out and then start upping your tolerance for green beer:

*Remember the elusive Shamrock Shake from McDonald's? It's becoming an extinct species. Fortunately, you can track one down with ShamrockShake.com.

*Here, College Candy gives a list of do's and don'ts for St. Paddy's Day. Unfortunately, it's not too fitting for the average working 20-something, thanks to lines like this: "Don't forget that you are only in college once and can therefore celebrate any holiday with binge drinking without being ridiculed by society." Ah, college...

*Believe it or not, the St. Patrick's Day pickup line lexicon extends beyond "kiss me, I'm Irish." Users of this site compiled a good list, although I'll laugh if you approach me with, "I've got a leprechaun and a pot of gold hidden in my trousers, wanna see?"

*Finally, here's your go-to site for St. Patrick's Day trivia. My favorite nugget: Internationally, 13 million pints of Guinness will be consumed today.

Monday, March 16, 2009

how we met

My parents met at a nudist resort.

They love telling people that story, and I guess it's really only funny if you realize how unlikely that scenario really is. The story is actually true...in a sense. They met while working for the Peace Corps in Thailand -- in a place that's now a nudist camp.

My point: When people ask you how you met your significant other, they want a memorable answer -- whether it be head-over-heels romance or mere shock value.

Which becomes increasingly difficult when you realize few couples actually meet that way.

Here, one woman asks about the embarrassment she faces in telling her parents she met her boyfriend online. She wants to know if it's OK to lie about how they met.

In an age where drunk hookups lead to lifelong commitments, should we feel guilty for embellishing the details of our first encounter?

st. paddy's day parties start tonight

Happy Monday! Hope everyone had a great weekend.

If you're like me, you probably spent at least 5 minutes dusting the lint off a form-fitting "Everyone Loves an Irish Girl" T-shirt. St. Patrick's Day is Tuesday, and local bars are preparing for heavy traffic.

Want to beat the crowds? Hit Scruffy Murphy's tonight.

The bar hosts a free performance by Captain Mackey's Goatskin and Stringband, the same Irish musicians who will take the stage tomorrow. Action starts at 7 p.m.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Daunte Stallworth: Browns Star Hits Pedestrian

Mario Reyes was a family man, a loving husband and father. He came to South Florida from Cuba as a teenager and became an overnight crane operator in Miami.

Still, his family said he couldn’t afford a car and was forced to take the bus to work. Saturday, police said he was killed when a Bentley driven by Cleveland Browns wide receiver Donte Stallworth collided with him on a causeway linking Miami and Miami Beach.

Reyes was headed to the bus stop.

“He spent all his free time with his family,” Reyes’ brother-in-law, Francisco Fajardo, told The Associated Press on Sunday. “He was on his way home.”

Reyes had worked all night at his job with the shipping company Bernuth Agencies, located just feet from the crash. The phone rang unanswered at the company on Sunday.

His family and co-workers said he had clocked out only minutes before the accident around 7 a.m.

“When the time came for him to leave, he grabbed his stuff and headed to the bus stop out front,” co-worker Renier Calana told The Miami Herald. She worked with Reyes unloading cargo containers from the Port of Miami.

 

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Is Jennifer Hudson Pregnant?

Lady Drama speaks on Jennifer Hudson’s “Pregnancy” – click the image to watch!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Big B and Abhi together again

Now, here’s a real shocker. Grapevine is abuzz that movie ‘Paa’ has Amitabh Bachchan playing the son of Abhishek Bachchan !

Director R Balakrishnan (known as Balki), who wove a different magic with his funny love story between a young woman and a sexagenarian man in Cheeni Kum , is again trying some different dimensions of human relationships in his next movie Pa .

As the sweet, endearing title Paa (fondly used by Aishwarya Rai to address her father-in-law, Amitabh) suggests, the movie is about father-son relationship.

While it’s safe to assume that a film on such a theme will have Abhishek playing the son to Big B, the case with ‘Paa’ is shockingly inverse. Reports have it that Amitabh plays the son, while Abhishek plays the father. The film’s story is about a man who ages at a faster pace and thus looks much older then his actual age.

Perhaps that explains why Mr. Bachchan has to sit for three-hour make-up sessions before shooting the film and three hours more to remove the make-up after the shoot is over. However, Big B’s look and the plot of the film are being guarded zealously by Balki.

What is known, however, is that the script intrigued Mr. Bachchan so much that he immediately said yes to the project. Abhishek came on board later. The movie also features Vidya Balan in female lead.

While Balki refuses to reveal anything about the film’s story, if Big B indeed plays the son to Abhishek, it might go on to prove the famous quote by William Wordsworth: “The child is father of the man”.

Big B and Abhi together again

Now, here’s a real shocker. Grapevine is abuzz that movie ‘Paa’ has Amitabh Bachchan playing the son of Abhishek Bachchan !

Director R Balakrishnan (known as Balki), who wove a different magic with his funny love story between a young woman and a sexagenarian man in Cheeni Kum , is again trying some different dimensions of human relationships in his next movie Pa .

As the sweet, endearing title Paa (fondly used by Aishwarya Rai to address her father-in-law, Amitabh) suggests, the movie is about father-son relationship.

While it’s safe to assume that a film on such a theme will have Abhishek playing the son to Big B, the case with ‘Paa’ is shockingly inverse. Reports have it that Amitabh plays the son, while Abhishek plays the father. The film’s story is about a man who ages at a faster pace and thus looks much older then his actual age.

Perhaps that explains why Mr. Bachchan has to sit for three-hour make-up sessions before shooting the film and three hours more to remove the make-up after the shoot is over. However, Big B’s look and the plot of the film are being guarded zealously by Balki.

What is known, however, is that the script intrigued Mr. Bachchan so much that he immediately said yes to the project. Abhishek came on board later. The movie also features Vidya Balan in female lead.

While Balki refuses to reveal anything about the film’s story, if Big B indeed plays the son to Abhishek, it might go on to prove the famous quote by William Wordsworth: “The child is father of the man”.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Candace Parker Preps to have a baby

Candace Parker

Candace Parker is wearing a simple white dress and the biggest smile imaginable. She is cradling her belly, which carries her unborn child, as she poses for this cover of a magazine aimed at readers who expect to see LeBron or Manny.
But on the cover of the issue of ESPN the Magazine that will be on newsstands Friday it is Parker, the Sparks star, who will look the buyer in the eye beside the headline, "How Big Can Candace Parker Get?"

"I'm proud of my child, excited about my child and I'm excited about the opportunity to have a child and be an athlete," said Parker, 22, on Wednesday. She is home in Los Angeles now, settled in to wait for this first child for her and husband Shelden Williams, a forward for the Minnesota Timberwolves.

Click to read.

what's going on this weekend?

Here's your weekend lineup, partiers. Don't forget about the courtyard party Friday at The Uptown Tap, although the rain forecasts might interfere with things a bit.

FRIDAY

Misfortune 500, BPM, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

Trap County and guests, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

Colt Ford, 10 p.m. H2O, $20. 706-984-1917.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

Spent, 8 p.m., Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

• Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

SATURDAY

Sub Cam, Mindtrip, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-322-3460.

Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

The Planet Riders, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

Spent, 8 p.m., Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

Modern Skirts, 9 p.m. The Loft, $8. 706-596-8141.

Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

wanna be on top?

Maybe I should have entered Boobs for Babes after all.

Increasingly, women are having boob jobs to get ahead in the job market during the recession, according to this article.

It's not just a single-gender phenomenon.

Unemployed men are getting procedures like brow lifts, it notes.

Confession time: Have you ever used your looks to get ahead in the workforce?

TI Gets the Guns Off the Streets

T.I. has formed a coalition with the Political Swagger Foundation and C.H.A.N.G.E. Initiative to remove guns from urban communities. The effort will kick off in Houston tomorrow (March 14) as host of Responsibility Is a Lifestyle: Give Back Your Gun Day. Throughout the day, any person with an unregistered weapon will be able to turn in the firearm without fear of questioning, fines, or arrest.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

courtyard season at the tap

Cue the sandals and booty shorts: Friday, The Uptown Tap officially opens its courtyard for the season.

Cover is $5. You can look forward to DJ music outside, prizes and drink specials.

Just try not to get too caught up on the fact that Friday's forecast calls for late-night showers.

what's going on tonight?

Here's your Thursday party lineup:

• J-Mac, 9 p.m. The Vault, free, 706-653-8277.

Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, free. 706-322-3460.

The Naked Eskimos, 9 p.m. Shanty Shack, free. 706-507-3418.

Stereomonster and friends, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free. $1 PBR.

• Gary Parmer, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, free. 706-494-1584.

Sons of Sanchez, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

Your Black Celebrities: Diddy Sets Ellen Straight

Diddy was on Ellen Degeneres's show yesterday promoting his new Twitter page, and somehow Ellen began questioning Diddy about why he let Chris a.k.a "woman beater" stay at his house. Oh boy did Diddy have an answer to her question. Click on the pic below to hear what he had to say.

st. paddy's day

Happy Thursday! I am sooo happy that the weekend's almost here. I've been getting a lot of questions about St. Patrick's Day festivities. The holiday falls on Tuesday, but I don't think a weekday party night will deter anybody from indulging in green beer.

The big party spot, of course, will be Columbus' only Irish pub: Scruffy Murphy's.

The nightclub hosts two musicians from Ireland Monday and Tuesday. No cover Monday, and cover is decided at the door Tuesday. If you don't want to risk a steep charge, you can buy $5 advance tickets through Monday at the bar.

Scruffy's will also serve Irish-themed food all day Tuesday. Doors open 11:30 a.m. Get the full details in my article here.

As far as other parties go...

Presumably, there will also be a Broadway bar crawl. But Scruffy's won't be included.

The Shanty Shack is also having a pretty cool party. You'll be able to buy special 20 oz. cups for $3.50 draft beer. The rockers from Mercury Heat perform.

That's all I've got for now. I'll post another St. Paddy's update early next week.

Actor Terrence Howard’s Tough Negotiations

Last October, Terrence Howard refused an opportunity to reprise his role as Tony Stark's friend James Rhodes in the sequel to the blockbuster movie 'Iron Man.' Now thatSamuel Jackson has signed with Marvel Entertainment to do a multi-film deal as Nick Fury of S.H.I.E.L.D., there is more reason to believe that Howard's decision may have been penny wise and pound foolish.

When Howard rejected what he considered a low-ball offer from Marvel, it wasn't clear what the company was going to do with the Iron Man franchise. After the movie made $600 million last summer, a sequel was a no-brainer. But the deal with Samuel Jackson highlights a strategy of making long-term commitments to characters that may make actors more eager to sign with Marvel in the future. Jackson signed a nine-film deal where he will play the Nick Fury character across several Marvel franchises including 'Thor,' 'Captain America' and 'The Avengers,' with a movie about S.H.I.E.L.D. also a possibility. Although he too felt Marvel low-balled their initial offer to him, over several months of back-and-forth Jackson was able to negotiate a landmark deal that will guarantee him paychecks for several years to come.

Click to read.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

picture this

After three weeks of faithful shampooing, you've finally put that bad dye job behind you.

Until your friend posts pictures on Facebook.

Yet another joy of social networking: Spending a Friday night wondering if the photos posted the next morning will make you love your new pair of jeans, or circle your patches of stomach fat with a permanent marker.

Here, Slate tells you what to do when old photos of you appear on Facebook.

Photo discomfort doesn't only come from digging up the past.

Monday morning, there's always that one friend who has to post every single weekend photo from her camera. Including the ones where you have neck fat. Or your mascara is smeared.

But then, there are the times when you look REALLY hideous. Maybe intimate organs are exposed.

What's the proper etiquette for asking a friend to remove a photo of you on Facebook?

next time, drink milk

Everybody's buzzing about this research, which suggests young women overestimate how much alcohol men want them to drink.

An excerpt:

"Although traditionally, men drink more than women, research has shown that women have steadily been drinking more and more over the last several decades," said the study's lead author, Joseph LaBrie, PhD, associate professor of psychology at Loyola Marymount University. "Our research suggests women believe men find excessive drinking sexually attractive and appealing, but it appears this is a giant misperception."

Here's a question for readers of both genders:

Do you consider your partner's opinion when deciding how much you'll drink on a date?

(via Lemondrop)

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

friend is a four-letter word

Remember those elementary school days when you used to count your friends? Even if the tally only totaled 10, you knew all the people included would at least share lunch with you.

That's not necessarily the case for the average 20- or 30-something. Why?

We live in an age of Friendaholism, according to this LA Times column. An excerpt:

The idea of friendship, at least among the growing population of Internet social networkers, is to attain as many of these not-really-friends as possible. Hence, the alcoholism analogy, which I don't make lightly. Like cheap wine, "friends" provide a high that can only be sustained by acquiring more and more of them. Quantity trumps quality.

Naturally, Facebook has cheapened my understanding of "friend." Many times, I've attached the social networking "friend" label to someone without accompanying the request with any interpersonal dialogue.

Internet aside, I think you can't be too discriminating with the term "friend" once you reach adulthood. It's harder to make true, soulmate-like friends when you enter the workforce. So even your face-to-face friends might not necessarily line up with the ones you had in high school or college.

Confession time: Do you still count your friends?

(via Jezebel)

Fantasia's Back as "Celie"

Fantasia will revive her role as "Celie" in The Color Purple. The national tour of the play will begin at the Kennedy Center in June. Fantasia will reprise the role from June 30-August 2, 2009.

According to sources, "the cast of The Color Purple national tour currently features Kenita R. Miller (Celie), Tony nominee Felicia P. Fields (Sofia), Angela Robinson (Shug Avery), Rufus Bonds, Jr. (Mister), Stu James (Harpo), LaToya London (Nettie), Stephanie St. James (Squeak), as well as Lynette DuPree, Kimberly Ann Harris, Virginia Ann Woodruff, Adam Wade, Carol Dennis, Brian Harlan Brooks, Darius Crenshaw, Quentin Earl Darrington, Lesly Terrell Donald, Anika Ellis, Doug Eskew, André Garner, Stephanie Guiland-Brown, LaTrisa A. Harper, Phyre Hawkins, Dameka Hayes, LaTonya Holmes, Chauncey Jenkins, Grasan Kingsberry, Reva Rice, Horace V. Rogers, Kristopher Thompson-Bolden and Hollie E. Wright."

You can get ticket information at http://www.colorpurple.com/.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Lil Kim’s Dance Performance

Lil Kim makes an appearance on Dancing with the Stars.  Click the image to see the performance!

practice dating

You're not attracted to her and you know you never will be. So is it wrong to accept her dinner invite simply in order to get back in the game?

That's the underlying issue in this article, where one guy talks about "practice dating" -- the idea of going out with people primarily to understand how the opposite sex works, rather than viewing every date as the beginning of a serious commitment.

I think the beginning stages of any relationship are kind of like "practice." It's very rare that two people go into a first date with a mutual expectation they'll be together forever.

There's been times when after moving to a new city, I've accepted a date invitation primarily under the mentality of, "At least I'll meet somebody new."

But using someone just as a way to beef up your conversation skills? Seriously, just buy a book or something.

Black Celebrity News: Oprah Winfrey Speaks on Chrianna

Oprah Winfrey (left) has publicly warned Rihanna to stay away from Chris Brown, saying he will assault her again. HOLLYWOOD - OPRAH Winfrey has publicly warned Rihanna to stay away from Chris Brown, saying he will assault her again.

"Both Chris Brown and Rihanna, if I were your friend, I would call you up and I would say, 'Give it some time, get yourself some counselling, take care of yourself, heal yourself first,'" Oprah said.

"Love doesn't hurt. I've been saying this to women for years - love doesn't hurt. And if a man hits you once, he will hit you again. He will hit you again. I don't care what his plea is, he will hit you again.'

life milestones. or not.

The article taunts you, boasting a scary sense of authority and at least one reference to skydiving.

It is, of course, the "30 things every woman should do before turning 30" list.

It's a feature you'll see at least once a year in your favorite women's magazine or Web site, a mere space-filler that's destined to make you feel more inadequate than the aftermath of your grandma's annual "why aren't you married?" lecture.

In this article -- optimistically titled "Why do women feel useless?" -- one writer tackles the female tendency to attach age deadlines to life milestones.

I've written before about how much I hate it when girls say they must be married by 25. Or must have a kid by 30. More often than not, that approach makes women lower their standards and abandon their other interests simply to meet an arbitrary age deadline that might not even make them any happier.

That said, I think it's important to have goals and if nothing else, the "30 before 30" lists can be a good vehicle for taking a step back prioritizing different elements of your future.

Age-based deadlines: Call to action or setup for failure?

(via Jezebel)

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Lawyers: Rihanna Must Testify if Called

Rihanna's attorney says the singer would testify against Chris Brown if called as a witness in her boyfriend's assault case. Donald Etra, who is representing the 21-year-old Barbados native, said Friday that Rihanna would be required by law to testify if prosecutors subpoena her.

Etra appeared in court Thursday when Brown made his first appearance on charges of assaulting and making criminal threats to his superstar girlfriend. Brown's arraignment was postponed until April 6.

Etra said Rihanna did not want a "no contact" order issued against Brown, but that she will report any violations of an order prohibiting the 19-year-old singer from threatening, harassing or harming his girlfriend. A court order grants her the authority to record any violations of the order.

The order is not uncommon in cases where a victim says he or she doesn't want to completely cut off communication with a person, said Steve Cron, a Santa Monica criminal defense attorney who has represented celebrities such as Paula Poundstone and Scott Weiland.

"There are limits to when you can record phone calls and conversations," Cron said. "She can record those conversations if it's for the purpose of showing there's a violation of the restraining order."

Etra said Rihanna, whose real name is Robyn Rihanna Fenty, wants the case over with quickly. "She wants to get along with her life and career," he said.

 

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