Here's an excerpt from Alan's story, "Five arrested in alcohol sting at H20."
A 17- and 20-year-old walk into a bar, get past the doorman and order a drink.
Next item on the menu — five employees are arrested and sent Monday to Columbus Recorder's Court. One got her case dismissed by the judge, the remaining four were fined and their attorney appealed the case to State Court.
That scene started around 9:30 p.m. Friday at H20, the new nightspot at 6499 Veterans Parkway. It continued Monday when Columbus Police Sgt. William Gasaway testified about the sting that encompassed 14 spots around town.
Read the full story here, or in Tuesday's Ledger-Enquirer.
What do you think this means for the future of this new hot spot?
Monday, June 30, 2008
love in the club
Happy Monday!
Heard there was serious drama at the H20 grand opening Friday night. More on that later. In other nightlife news...I was surprised to see new downtown nightclub The Oasis (formerly Rumors/Savana's) open Saturday night. I'll stop in and take some pics soon.
In the meantime, here's an article about a Northwestern University speed dating experiment designed to explain how and why people fall in love. An excerpt:
With sufficient research, (lead researcher) Finkel believes, scholars might make dating less hellish for millions of people, or develop models to predict relationship success based on speed-dating compatibility.
It will, of course, be decades before their conclusions lead toward a grand theory of dating, much less comprehensive personal or policy recommendations. Yet Finkel still dreams far into the future-20 years, perhaps-to a time when he and (study collaborator) Eastwick and the rest of the field might understand how romantic attraction works even 5 percent better. It may not seem like much, but in a culture where as many as half of marriages end in divorce, even a tiny bit of new knowledge could have profound implications in how we search for love.
"That would be totally valuable," Finkel says. "People would be desperate to know it."
If there was an entirely accurate scientific paper describing how to find your perfect mate, would you read it? Or, would you prefer to leave the key to finding a love a mystery?
(Thanks for the link, Dan.)
Heard there was serious drama at the H20 grand opening Friday night. More on that later. In other nightlife news...I was surprised to see new downtown nightclub The Oasis (formerly Rumors/Savana's) open Saturday night. I'll stop in and take some pics soon.
In the meantime, here's an article about a Northwestern University speed dating experiment designed to explain how and why people fall in love. An excerpt:
With sufficient research, (lead researcher) Finkel believes, scholars might make dating less hellish for millions of people, or develop models to predict relationship success based on speed-dating compatibility.
It will, of course, be decades before their conclusions lead toward a grand theory of dating, much less comprehensive personal or policy recommendations. Yet Finkel still dreams far into the future-20 years, perhaps-to a time when he and (study collaborator) Eastwick and the rest of the field might understand how romantic attraction works even 5 percent better. It may not seem like much, but in a culture where as many as half of marriages end in divorce, even a tiny bit of new knowledge could have profound implications in how we search for love.
"That would be totally valuable," Finkel says. "People would be desperate to know it."
If there was an entirely accurate scientific paper describing how to find your perfect mate, would you read it? Or, would you prefer to leave the key to finding a love a mystery?
(Thanks for the link, Dan.)
Bag Lady: Victoria Beckham
You'll always catch Victoria with a fabulous handbag. Whether it's her Giambattista Valli patent tote or Oscar de la Renta Metallic Python Doctor Bag, Mrs. Beckham definitely knows how to keep the paparazzi yearning for more. I adore the creativity of her Prada Napa Fringe Tote and love the playfulness of her Marc Jacobs Leopard Satchel. Posh is large and in charge with her Silver Metallic Burberry 'Beaton' Shopper and shows us her lady-like sophistication when she carries the Chanel Quilted Clutch. Lastly, I love how her Jimmy Choo Fold-Over Clutch can seamlessly transition from day to night in a snap!
Which bag is your favorite? Tell ME all about it in the comments.
Victoria Beckham photos courtesy of What's Haute
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Miss Jones Gets Fired from Hot 97: Big Boy is In
From Autumn Jones at yourblackhiphop.blogspot.com
Miss Jones along with her staff DJ Envy and Michael Shawn are getting the boot! (i wonder if it has anything to do with the Wendy Williams hitman controversy). But Apparently starting July 21st, nationally syndicated show Big Boy In The Morning will replace the current show.
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Black Celebrity Models: Ciara Signs a New Deal
R&B singer Ciara has signed with modeling agency Wilhelmina and is in talks to launch her own clothing line.
Wilhelmina will now focus on casting Ciara, who’s currently ending a print modeling run for Jay-Z's Rocawear line, in both clothing and fragrance campaigns, according to the singer.
"Modeling has always been one of my aspirations," says Ciara. "But I was
insecure about my height. I thought I was 5'7" but I just found out that I'm 5'8" so I'm really excited about that."
Ciara’s also in talks with the budget-friendly department store, Steve & Barry's, to create a reasonably priced clothing line that bridges her personal style with affordable price points. Steve & Barry's also carries Sarah Jessica Parker's Bitten line as well as the New York Knicks' Stephon Marbury's Starbury collection.
"I have a couple of cool things that I'm working on," says Ciara. "The coolest thing about Steve & Barry's is they cater to everyday people. I won't say that my line will be like theirs, I want to stay true to who I am, but most importantly it has to be affordable."
Ciara is also in the midst of prepping her third album, "Fantasy Ride," set for September via Jive. Her last album, 2006's "Evolution," has sold 1.3 million copies to-date, according to Nielsen SoundScan.
Black Celebrity Scoop: Serena Williams Not Voting for Obama, or Anyone
Serena Williams told reporters at Wimbledon on Wednesday that she's excited about Barack Obama's candidacy but won't vote for him because Jehovah's Witnesses "don't get involved in politics." Her sister Venus—who is also a Jehovah's Witness—wouldn't even comment on the presidential election. Why don't Jehovah's Witnesses vote?
Because of John 17:14 and other passages in the Bible. In that verse, Jesus says of his followers: "They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world." Jehovah's Witnesses have interpreted that statement as a call to remain neutral in all political matters. (In some of the sect's literature, members are described as "representatives of God's heavenly kingdom"; they are thus obligated to stay out of local political affairs in keeping with the behavior of ambassadors.) Witnesses also refrain from serving in the military, running for public office, and pledging allegiance to the flag.
Voting is not expressly prohibited, but it is discouraged. The Watchtower, the official publication of the Jehovah's Witnesses, ran an article in 1999 suggesting that the decision whether to vote was one of personal conscience, although it carefully laid out reasons for staying out of the voting booth. In reference to countries that require all citizens to show up at the ballot box, the Watchtower has explained that "[w]here Caesar makes it compulsory for citizens to vote … [Jehovah's Witnesses] can go to the polls and enter the voting booths," but the Watchtower did not specify what Witnesses should do with the ballot itself. According to some, the requirement for political neutrality led to the violent persecution of Witnesses in Malawi during the late 1960s and early 1970s, when adherents refused to register with the ruling Congress Party.
Friday, June 27, 2008
what's going on this weekend?
Man, what a weekend for Columbus partiers.
Friday, two major events vie for nightlife fans' attention:
First, there's the Chippendales show at Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive. Show starts at 9 p.m. and doors open at 7 p.m. Tickets are $20. Call 706-358-7128.
So in one corner, you have guys in tight pleather pants. And in the other...
The grand opening of new nightlife destination H20, formerly Muldoon's. Refer to the photos I posted earlier this week. It's at 6499 Veterans Parkway and doors open at 5:30 p.m. It's free before 8:30 p.m., and then cover is $15. There's a dress code, so dress to impress.
Also, don't forget about the Aflac Outdoor Games, which run Friday through Sunday at South Commons. Read more here.
What am I doing this weekend? Well, tonight I'm making a short post-work detour to hang out with some people who have a vampire house. Loooong story. You'll get the full recap Monday.
Then, I have to cover the Miss Georgia pageant at the RiverCenter Saturday night. But I'm still going to hit downtown after that, so be sure to say hi if you see me partying at The Tap.
One more thing...click here to check out the Richard Hyatt column I inspired. He raises a good question, one that I still don't really know how to answer:
Where can bald guys with beer guts hang out?
Friday, two major events vie for nightlife fans' attention:
First, there's the Chippendales show at Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive. Show starts at 9 p.m. and doors open at 7 p.m. Tickets are $20. Call 706-358-7128.
So in one corner, you have guys in tight pleather pants. And in the other...
The grand opening of new nightlife destination H20, formerly Muldoon's. Refer to the photos I posted earlier this week. It's at 6499 Veterans Parkway and doors open at 5:30 p.m. It's free before 8:30 p.m., and then cover is $15. There's a dress code, so dress to impress.
Also, don't forget about the Aflac Outdoor Games, which run Friday through Sunday at South Commons. Read more here.
What am I doing this weekend? Well, tonight I'm making a short post-work detour to hang out with some people who have a vampire house. Loooong story. You'll get the full recap Monday.
Then, I have to cover the Miss Georgia pageant at the RiverCenter Saturday night. But I'm still going to hit downtown after that, so be sure to say hi if you see me partying at The Tap.
One more thing...click here to check out the Richard Hyatt column I inspired. He raises a good question, one that I still don't really know how to answer:
Where can bald guys with beer guts hang out?
real housewives in the atl
Get ready, reality TV fans. Bravo has confirmed that "The Real Housewives of Atlanta" is really happening.
The show features five women in the Atlanta social scene. It's the newest installment in a TV franchise that also includes "The Real Housewives of Orange County" and "The Real Housewives of New York City."
A 30-minute preview will air at midnight July 30. A premiere date hasn't been set.
Read bios of the featured women here.
Thoughts?
The show features five women in the Atlanta social scene. It's the newest installment in a TV franchise that also includes "The Real Housewives of Orange County" and "The Real Housewives of New York City."
A 30-minute preview will air at midnight July 30. A premiere date hasn't been set.
Read bios of the featured women here.
Thoughts?
one two step
Just curious...do any of you guys watch "So You Think You Can Dance"?
At risk of destroying my nonexistent coolness cred, I'll admit I've been watching the show this season. It's a decision inspired by a variety of factors:
1. Desire to improve my moves
2. Moderate boredom
3. Spandex fetish
4. Girl crush on host Cat Deeley
Anyway, I'm thinking about posting some weekly recaps/commentary on the show here, and I'd like your input. Go!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
it's raining men
Happy Thursday!
My nightlife column today is about Friday's Chippendales performance at Aqua Nightclub. Mmm. Actually, I've been to a variety of male dance revues. My main impression? Let's just say you'll never look at a sock the same way again.
Male burlesque shows: comic relief or sexual healing?
(The Chippendales show starts at 9 p.m. Friday at 1812 Midtown Drive. Doors open at 7 p.m. Tickets are $20. Call 706-358-7128.)
My nightlife column today is about Friday's Chippendales performance at Aqua Nightclub. Mmm. Actually, I've been to a variety of male dance revues. My main impression? Let's just say you'll never look at a sock the same way again.
Male burlesque shows: comic relief or sexual healing?
(The Chippendales show starts at 9 p.m. Friday at 1812 Midtown Drive. Doors open at 7 p.m. Tickets are $20. Call 706-358-7128.)
TD Jakes' Youngest Daughter Weds
Sarah Jakes, TD Jakes' youngest daughter, married her college sweetheart, Robert Henson, in a star-studded wedding on Saturday, June 21, 2008. Everyone from Carl Thomas to Tom Joyner to Tyler Perry were in attendance. Sarah's older sister, Cora, was maid-of-honor.
Sarah & Robert Henson
Daddy-Daughter Dance
Ready to take on the world together!!!The #1 advice given to the happy couple is to COMMUNICATE! May God continue to bless them!
photos from essence.com & ranceelgin.com
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
thanks, twins!
Imagine how all my journalistic fantasies were fulfilled when I found an article with this real headline:
"Harnessing the untapped power of breast motion."
Immediately, I was reminded of the character in "Mean Girls" who thinks her boobs can forecast the weather. But the aforementioned article is way more high-tech than that. An excerpt:
It turns out that the physics of breast motion have been studied closely for the last two decades by a gamut of researchers, most of them women. LaJean Lawson, a former professor of exercise science at Oregon State University, has studied breast motion since 1985 and now works as a consultant for companies like Nike to develop better sports bra designs. Lawson was enthusiastic about my idea but warned it would be tricky to pull off. You would need the right breast size and the right material, she explained, and the bra itself would have to be cleverly designed. "It's just a matter of finding the sweet spot, between reducing motion to the point where it's comfortable but still allowing enough motion to power your iPod," she said.
That's some pretty sweet technology. OK, ladies: If you could power one device with your chest, what would it be?
"Harnessing the untapped power of breast motion."
Immediately, I was reminded of the character in "Mean Girls" who thinks her boobs can forecast the weather. But the aforementioned article is way more high-tech than that. An excerpt:
It turns out that the physics of breast motion have been studied closely for the last two decades by a gamut of researchers, most of them women. LaJean Lawson, a former professor of exercise science at Oregon State University, has studied breast motion since 1985 and now works as a consultant for companies like Nike to develop better sports bra designs. Lawson was enthusiastic about my idea but warned it would be tricky to pull off. You would need the right breast size and the right material, she explained, and the bra itself would have to be cleverly designed. "It's just a matter of finding the sweet spot, between reducing motion to the point where it's comfortable but still allowing enough motion to power your iPod," she said.
That's some pretty sweet technology. OK, ladies: If you could power one device with your chest, what would it be?
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
dive in
Yesterday, I blogged about high-tech H2O. Now, I'm taking on the opposite side of the nightlife scene.
Here's an article about the best, worst and dirtiest dive bars in the U.S. No, there aren't any entries from Columbus, but I think some of our hot spots could seriously make the cut.
I've been doing my bar profile feature in the To Do section for a little over a year now, and I've explored some places that most people are afraid to enter. BJ's Brew and Cue. Bobby's Bar. Gray's Bar. Pop-A-Top. You get the idea.
As much as some people in the office make fun of me for doing dive spots as bar profiles, believe it or not I get the most feedback on those articles. At least 10 people called me thanking me for introducing them to Pop-A-Top. I guess that's a good thing. Maybe.
Anyway, now I want your votes for memorable Columbus dives. Per the article's inspiration, your categories are best, worst and dirtiest. What's more, I'd like your definitions of what makes a bar a "dive."
I'll post results -- as well as a compilation of my dive bar experiences -- later this week.
(And don't worry, Troy, your Sputnik bar profile is coming up.)
Here's an article about the best, worst and dirtiest dive bars in the U.S. No, there aren't any entries from Columbus, but I think some of our hot spots could seriously make the cut.
I've been doing my bar profile feature in the To Do section for a little over a year now, and I've explored some places that most people are afraid to enter. BJ's Brew and Cue. Bobby's Bar. Gray's Bar. Pop-A-Top. You get the idea.
As much as some people in the office make fun of me for doing dive spots as bar profiles, believe it or not I get the most feedback on those articles. At least 10 people called me thanking me for introducing them to Pop-A-Top. I guess that's a good thing. Maybe.
Anyway, now I want your votes for memorable Columbus dives. Per the article's inspiration, your categories are best, worst and dirtiest. What's more, I'd like your definitions of what makes a bar a "dive."
I'll post results -- as well as a compilation of my dive bar experiences -- later this week.
(And don't worry, Troy, your Sputnik bar profile is coming up.)
Summer Trend 2008: Oversized Rings
Seen on some of the hottest celebrities around, oversized rings (i.e. cocktail rings)instantly add star power to any outfit. Since this piece will be large and in charge, I recommend keeping the rest of your jewelry understated.
Interested in one of the rings featured above? Click here to explore.
Monday, June 23, 2008
h two oh wow
Last Friday, I got a preview look at new nightlife hot spot H2O during an invite-only premiere party. The club hosts its official grand opening this Friday.
I'd heard a lot about the new hot spot, formerly Muldoon's, and was anxious to see how it compared to the hype. My impressions? Well, as far as interior design goes, there's no other club in Columbus like it. H2O spans two levels, and includes two bar areas (one of which is a lounge-type setup that's set off from the central party space).
Other draws include its laser light show, and the live music setup. Bands perform on the club's second level, and the acoustics are excellent.
How will H20 fare in the larger nightlife scene? It's hard to tell. The draws are definitely there, and I guess it will boil down to sustaining a large crowd on a week-by-week basis. And if it succeeds, the club could pose a real threat to some of the other prominent hot spots. I'll look forward to seeing what they do to up their games.
Anyway, here are some photos from Friday's shindig, courtesy of Alan Riquelmy:
I'd heard a lot about the new hot spot, formerly Muldoon's, and was anxious to see how it compared to the hype. My impressions? Well, as far as interior design goes, there's no other club in Columbus like it. H2O spans two levels, and includes two bar areas (one of which is a lounge-type setup that's set off from the central party space).
Other draws include its laser light show, and the live music setup. Bands perform on the club's second level, and the acoustics are excellent.
How will H20 fare in the larger nightlife scene? It's hard to tell. The draws are definitely there, and I guess it will boil down to sustaining a large crowd on a week-by-week basis. And if it succeeds, the club could pose a real threat to some of the other prominent hot spots. I'll look forward to seeing what they do to up their games.
Anyway, here are some photos from Friday's shindig, courtesy of Alan Riquelmy:
hot nerd girls
Happy Monday!
Here's an article about nerdy girls' growing sex appeal. It notes: "The new, tech-savvy, sci-fi loving nerd looks more like a cheerleader than a mouse: this week's Newsweek introduces us to the new nerd girls, 'they're smart, they're techie and they're hot.'"
Who is your favorite "nerd girl" from popular culture?
I'll start. I kind of loved it when Tori Spelling played nerdy Violet Bickerstaff on "Saved by the Bell." Screech should have totally hit that.
(Photos of new Columbus nightclub H2O will be posted shortly, nightlife fans.)
Sunday, June 22, 2008
35th Annual Daytime Emmy Awards
Here are some candids from the 35th Annual Daytime Emmy Awards.
Hosts Sherri Shepherd and Cameron Mathison
Eva Marcille with her man, Lance Gross.
Who would've thought Tyra Banks would win for Outstanding Informative Talk Show???
Christel Khalil of the Young and the Restless
Kristoff St. John of Y&R won for Oustanding Supporting Actor in a Drama Series. He brought his cute daughter to the event with him.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Black Hair Care: Who Runs the Black Hair Market?
This amazing documentary does a wonderful job of showing what goes on with black hair and the black hair care market. It certainly makes you think about where black women are getting their hair care products, and how this effects the African American community. Black women need good hair care, it is essential. What is interesting is that most of this industry is controlled by Koreans. Not to be racist against the Koreans, but black people may need to think of ways that we can get in on some of this!
Friday, June 20, 2008
what's going on this weekend?
Breaking news: Tonight, I'm hitting up a preview party for H2O, the hot spot formerly known as Muldoon's. It opens to the public a week from today. This place is huge. It's expanded to include an upper level, plus what's supposed to be a pretty cool light show. Some people say it rivals Vegas. We'll see about that. Look for pics Monday.
A couple other things to keep in mind:
*Friday, there's a "beat the pump" party at Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive. Look forward to $1 bottles of beer, no cover, and giveaways for free gas. There's also supposed to be some Super Soaker-like device that shoots beer. Hmm. Bar opens at 7 p.m.
*Don't forget that Saturday is Family Day in the Park at Cooper Creek Park off Milgen Road. It's free. If you're a hip-hop fan, this means you'll be looking forward to seeing acts like Nappy Roots and Pleasure P. If you're not a hip-hop fan, you'll likely spend the entire day trying to avoid the unbearable traffic. Stay AWAY from Milgen Road. And the mall.
*Saturday is also Bark in the Park -- when Columbus Catfish fans can let their dogs watch the ballgame. The action starts at 7 p.m.
*Also on Sunday, I'd be remiss if I didn't give one more plug for Chain Reaction, the Journey tribute band playing at The Roadhouse. Show starts at 10 p.m. and cover is $5.
*One more random suggestion: Have you guys ever been to the Korean karaoke bar? Yes, that really exists in Columbus. It's called the Evergreen Cafe and it's at 5870 Veterans Parkway. Good times, trust me.
A couple other things to keep in mind:
*Friday, there's a "beat the pump" party at Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive. Look forward to $1 bottles of beer, no cover, and giveaways for free gas. There's also supposed to be some Super Soaker-like device that shoots beer. Hmm. Bar opens at 7 p.m.
*Don't forget that Saturday is Family Day in the Park at Cooper Creek Park off Milgen Road. It's free. If you're a hip-hop fan, this means you'll be looking forward to seeing acts like Nappy Roots and Pleasure P. If you're not a hip-hop fan, you'll likely spend the entire day trying to avoid the unbearable traffic. Stay AWAY from Milgen Road. And the mall.
*Saturday is also Bark in the Park -- when Columbus Catfish fans can let their dogs watch the ballgame. The action starts at 7 p.m.
*Also on Sunday, I'd be remiss if I didn't give one more plug for Chain Reaction, the Journey tribute band playing at The Roadhouse. Show starts at 10 p.m. and cover is $5.
*One more random suggestion: Have you guys ever been to the Korean karaoke bar? Yes, that really exists in Columbus. It's called the Evergreen Cafe and it's at 5870 Veterans Parkway. Good times, trust me.
bottoms up
TGIF.
To celebrate the weekend, here's a list of "40 things every drunkard should do before he dies." I think its source -- Modern Drunkard Magazine Online -- might be more amusing than some of the actual submissions, but you get the idea.
Some of the ideas are valid, some aren't. See No. 27: "Get loaded and tell your boss exactly how you feel."
I'd include a night of beer pong -- or better yet, "I Never" -- to the list.
What about you?
To celebrate the weekend, here's a list of "40 things every drunkard should do before he dies." I think its source -- Modern Drunkard Magazine Online -- might be more amusing than some of the actual submissions, but you get the idea.
Some of the ideas are valid, some aren't. See No. 27: "Get loaded and tell your boss exactly how you feel."
I'd include a night of beer pong -- or better yet, "I Never" -- to the list.
What about you?
New York & Company is on SALE!
New York & Company is having a unbelievable sale and I MUST be apart of it. Whenever I hear of a retailer offering clothing starting at $5.99, the question is NOT whether I'll be there..it's when will I be there! Visit the site or stop in the store to snag some of these CRAZY deals. If you get something fabulous, let ME hear about in the comments.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
what's going on tonight?
Here's your Thursday night lineup. Don't forget about $1 beer at the Columbus Catfish game. The action starts at 7 p.m.
Other party spots:
*The Roadhouse, 1047 Broadway, has a dance party with DJ Kenny Wayne. Specials include 50-cent draft beer. No cover. The action starts at 9 p.m.
*Soho Bar & Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, hosts a performance by Cleveland-based acoustic rock act Genuine Sun. Show starts at 10 p.m. Cover is $5, free for military. 706-568-3316.
*Atlanta-based rock act Connor Christian and the MorningStar Revival takes the stage at Scruffy Murphy's, 1037 Broadway, at 10 p.m. No cover. 706-322-3460.
*Java Monkey -- an Atlanta-based act that plays classic rock, jazz and blues tunes -- performs at Belloo's, 900 Front Ave. Show starts at 10 p.m. Cover is $5. 706-494-1584.
*Not into live music? Head to Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive, and participate in the hot spot's poker league. There's a $100 cash prize and no buy-in. Game starts at 7 p.m., but players can arrive until around 8 p.m. 706-358-7128.
Have fun!
Other party spots:
*The Roadhouse, 1047 Broadway, has a dance party with DJ Kenny Wayne. Specials include 50-cent draft beer. No cover. The action starts at 9 p.m.
*Soho Bar & Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, hosts a performance by Cleveland-based acoustic rock act Genuine Sun. Show starts at 10 p.m. Cover is $5, free for military. 706-568-3316.
*Atlanta-based rock act Connor Christian and the MorningStar Revival takes the stage at Scruffy Murphy's, 1037 Broadway, at 10 p.m. No cover. 706-322-3460.
*Java Monkey -- an Atlanta-based act that plays classic rock, jazz and blues tunes -- performs at Belloo's, 900 Front Ave. Show starts at 10 p.m. Cover is $5. 706-494-1584.
*Not into live music? Head to Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive, and participate in the hot spot's poker league. There's a $100 cash prize and no buy-in. Game starts at 7 p.m., but players can arrive until around 8 p.m. 706-358-7128.
Have fun!
old people having sex
Here's a cool/weird/hot/scary article about the growing Japanese market for "elder porn."
It focuses on a guy who's appeared in about 350 films over the past 14 years. His age? 74.
Question: Do you ever hit a point of maturity when its no longer "gross" to think about couples decades older than you doing the deed?
(For a slightly tamer look at Japanese culture, check out my co-worker Sandra's vacation recap here.)
It focuses on a guy who's appeared in about 350 films over the past 14 years. His age? 74.
Question: Do you ever hit a point of maturity when its no longer "gross" to think about couples decades older than you doing the deed?
(For a slightly tamer look at Japanese culture, check out my co-worker Sandra's vacation recap here.)
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
um, slater?
No, you're not looking at the explicit version of Bayside High's yearbook.
Mario Lopez has been named People's Hottest Bachelor.
It's a tough bit of news to grasp, especially if you're still recovering from "Saved by the Bell" clips like this one. Or this one. And finally, this one.
Thoughts?
(Photo via People.)
don't play that
Here's an amusing list of 14 songs you should never play in a bar.
Predictably, the submissions include sing-a-long cringers like "Sweet Home Alabama" and "I Will Survive." Honestly, the songs don't bother me that much. Do I request them? No. But they're just kind of tunes that you resign yourself to hearing upon entering a typical nightlife venue.
I used to gag every time I heard "Family Tradition." Now I sing along.
If I had to pick one song that I absolutely, absolutely HATE to hear cover bands play, it would be "Last Kiss." Hands down.
Maybe it's because I once asked a local band if they knew any Pearl Jam and that's all they came up with. So no, they didn't call me daughter, and I wasn't the least bit happy about it.
Which bar song do you hate most?
Predictably, the submissions include sing-a-long cringers like "Sweet Home Alabama" and "I Will Survive." Honestly, the songs don't bother me that much. Do I request them? No. But they're just kind of tunes that you resign yourself to hearing upon entering a typical nightlife venue.
I used to gag every time I heard "Family Tradition." Now I sing along.
If I had to pick one song that I absolutely, absolutely HATE to hear cover bands play, it would be "Last Kiss." Hands down.
Maybe it's because I once asked a local band if they knew any Pearl Jam and that's all they came up with. So no, they didn't call me daughter, and I wasn't the least bit happy about it.
Which bar song do you hate most?
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Heidi Klum Get A Tattoo In Her Hand
Heidi Klum looks spectacular leaving her apartment, today, June 16. I can’t get over how wonderful she looks, just like she’s in the page of a magazine. She also is sporting a tattoo that is real or fake, no one knows. But whatever it is…it looks great on her. She could for sure pull something like that off.source : backseatcuddler.com
Usher Defend The Reason Why Ladies Are Lesbians?
Usher is crazy! He thinks he needs to defend the reason why ladies are lesbians…“Women have started to become lovers of each other as a result of not having enough men.”
Seriously Usher, they have become lovers of each other because they aren’t into men.
source : backseatcuddler.com
Charlize Theron Cover Girl In GQ Magazine July 2008
Charlize Theron is GQ (UK edition) magazine’s cover girl for July 2008. Charlize is looking smoking hot lately. Inside she brings up a good point on why people go to therapy…“I think a lot of people go to therapy because they don’t know how to deal with the dark shit in their normal lives. They have to do this one hour a week just to keep them sane. Maybe I do this [acting] instead. Maybe that’s why I’m so boring and I don’t have a lot of bullshit in my life. I think it’s healthy to go to these dark places. It’s cathartic for sure.”
I think that I need to get into acting then. Why not be someone else that has a ton of problems, and you can get paid for it instead of paying someone else.
Source : backseatcuddler.com
Paris Hilton Don't Want a New Puppy
Paris Hilton may have Benji Madden wrapped around her little bejeweled finger, but she can’t get her way all the time. And boy, does that make her maaaaaddddd!!!! Recently she was on her way to a photo shoot when she up and decided she “wanted a puppy in the picture with her so it would look cuter.” So she stopped by - where else? - The Puppy Store in L.A. But according to Page Six, Paris was rebuffed by an employee who said it was clearly “an impulse buy.” Hilton, who has a menagerie of neglected animals, went “ballistic,” we’re told. “She started screaming, ‘I love my puppies! I want my baby!’” - but to no avail.source : backseatcuddler.com
just a small town girl
I pretty much peed my pants -- OK, not really, that's gross -- when I learned Journey tribute band Chain Reaction is performing at The Roadhouse Saturday night.
Many of you have probably watched me dance to "Any Way You Want It." I apologize for that.
My fascination with Journey is weird. I used to laugh when my college roommate, Benita, busted out her Journey CD. Then, possibly overnight, an obsession with the band hit me.
Now, Journey fever is back in full effect, thanks to the band's new frontman. Who, incidentally, was discovered via YouTube. Get the whole story in this excellent TIME article.
Anyway, don't stop believing.
(Saturday's Chain Reaction show, by the way, starts at 10 p.m. Cover is $5. The bar's at 1047 Broadway.)
Many of you have probably watched me dance to "Any Way You Want It." I apologize for that.
My fascination with Journey is weird. I used to laugh when my college roommate, Benita, busted out her Journey CD. Then, possibly overnight, an obsession with the band hit me.
Now, Journey fever is back in full effect, thanks to the band's new frontman. Who, incidentally, was discovered via YouTube. Get the whole story in this excellent TIME article.
Anyway, don't stop believing.
(Saturday's Chain Reaction show, by the way, starts at 10 p.m. Cover is $5. The bar's at 1047 Broadway.)
ME Loves: Silver Sandals
With my sister's wedding on the horizon, I'll admit that I've caught wedding fever. It's actually quite contagious and there have been recent reports that many have catch it after reading this post. The symptoms include: double and triple checking guest lists, prank calling wedding planners, bribing local talent to perform for the BIG day and in rare cases, attacking the groom for absolutely no reason. Should any of my readers exhibit the following symptoms, please report to the nearest wedding, eat a piece of wedding cake, digest with milk and call ME in the morning. Got your eye on one of those sandals? Click here for more info.
Monday, June 16, 2008
the monday moan
Today's question is the real headline of this interesting article:
"Are men boring?"
The premise: The article suggests that in social situations, men add less to conversations -- for a variety of reasons.
What do you think, ladies? How do your conversation skills compare to your significant other's?
And guys...what are your thoughts on the aforementioned article?
"Are men boring?"
The premise: The article suggests that in social situations, men add less to conversations -- for a variety of reasons.
What do you think, ladies? How do your conversation skills compare to your significant other's?
And guys...what are your thoughts on the aforementioned article?
the other beer
Hope everyone had a great weekend. Mine was fantastic, and you'll hear all about it later.
Unfortunately, I'm a little swamped with work right now, so I'll leave you with a bit of sweet news.
A&W is offering free root beer floats today, supposedly to provide some economic relief to our nation. Read more here.
Drink away, bitches.
Unfortunately, I'm a little swamped with work right now, so I'll leave you with a bit of sweet news.
A&W is offering free root beer floats today, supposedly to provide some economic relief to our nation. Read more here.
Drink away, bitches.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Superhead's boyfriend Tells His Side of the Story in a Restraining Order
"Respondent (Steffans) has been physically abusive, has made threats and has been stalking me." "Several months ago she (Steffans) attempted to attack me in the bedroom. She lunged at me and tried to choke me and had both hands around my neck. She then locked herself inside the bathroom. When she came out she had marked up her own neck, and said, "Yeah muthaf*cka this is going to look really good!" "Respondent (Steffans) has been checking my email and voicemail without authorization.""She (Steffans) has hurt herself before and threatened that she would report me to the authorities on multiple occasions. She has followed me to auditions. She has showed up on the set during filming where I was working. She has broken my property and caused significant damage to my vehicle." "I've (Darius McCray) also witnessed her abuse her soon. I've seen her slap her 10 year old son across the face with such force that her son fell to the ground in tears. She has called him names like monkey and stupid. She has asked him questions like, WHAT THE F*CK IS WRONG WITH YOU?" "When I (Darius) told her I was going to leave her, she (Steffans) pulled out two large chef knives and stood with both of her hands raised towards me. She called her son into the room, and stated, THIS IS MY ACCOMPLICE. HOW MANY PIECES DO YOU WANT TO LEAVE IN MUTHERF*CKER!"
friend request denied
TGIF!
It's Friday, which means you're probably spending at least 30 minutes of valuable company time on the social networking site of your choice.
Or else.
Some 39 percent of 18- to 24-year-olds would leave their job if a Facebook ban was imposed, survey results in this article say.
What do you think? Are we part of a generation of spoiled, lazy workers? Or has Facebook grown to be part of the professional equation?
It's Friday, which means you're probably spending at least 30 minutes of valuable company time on the social networking site of your choice.
Or else.
Some 39 percent of 18- to 24-year-olds would leave their job if a Facebook ban was imposed, survey results in this article say.
What do you think? Are we part of a generation of spoiled, lazy workers? Or has Facebook grown to be part of the professional equation?
ME Loves: Summer Pedicures
Nothing signifies Summer more than a fresh pedicure poking out from my favorite sandals. This Summer, I intend to spice things up a bit and deviate from my normal french pedicure. Neon is so now but for you divas not yet ready to take the plunge, muted undertones might be right up your alley. This summer I must try these two colors: Navy (1st shelf, 6th from the right) and Neon Yellow (2nd shelf, 3rd from the right). Wanna try a polish above for your summer pedicure? Click here to explore.
Oprah Ranks #1 on the Forbes Celebrities List
Oprah Winfrey, Jay-Z, Tiger Woods and Beyonce all made the top 10 in the Forbes most powerful celebrities list. Oprah earned an astounding $275M last year before taxes. Harry Potter author JK Rolling was the highest paid celebrity on the list, earning $300M from her books, films and merchandise.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Jada Pinkett Smith Speaks on motherhood
Jada Pinkett Smith talks about motherhood, the ups and downs and in betweens.
Being married to Will Smith might be more typical than we think!
Being married to Will Smith might be more typical than we think!
old school
Check out this real 1930s Marital Rating Scale, women's edition. Rate yourself accordingly, and then be glad we live in a society where (in most places) you don't get relationship demerits for wearing red nail polish.
Wendy Williams Husband Accused of Trying to Murder Miss Jones at Hot 97
Wendy Williams husband Kevin Hunter was recently accused of trying to have Miss Jones, the rival DJ at Hot 97 killed after she said some nasty words about Wendy Williams. The allegations were made in a federal lawsuit filed by Nicole Spence, Wendy's long-time assistant, who has accused Kevin Hunter of sexual harrassment.
Hunter was recently caught on tape having sex with a woman that is not his wife. This has added fuel to the speculation that some of the rumors about his behavior are true.
what's going on tonight?
Here are your Thursday night party spots:
*The Roadhouse, 1047 Broadway, opens its doors to Thursday night partiers. Expect dance music, no cover and 50-cent draft beer. The action begins at 9 p.m.
*The local Southern rockers from Whisky Bent take the stage at Scruffy Murphy's, 1037 Broadway. Show starts at 10 p.m. No cover. 706-322-3460.
*Soho Bar and Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, hosts the Boston-based rockers from indie act Endway. It's at 10 p.m. Cover is $5, free for military. 706-568-3316.
*Not into live music? Play poker at Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive. The Vegas giveaways are over, but each Thursday night game gives away $100. Game starts at 7 p.m. No entry fee. 706-358-7128.
*The Roadhouse, 1047 Broadway, opens its doors to Thursday night partiers. Expect dance music, no cover and 50-cent draft beer. The action begins at 9 p.m.
*The local Southern rockers from Whisky Bent take the stage at Scruffy Murphy's, 1037 Broadway. Show starts at 10 p.m. No cover. 706-322-3460.
*Soho Bar and Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, hosts the Boston-based rockers from indie act Endway. It's at 10 p.m. Cover is $5, free for military. 706-568-3316.
*Not into live music? Play poker at Aqua Nightclub, 1812 Midtown Drive. The Vegas giveaways are over, but each Thursday night game gives away $100. Game starts at 7 p.m. No entry fee. 706-358-7128.
strawberry slut-cake
The NY Times wrote this article about how Strawberry Shortcake is getting a (slightly sexy) makeover to better appeal to 21st century fans. Click on the aforementioned link to see her new look.
(Hint: I'd hit that.)
Cashing in on renewed Strawberry Shortcake fever, this piece estimates the real-life cost of the cartoon heroine's cosmetic procedures. The appearance overhaul, plastic surgery and all, totals $23,675.19.
Which old-school cartoon star do you think is most in need of some sluttification?
damn!
That's among the reader submissions on this article regarding the top 10 bad pickup lines.
Disclaimer: "Damn!" was submitted by a guy with the screen name Nasty1, so do with it what you'd like.
Anyway, the entries on the top 10 list are pretty predictable, with one especially stellar standout: "Great legs, what time do they open?"
I think my favorite recent pickup line came when I was at local dive joint BJ's doing a bar profile. As I took out my notebook to jot down beer prices, the guy next to me said, "You getting ready to write down my phone number?"
"A" for effort.
Heard any good ones lately?
Disclaimer: "Damn!" was submitted by a guy with the screen name Nasty1, so do with it what you'd like.
Anyway, the entries on the top 10 list are pretty predictable, with one especially stellar standout: "Great legs, what time do they open?"
I think my favorite recent pickup line came when I was at local dive joint BJ's doing a bar profile. As I took out my notebook to jot down beer prices, the guy next to me said, "You getting ready to write down my phone number?"
"A" for effort.
Heard any good ones lately?
Michelle Obama Referred to as Barack's Baby Mama by Fox News
Michelle Obama is referred to as a "Baby Mama" by Fox News. The black community is outraged over this statement and considers it to be an insult. This is not the first time that Fox has insulted the black community. It has allowed Bill O'Reilly, one of it's most prominent talk show hosts, to refer to actually lynching Michelle Obama. Additionally, it has paid many African American commentators to say degrading things about the black community.
Michelle Obama and Barack Obama haven't responded to the statements, but many in the black community are concerned about the racism terrorism used by Fox News in this election.
The video is below.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
century club
Check out this article about a Denver Post reporter who made a pact with his wife to have sex every day for 100 days.
Then, conveniently, he wrote a book about it.
Ladies...what kind of response do you think you'd get if you suggested this idea to your significant other? What would you say if he suggested it to you?
(After clicking on the aforementioned link, be sure to check out the online reader comments that accompany the article. My favorite: "The press and TV which you have inherited reek of your unshaven BO and BS." I can only imagine what kind of comments we'd get if the Ledger posted a similar article.)
Then, conveniently, he wrote a book about it.
Ladies...what kind of response do you think you'd get if you suggested this idea to your significant other? What would you say if he suggested it to you?
(After clicking on the aforementioned link, be sure to check out the online reader comments that accompany the article. My favorite: "The press and TV which you have inherited reek of your unshaven BO and BS." I can only imagine what kind of comments we'd get if the Ledger posted a similar article.)
Bill Clinton's Celebrity Lifestyle May Have Involved Black Prostitutes and Black Offspring
The British Press has continued its investigation into Clinton's affair with the black Little Rock prostitute Bobby Ann Williams. London Daily Mail columnist James Dalrymple, wrote on Jan. 14, 1997, that Bobby Ann Williams and her sister Lucille Bolton passed two lie detector tests proclaiming that Clinton is the father of her illegitimate son Danny. Arkansas State Trooper Buddy Young states that in 1983, he drove Clinton and the black women to his mother's home near Hot Springs for a sex orgy. Clinton's mother was conveniently out-of-town. In 1984 Bobby Ann had a baby boy she named Danny. He looks exactly like Clinton. He has refused to take a blood test to confirm or deny the allegation.
ME Loves Color: Purple and Silver
Purple has always been one of my favorite colors. Every fashion mag will have you believing that it's only appropriate to wear during the Fall but I beg to differ. Purple and silver is one of those color combos that will always add freshness to your wardrobe. To take it one step further, purple comes in a variety of shades and tends to complement most skin tones. So I say shake it up a bit and add a hint of purple/silver to your summer wardrobe. Got your eyes one of those items above? Click here to explore.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
A Black Lawyer's Take on the R. Kelly Trial
by Jamal Wright, Esq.
The talented R&B singer, who has been charged with multiple counts of possession of child pornography, is in the final days of the trial of his life in Chicago. Having beaten his first child pornography case in Florida in 2004 on a technicality, he is up against much tougher odds in this case. Namely, he’s up against strong evidence in the form of a certain infamous videotape.
During the Florida case about explicit photos, his attorneys argued successfully that the main evidence against him should be suppressed due to a faulty process of search and seizure. Prosecutors were defeated, citing the difficulties of connecting evidence to Kelly that the jury can’t even know exists. This time Kelly is facing more motivated prosecutors and up to 15 years in the slammer.
At the beginning of this trial in Chicago, the linchpin evidence didn’t get suppressed. The jury was forced to sit through the entire video. Not good. The defense was forced to resort to ridiculous assertions like the notion that the tape had been doctored or that it was someone else besides the world-famous Kelly, on the tape. Imagine that. One of the biggest stars in the world forced to deny his own image in a video that everybody knows is him. It’s like an episode of the Twilight Zone.
He’s toast.
But all the Kelly-funded children’s charities in the world won’t help me muster up an ounce of sympathy for him. Mostly because I think he’s guilty. But also because I believe he’s either stupid or crazy.
Crazy is more forgivable. He may be a sick man. Evidence certainly would support it. You don’t to have to Google his name to know what his reputation is. In an affidavit filed in a 2005 civil case, Jay-Z alleged that Kelly would treat tour audiences to videos of himself with young girls simulating sex acts. He makes videotapes of himself with underage females and allows the tapes out of his sight. Classic crazy. That reeks of someone who doesn’t know right from wrong, even after he was charged earlier for the same type of stuff in Florida. He certainly can’t control his fix.
If he’s sick, then he needs help and this situation is probably the best way for him to get it.
If he’s stupid, it’s unforgivable. It’s unforgivable because he’s blessed with the money to have the best management around him. The type of management that would advise him not to film himself committing felonies with a minor in a such a way that makes a prosecutor smile. A bunch of fellas that would tell him of all he had to lose.
It’s not over for Kelly. The case is scheduled to go to the jury very soon. Every case comes down to the jury’s view. They could view him as an honest business man getting hassled or as a charitable superstar. They could let him go. They could give him the opportunity to help himself on his own.
What can we learn from this?
Here’s the advice Kelly could’ve paid for, but you get for free.
Stay away from committing criminal acts, obviously. But if you absolutely must go criminal, never take pictures of yourself committing a crime. I cringe when I see young males in the inner-city taking pictures holding joints or drinking under age. Detectives and prosecutors have another name for these pictures. Evidence.
I would expand this rule outside of law and say never take a picture doing something you would have trouble explaining to your 11 year-old grand kid when you’re 72. Once a picture hits the internet, it’s out of your hands forever the control over who sees it and under what context it is seen.
In essence, Myspace, is not really yours.
And it isn’t R Kelly’s either. He should’ve known that. But maybe he’s just crazy.
by Jamal Wright, Attorney at Law
The talented R&B singer, who has been charged with multiple counts of possession of child pornography, is in the final days of the trial of his life in Chicago. Having beaten his first child pornography case in Florida in 2004 on a technicality, he is up against much tougher odds in this case. Namely, he’s up against strong evidence in the form of a certain infamous videotape.
During the Florida case about explicit photos, his attorneys argued successfully that the main evidence against him should be suppressed due to a faulty process of search and seizure. Prosecutors were defeated, citing the difficulties of connecting evidence to Kelly that the jury can’t even know exists. This time Kelly is facing more motivated prosecutors and up to 15 years in the slammer.
At the beginning of this trial in Chicago, the linchpin evidence didn’t get suppressed. The jury was forced to sit through the entire video. Not good. The defense was forced to resort to ridiculous assertions like the notion that the tape had been doctored or that it was someone else besides the world-famous Kelly, on the tape. Imagine that. One of the biggest stars in the world forced to deny his own image in a video that everybody knows is him. It’s like an episode of the Twilight Zone.
He’s toast.
But all the Kelly-funded children’s charities in the world won’t help me muster up an ounce of sympathy for him. Mostly because I think he’s guilty. But also because I believe he’s either stupid or crazy.
Crazy is more forgivable. He may be a sick man. Evidence certainly would support it. You don’t to have to Google his name to know what his reputation is. In an affidavit filed in a 2005 civil case, Jay-Z alleged that Kelly would treat tour audiences to videos of himself with young girls simulating sex acts. He makes videotapes of himself with underage females and allows the tapes out of his sight. Classic crazy. That reeks of someone who doesn’t know right from wrong, even after he was charged earlier for the same type of stuff in Florida. He certainly can’t control his fix.
If he’s sick, then he needs help and this situation is probably the best way for him to get it.
If he’s stupid, it’s unforgivable. It’s unforgivable because he’s blessed with the money to have the best management around him. The type of management that would advise him not to film himself committing felonies with a minor in a such a way that makes a prosecutor smile. A bunch of fellas that would tell him of all he had to lose.
It’s not over for Kelly. The case is scheduled to go to the jury very soon. Every case comes down to the jury’s view. They could view him as an honest business man getting hassled or as a charitable superstar. They could let him go. They could give him the opportunity to help himself on his own.
What can we learn from this?
Here’s the advice Kelly could’ve paid for, but you get for free.
Stay away from committing criminal acts, obviously. But if you absolutely must go criminal, never take pictures of yourself committing a crime. I cringe when I see young males in the inner-city taking pictures holding joints or drinking under age. Detectives and prosecutors have another name for these pictures. Evidence.
I would expand this rule outside of law and say never take a picture doing something you would have trouble explaining to your 11 year-old grand kid when you’re 72. Once a picture hits the internet, it’s out of your hands forever the control over who sees it and under what context it is seen.
In essence, Myspace, is not really yours.
And it isn’t R Kelly’s either. He should’ve known that. But maybe he’s just crazy.
by Jamal Wright, Attorney at Law
A Black Lawyer's Take on the R. Kelly Trial
by Jamal Wright, Esq.
The talented R&B singer, who has been charged with multiple counts of possession of child pornography, is in the final days of the trial of his life in Chicago. Having beaten his first child pornography case in Florida in 2004 on a technicality, he is up against much tougher odds in this case. Namely, he’s up against strong evidence in the form of a certain infamous videotape.
During the Florida case about explicit photos, his attorneys argued successfully that the main evidence against him should be suppressed due to a faulty process of search and seizure. Prosecutors were defeated, citing the difficulties of connecting evidence to Kelly that the jury can’t even know exists. This time Kelly is facing more motivated prosecutors and up to 15 years in the slammer.
At the beginning of this trial in Chicago, the linchpin evidence didn’t get suppressed. The jury was forced to sit through the entire video. Not good. The defense was forced to resort to ridiculous assertions like the notion that the tape had been doctored or that it was someone else besides the world-famous Kelly, on the tape. Imagine that. One of the biggest stars in the world forced to deny his own image in a video that everybody knows is him. It’s like an episode of the Twilight Zone.
He’s toast.
But all the Kelly-funded children’s charities in the world won’t help me muster up an ounce of sympathy for him. Mostly because I think he’s guilty. But also because I believe he’s either stupid or crazy.
Crazy is more forgivable. He may be a sick man. Evidence certainly would support it. You don’t to have to Google his name to know what his reputation is. In an affidavit filed in a 2005 civil case, Jay-Z alleged that Kelly would treat tour audiences to videos of himself with young girls simulating sex acts. He makes videotapes of himself with underage females and allows the tapes out of his sight. Classic crazy. That reeks of someone who doesn’t know right from wrong, even after he was charged earlier for the same type of stuff in Florida. He certainly can’t control his fix.
If he’s sick, then he needs help and this situation is probably the best way for him to get it.
If he’s stupid, it’s unforgivable. It’s unforgivable because he’s blessed with the money to have the best management around him. The type of management that would advise him not to film himself committing felonies with a minor in a such a way that makes a prosecutor smile. A bunch of fellas that would tell him of all he had to lose.
It’s not over for Kelly. The case is scheduled to go to the jury very soon. Every case comes down to the jury’s view. They could view him as an honest business man getting hassled or as a charitable superstar. They could let him go. They could give him the opportunity to help himself on his own.
What can we learn from this?
Here’s the advice Kelly could’ve paid for, but you get for free.
Stay away from committing criminal acts, obviously. But if you absolutely must go criminal, never take pictures of yourself committing a crime. I cringe when I see young males in the inner-city taking pictures holding joints or drinking under age. Detectives and prosecutors have another name for these pictures. Evidence.
I would expand this rule outside of law and say never take a picture doing something you would have trouble explaining to your 11 year-old grand kid when you’re 72. Once a picture hits the internet, it’s out of your hands forever the control over who sees it and under what context it is seen.
In essence, Myspace, is not really yours.
And it isn’t R Kelly’s either. He should’ve known that. But maybe he’s just crazy.
by Jamal Wright, Attorney at Law
The talented R&B singer, who has been charged with multiple counts of possession of child pornography, is in the final days of the trial of his life in Chicago. Having beaten his first child pornography case in Florida in 2004 on a technicality, he is up against much tougher odds in this case. Namely, he’s up against strong evidence in the form of a certain infamous videotape.
During the Florida case about explicit photos, his attorneys argued successfully that the main evidence against him should be suppressed due to a faulty process of search and seizure. Prosecutors were defeated, citing the difficulties of connecting evidence to Kelly that the jury can’t even know exists. This time Kelly is facing more motivated prosecutors and up to 15 years in the slammer.
At the beginning of this trial in Chicago, the linchpin evidence didn’t get suppressed. The jury was forced to sit through the entire video. Not good. The defense was forced to resort to ridiculous assertions like the notion that the tape had been doctored or that it was someone else besides the world-famous Kelly, on the tape. Imagine that. One of the biggest stars in the world forced to deny his own image in a video that everybody knows is him. It’s like an episode of the Twilight Zone.
He’s toast.
But all the Kelly-funded children’s charities in the world won’t help me muster up an ounce of sympathy for him. Mostly because I think he’s guilty. But also because I believe he’s either stupid or crazy.
Crazy is more forgivable. He may be a sick man. Evidence certainly would support it. You don’t to have to Google his name to know what his reputation is. In an affidavit filed in a 2005 civil case, Jay-Z alleged that Kelly would treat tour audiences to videos of himself with young girls simulating sex acts. He makes videotapes of himself with underage females and allows the tapes out of his sight. Classic crazy. That reeks of someone who doesn’t know right from wrong, even after he was charged earlier for the same type of stuff in Florida. He certainly can’t control his fix.
If he’s sick, then he needs help and this situation is probably the best way for him to get it.
If he’s stupid, it’s unforgivable. It’s unforgivable because he’s blessed with the money to have the best management around him. The type of management that would advise him not to film himself committing felonies with a minor in a such a way that makes a prosecutor smile. A bunch of fellas that would tell him of all he had to lose.
It’s not over for Kelly. The case is scheduled to go to the jury very soon. Every case comes down to the jury’s view. They could view him as an honest business man getting hassled or as a charitable superstar. They could let him go. They could give him the opportunity to help himself on his own.
What can we learn from this?
Here’s the advice Kelly could’ve paid for, but you get for free.
Stay away from committing criminal acts, obviously. But if you absolutely must go criminal, never take pictures of yourself committing a crime. I cringe when I see young males in the inner-city taking pictures holding joints or drinking under age. Detectives and prosecutors have another name for these pictures. Evidence.
I would expand this rule outside of law and say never take a picture doing something you would have trouble explaining to your 11 year-old grand kid when you’re 72. Once a picture hits the internet, it’s out of your hands forever the control over who sees it and under what context it is seen.
In essence, Myspace, is not really yours.
And it isn’t R Kelly’s either. He should’ve known that. But maybe he’s just crazy.
by Jamal Wright, Attorney at Law
free tuesday shows!
Two local hot spots have free concerts tonight.
The Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road, hosts the M&M Band in a performance that begins around 8 p.m. Partiers are encouraged to dress in tropical attire. Call 706-507-3418.
At Soho Bar & Grill, the metal rockers from Texas-based Within Chaos take the stage after the bar's open mike, probably around 10:30 p.m. The bar's at 5751 Milgen Road. Call 706-568-3316.
Both shows are open to partiers 21 and older.
The Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road, hosts the M&M Band in a performance that begins around 8 p.m. Partiers are encouraged to dress in tropical attire. Call 706-507-3418.
At Soho Bar & Grill, the metal rockers from Texas-based Within Chaos take the stage after the bar's open mike, probably around 10:30 p.m. The bar's at 5751 Milgen Road. Call 706-568-3316.
Both shows are open to partiers 21 and older.
Monday, June 9, 2008
Another Side of Serena
Serena was showing another side of herself in a recent Ebony Magazine photo shoot. Sorry guys, not referring to her back side only; she's showing a more girlie side of herself!!! A+++ on the pics Serena.
photos from Ebony Magazine
the monday moan
How was your weekend?
Today's question comes from this article, which talks about a book that claims having an affair could save your marriage.
Here goes:
"Sometimes an affair can be the best way for the person who has been unfaithful to get the information and impetus to change."
True or false?
Today's question comes from this article, which talks about a book that claims having an affair could save your marriage.
Here goes:
"Sometimes an affair can be the best way for the person who has been unfaithful to get the information and impetus to change."
True or false?
ME Loves Color: Black and White
A timeless trend, black and white is always in fashion. Whether its home decor or the latest fashion, this color combo is easy to find. Love black and white but crave an update? Simply add some pops of color (yellow is one of my favs) and you've got a totally new look. Want more info about one of the items above? Click here to explore.
Saturday, June 7, 2008
Queen Latifah Rumored to Marry Girlfriend
Rumors are swirling that Queen Latifah may marry her longtime girlfriend, Jeanette. Mediatakeout is reporting that she has already popped the question, and so is the National Enquirer.
Anyone who saw how comfortable Latifah was in the film "Set it Off" in 1996 has always had suspicions. Either way, it appears that she may be doing an R. Kelly and coming out of the closet!
Here is the story.
Anyone who saw how comfortable Latifah was in the film "Set it Off" in 1996 has always had suspicions. Either way, it appears that she may be doing an R. Kelly and coming out of the closet!
Here is the story.
Friday, June 6, 2008
Superhead Karrine Steffans Beaten Silly By Her Boyfriend
It appears that Superhead Karrine Steffans is getting whopped upside the head. Mediatakeout is reporting that Karrine's boyfriend, Darius McCrary (Eddie Winslow from Family Matters) was beating her for years.
This is interesting, since you might expect that a woman who makes her reputation from doing special favors for men might have kinda put herself out there a little bit. Anyway, Karrine recently took her videos off her blog and changed her whole life around, so this might be kind of serious.
Here is a link to an article on the topic:
If you want to see Superhead attempting to look like an intelligent Superhead Expert, here is a video:
This is interesting, since you might expect that a woman who makes her reputation from doing special favors for men might have kinda put herself out there a little bit. Anyway, Karrine recently took her videos off her blog and changed her whole life around, so this might be kind of serious.
Here is a link to an article on the topic:
If you want to see Superhead attempting to look like an intelligent Superhead Expert, here is a video:
what's going on this weekend?
Here's your weekend lineup. A few reminders:
*Friday is National Doughnut Day, so cash in on your free Krispy Kreme doughnut if you haven't already done so. Read more here.
*There's also a First Friday Bar Crawl on Broadway. You know the drill: one cover, a bunch of bars.
*If you're brave enough to venture into the land of emo, check out Summer Side Show on Saturday. It features 55 bands, the majority of which are indie rock acts. All-day access is $20. Get details here.
Here are the rest of your offerings:
FRIDAY
*Autumn Haze, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.
*Silver Tongue Devils, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11p.m.).
*Ike Stubblefield, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.
*Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.
*Mojo:Saint, 10 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.
*Big Saxy, 6 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.
*Jimmy Jam, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.
*Holdcell, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.
*Human Nature, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.
SATURDAY
*Geoff Achison with Marshall Ruffin, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.
*Little Brown Peach, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.
*Jury, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).
*Mojo:Saint, 10 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.
*Pipers Down, 9:30 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.
*Jimmy Jam, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.
*Last November, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.
*Human Nature, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.
*Friday is National Doughnut Day, so cash in on your free Krispy Kreme doughnut if you haven't already done so. Read more here.
*There's also a First Friday Bar Crawl on Broadway. You know the drill: one cover, a bunch of bars.
*If you're brave enough to venture into the land of emo, check out Summer Side Show on Saturday. It features 55 bands, the majority of which are indie rock acts. All-day access is $20. Get details here.
Here are the rest of your offerings:
FRIDAY
*Autumn Haze, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.
*Silver Tongue Devils, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11p.m.).
*Ike Stubblefield, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.
*Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.
*Mojo:Saint, 10 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.
*Big Saxy, 6 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.
*Jimmy Jam, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.
*Holdcell, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.
*Human Nature, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.
SATURDAY
*Geoff Achison with Marshall Ruffin, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.
*Little Brown Peach, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.
*Jury, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).
*Mojo:Saint, 10 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.
*Pipers Down, 9:30 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.
*Jimmy Jam, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.
*Last November, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.
*Human Nature, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.
personal space optional
Just how much do you like being around your significant other?
This piece tells what happened when, for 24 hours, a couple stayed no more than 15 feet away from each other. If the one-day model isn't scary enough, consider this: an Arizona couple abides by that rule FOR LIFE.
How long do you think you could survive under the 15 feet rule? And what's the best way to tell a partner you're feeling smothered?
This piece tells what happened when, for 24 hours, a couple stayed no more than 15 feet away from each other. If the one-day model isn't scary enough, consider this: an Arizona couple abides by that rule FOR LIFE.
How long do you think you could survive under the 15 feet rule? And what's the best way to tell a partner you're feeling smothered?
(not) in my pants
So apparently Kmart fashion makes headlines now. Who knew?
Here's info on a pair of sweatpants sold at the popular retailer that read "True Love Waits" on the front and back.
That's right, a butt message opposing premarital sex.
But store insiders maintain the message has nothing to do with abstinence. "It was just a graphic put on the pants," a spokeswoman for Sears Holdings Corp., which owns Kmart, says in the aforementioned link.
Sure.
Anyway, the pants are apparently on markdown now. Guess who's hitting the Kmart racks this weekend? Are you with me?
Here's info on a pair of sweatpants sold at the popular retailer that read "True Love Waits" on the front and back.
That's right, a butt message opposing premarital sex.
But store insiders maintain the message has nothing to do with abstinence. "It was just a graphic put on the pants," a spokeswoman for Sears Holdings Corp., which owns Kmart, says in the aforementioned link.
Sure.
Anyway, the pants are apparently on markdown now. Guess who's hitting the Kmart racks this weekend? Are you with me?
ME Remembers: Yves Saint Laurent
Fashion fades and trends are every changing but Yves' forward thinking set the bar for women around the world. With the introduction of his elegant and sassy trouser suits in the 7o's, one could say he single handily catapulted women's wear into the 20th century. Saint Laurent was one of the first designers to use African-American models giving the fashion world a contemporary kick in the rear. With YSL's, Rive Gauche, Saint Laurent aimed to make his couture line more accessible to the masses. Always ahead of the curve and committed to making fashion for the everyday woman, Yves Saint Laurent will be sorely missed.
Please join ME as we bid farewell to a mythical fashion icon.
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Ashanti's "I Declare Me" Website
Ashanti has launched a site for women to share their personal journeys and stories of empowerment. Women can post their stories and let others know about their battles and survivals. Check out "I Declare Me": http://www.ideclareme.com/
photos from theflickchicks.com & youngblackhollywood.com
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