Eddie as Axel Foley for the 4th Time!!!

Eddie Murphy will reprise his role of Axel Foley for "Beverly Hills Cop 4".

According to Variety, "Brett Ratner is currently negotiating to direct the sequel, while Murphy is confirmed for the project, which Paramount will begin shooting in 2009 for a summer 2010 release. The fourth "Cop" film was Murphy's idea, according to Variety. He came to Paramount with plans about reviving the franchise that cemented his status as a box office powerhouse."

Keep working Eddie; we love the cop movies!!

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Bill Cosby Auction for Charity

Our favorite television father, Bill Cosby, will be selling his famous The Cosby Show sweaters for charity. We all remember the multi-colored and patterned sweaters "Dr. Heathcliff Huxtable" wore.

The auction will benefit the Hello Friend/Ennis William Cosby Foundation for education. The charity is in honor of Cosby's late son. Three of the sweaters will be sold in an eBay auction beginning June 2nd. Opening bids will start at $5,000 per item on www.eBay.com/cosby before ending on June 12th.

Thanks Dr. Cosby!!

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what's going on this weekend?

Hey party people...I'm posting this weekend's offerings a little early, as I'll be taking a three-day weekend.

My No. 1 pick this weekend? The official grand opening of The Roadhouse, the downtown rock bar that's been open for about a month now. Entertainment comes courtesy of Splendid Chaos, a Southeast-based rock and metal band that sounds like acts such as Fuel and Nickelback. The show starts at 10 p.m. and cover is $5.

Here's the rest of your lineup:

THURSDAY

*Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, free. 706-322-3460.

*Dearestazazel, Bear and his Daughter, Soho Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

FRIDAY

*Elisa Victoria, Peggy Jenkins, 7-10 p.m. Broadway's 1100 block, free.

*The New Familiars, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

*Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

*Big Saxy, 6 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.

*Mojo:Saint, 9:45 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.

*Jaded Soul, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

*Friends featuring Dehra, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Last Episode, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.

SATURDAY

*Naked Eskimos, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).

*Elisa Victoria with special guest Classic Addict, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

*Dear Enemy, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

*Mojo:Saint, 9:45 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.

*Jaded Soul, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

*Friends featuring Dehra, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Pipers Down, 9:30 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.

more sex!

Counting down the hours until Friday's SATC premiere? Here's some links to keep you busy:

*Entertainment Weekly has this photo gallery of the series' most memorable props. Did you know Carrie's laptop is now in the Smithsonian?

*Also on EW, check out these pics of Carrie's best and worst looks.

*Finally, here's a helpful guy's guide to SATC. Below, I'm pasting its list of slang inspired by the show -- which word is your favorite?

Frenemies: Two friends who bicker constantly.

Good on Paper: The nice guy who inevitably gets dumped for a handsome bad boy.

Modelizer: A man who is obsessed with dating models.

Real Estate Bride: A woman who gets married to get an apartment.

Secret Single Behavior: Things people do when they're totally alone, and only then.

Single Woman's Sports Pages: The wedding section of The New York Times.

Skid-Marks Guy: Someone who doesn't keep his underpants clean. Let's leave it at that.

Try-sexual: Someone who will try anything once.

Upsex: To trump a friend's big sex news with even bigger sex news.

Used-Date Party: A party where you bring someone you're no longer interested in.

Yogasm: An orgasm brought on by post-yoga sex.

Sherri Shepherd to Co-Host Daytime Emmy Awards

One of our favorite gabbers from "The View" is set to co-host this year's Daytime Emmy's with Cameron Mathison. Sherri Shepherd is doing her thang!!! This will be both her and Cameron's first time hosting the show.

Shepherd has been on "The View" since 2007. Her bio includes the TV shows "30 Rock," "Less Than Perfect" and "The Jamie Foxx Show."

In addition, Sherri is nominated for "Best Talk Show Host" along with her "View" co-hosts. The Daytime Emmy's air on June 20th on ABC.

Congrats Sherri!!

photo from: fitceleb.imnotobsessed.com

sex!

Pasted below is my result of one those infamous "find your inner 'Sex and the City' quizzes that are circulating around the Internet right now.

Try it yourself. I won't tell if you rig the results.

This week's nightlife column is about how SATC's affect on dating. It cites this study, in which 80 percent of single adults surveyed said the series "made it more acceptable for women to have fun dating and worry less about finding a committed relationship."

Do you think Carrie and company have changed the romance landscape? If so, how?

Which Sex and the City Character Are You?
	You are Carrie. You know what you want out of a relationship and you're not afraid to keep moving until you get it. Wit and charm are your biggest turn-ons, and you like guys who appreciate you for your mind as much as your body. You have fun playing the dating game, but secretly you just can't wait to find the guy who sweeps you off your feet and carries you into the sunset.
Find Your Character @ BrainFall.com

Trouble in Paradise: Mariah & Nick

Rumor has it that Nick & Mariah experienced a recent bump on the road of matrimonial bliss.

“Mariah Carey’s new husband was trying to have a boys’ weekend at Saturday’s opening of the MGM Grand at Foxwoods with pals Sean Combs and Quincy Jones when he got a call from Carey. ‘He was summoned home by her at 1 in the morning,’ a source said. ‘He didn’t look happy about it.’”

They are still in the honeymoon phase, so this will pass over, I'm sure. In the meantime, the newlyweds are planning a $4 million ceremony sometime this summer to renew their vows (for those who weren't there the first time around).

Gotta love Hollywood love!!

'object' of desire

Here's an article about a woman who claims she's been married to the Berlin Wall for 29 years.

It's a result of a condition called Objectum-Sexuality, "feelings of love, attraction, arousal, and commitment for a particular object."

That actually sounds pretty cool.

If you could marry one object -- without being institutionalized -- what would it be?

I'll start: I'd marry the swimming pool at the Excalibur hotel in Las Vegas.

(For more about objects, check out CJ's post about a guy who likes to have sex with cars. Beep beep.)

Ashlee Simpson's Naked Party

Ashlee Simpson once crashed her sister's party - naked.
The 'Outta My Head' singer confessed she used to delight in annoying older sibling Jessica when the pair were younger.
She said: "I used to wind my sister Jessica up. Once, when I was small, Jessica had all her friends round and I burst into the room naked."
Ashlee's new husband Fall Out Boy star Pete Wentz, recently revealed that the 23-year-old singer had "flashed" him the first time they met.
He said: "The first time we really hung out she flashed me."
Ashlee added: "I lifted my dress over my head but it was love at first sight."
Ashlee and Pete married in a secret ceremony earlier this month, and are rumoured to be expecting their first baby.
Ashlee reportedly told wedding guests she and Pete will welcome a new addition to their family later this year.
A source said: "At the wedding reception, Ashlee told guests, 'I'm pregnant.' "
However, the couple refused to comment on the reports.

source : europe.real.com

Janet Jackson Launches First Tour in 7 Years!!

For everyone who has seen or who wants to see Ms. Jackson on tour, your chance has arrived after 7 years!!! Janet is going on tour after a long hiatus. We all know Ms. Jackson to be a true veteran performer.

According to a recent interview with the Assoicated Press, Janet expects this tour to be "a big production but it will definitely also be something that I've never done before, that people have never seen from me before." She futher elaborated, "It's been a while so I really want to make my rounds. I haven't been to Australia in a very long time; I can't wait to go there. There are a lot of places where I really want to stop off at, and that's the idea, that's the goal with this tour."

Janet, who just turned 42, has no intention of slowing down!! Tickets go on sale June 7, 2008. You can leave Janet a message @ 323-622-8139 to let her know what songs you'd like to hear in her upcoming tour!!!!

MLK Jr.'s First Grandchild is Born

The King generation continues on. Martin Luther King III and his wife, Andrea Waters King, welcomed Yolanda Renee King into the world on Sunday. The baby weighed in at 7 1/2 pounds.

King III stated of the new arrival, "We are excited about our precious gift from God and cannot express how fortunate we feel to have our beautiful baby girl. It is truly the happiest day of our lives. I know my parents are smiling down from heaven."

The baby's first name comes from King III's sister, Yolanda King, who passed away.

Blessings to the King family!!

Barack Obama Stands by Michelle

In recent media outlets, we find many people attacking Michelle Obama. From Zsa Zsa Gabor's husband, Frédéric Prinz von Anhalt, calling Michelle a "washer woman" to more, we are so glad to see that Barack knows how to hold it down.

Barack stated,

“If they think that they’re going to try to make Michelle an issue in this campaign, they should be careful, because that I find unacceptable — the notion that you start attacking my wife or my family,” he said.

“For them to try to distort or to play snippets of her remarks in ways that are unflattering to her I think is just low class and I think they — most of the American people would think that as well,” he said. “I would never think of going after somebody’s spouse in a campaign.”

“If that’s something I start seeing during the course of this general election, I will have something to say about it. And I will say something to the Republican nominee, [Arizona Sen.] John McCain, about it because I would never consider going after his family,” he said. “If I saw Democrats doing that, I would call them out on it. And I would expect that he’s going to do the same thing because I think that family is off limits.”

Barack has handled this election with class and dignity. This says a lot about a man and how he carries himself. Barack truly knows what it takes to come out on top!!

under where?

I'm back from my holiday weekend, which included a trip to LA for some quality time with the fam. Incidentally, I was also treated to an impromptu run-in with former "Project Runway" contestant Andrae Gonzalo. Yes, there are pictures.

More on that later.

Anyway, I'm a little swamped with work, so until I have time for a more comprehensive post I'll leave you with this look at modern underwear.

Anyone else turned on by the prospect of backless panties?

ME Summer Obsession: Maxi Dresses

What is a Maxi Dress?

A long skirt or dress which gained popularity in the 70's. My favorites are the ones which feature vibrant graphic prints or awesome summer colors. This season you can find them just about everywhere and available at every price point.

How do I wear it?

With a ton of accessories or with none at all depending on your preference. Add flip flops or gladiator sandals during the day and bejeweled or heeled sandal for night.

Who can wear it?

Just about anybody. I prefer the look on the tall ladies myself (hey, I'm over 6' ft so I'm a little bias) but my shorter gals can pull the look off as well. The key is ensure that you show some skin (i.e. halter, sleeveless or tube top dresses) and your dress should stop a little before your ankle.

Why are you obsessed?

Who has time to get ready these days? Between my conference calls and endless meetings, a girl has schedule in bathroom breaks. A maxi dress is an instant outfit that can get ME out of the door in 15 secs flat. Makeup? I can do that during one of my conference calls.

'Harry Potter' Actor Stabbed to Death

Sunday, May. 25, 2008

(AP / LONDON) — A British teenage actor playing a minor role in the upcoming "Harry Potter" film was stabbed to death during a brawl in London on Saturday, police said.

Rob Knox, 18, was stabbed after he got caught up in a fight outside a bar in southwest London early Saturday, London's Metropolitan Police said in a statement.

Knox plays Ravenclaw student Marcus Belby in the upcoming film "Harry Potter And The Half-Blood Prince," the sixth installment of the popular series set for release in November.

Warner Bros., the studio that is producing the film, said it was shocked by the news.

Knox was one of five young men taken to various hospitals after the brawl, police said. Among them was a 21-year-old who has since been arrested on suspicion of murder.

The fight did not appear to be gang-related, police added, but it puts the number of violent teenage deaths in London at 14 so far this year.

http://www.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1809397,00.html

Summer Trend 2008: Straw Hats

This summer the traditional straw hat has gotten an update. No more plain or lack luster straw hats here! You'll see button details, rich summer colors and all kind of fun summer adornments. Remember: the wider the brim, the greater the sun protection. While I'm all about looking fantastic on the beach, sun damage is never in fashion. For my fair skinned ladies, I also recommend throwing some SPF (50 or higher is my fav) in your beach tote for an added an extra layer of sun protection. Ready to beat the heat in one of these stylish straw hats featured above? Click here to get more information.

Do you love straw hats? In love with one featured above? I want to hear about in the comments!

what's going on this weekend?

Here's your lineup. Don't forget about Teachers Gone Wild on Friday at the Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road.

THURSDAY

*Gary Parmer, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Destroy Everything, 10 p.m., Soho Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

*Connor Christian and the MorningStar Revival, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, free. 706-322-3460.

FRIDAY

*Goldilocks, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).

*Java Monkey, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Seven Zero Sixx, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.

*Baumer, After the Crash, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

*The Fiddleworms, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

*Mojo:Saint, 9:45 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.

*Down Pour, 10 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

*Big Saxy, 6 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.

SATURDAY

*Hell On Air band, 8 p.m. Del Ranch Restaurant & Lounge, free. 334-297-9177.

*The Neal Lucas Trio, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

*Another Hero, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).

*Psychostick, Power Glove, Look What I Did, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

*Java Monkey, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Down Pour, 10 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

*Mojo:Saint, 9:45 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.

*Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.

*Pipers Down, 9:30 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.

can i dust your eraser?

It's one of the top male fantasies fulfilled.

Friday, the Shanty Shack hosts Teachers Gone Wild -- an end-of-year party for local teachers that begins at 4 p.m. Everyone's invited, and there will be prizes for teachers. Local party band Mindblender will perform.

The bar's at 4475 Warm Springs Road. See their MySpace here.

P.S. -- As much as I wish I could take credit for the pickup line in the title, it's actually a result of some genius thinking from this guy.

to not have and hold

This list -- "18 things a grown man should never have" -- has created some Internet buzz.

Among its entries? Beer that costs less than $20 a case, as well as a secret handshake.

While I accept most of the list, I think it's a bit harsh at times. (Especially that beer one. Clearly, "grown" and "journalist's salary" aren't a good match.)

But I'd like to know what you think. Ladies...what single item found in a guy's apartment would unequivocally send you packing?

Summer Trend 2008: Beach Tote

Nothing makes ME happier than a beach tote that doubles as a handbag. All of these totes are super easy to carry, provide tons of room but more importantly, many serve double duty. I like my totes with tons of pockets, some kind of protector at the bottom (i.e. leather or those little silver pegs so that my items don't get wet) and extremely durable. Since I know that I'll be throwing my bag in the backseat as a travel from shore to sunny shore, I need one that can take a beating! See a bag above that'd be perfect for your next weekend getaway? Click here for more information.

Which beach tote will you be carrying this summer? Tell ME all about it in the comments below!

Marisa Miller The Hottest Super-Model 2008

Every year 100 hottest women in the world was released by the man's magazine Maxim. The Marisa Miller super-model that just the first time entered the list 100 hottest women at once entered the first place at the same time shifting the position of Lindsay Lohan.
Miller that was 29 years old was the underwear model Victoria's Secret. She often received the model offer in a clothed manner minimal.
She had also been the model of the electronics product by exhibiting her naked body.
Only intimate parts and her breasts were covered by one ipod and handpone. The daughter of the actor, the director, and the producer of the film of Mark Miller this also had appeared in the A WALK TO REMEMBER film in 2002. Maxim chose Miller as the highest position because of being considered Miller could represent the American return of the super-model that was great.

Maxim Magazine's top 10:
1. Marisa Miller
2. Scarlett Johansson
3. Jessica Biel
4. Eva Longoria
5. Sarah Michelle Gellar
6. Elisha Cuthbert
7. Eva Mendez
8. Christina Aguillera
9. Lindsay Lohan
10. Ashley Tisdale

free shows!

Two free shows for Tuesday night partiers:

*Local rock band Driven takes the stage at the Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road. Show starts at 8 p.m.

*The metal rockers from Charlotte, N.C.-based Blanco Diablo perform at Soho Bar and Grill, 5751 Milgen Road. Show starts after the bar's open mike, probably around 10:30 p.m.

peach pit addicts rejoice!

Here's the trailer for the new "90210" spinoff. As if a (slightly modernized) version of the trademark theme wasn't enough, the clip also reveals the new show will feature Aunt Becky from "Full House."

Have mercy!

Interestingly enough, the clip comes shortly I spent the entire weekend reading Tori Spelling's autobiography, "sTori Telling." I won't give away any secrets -- it's the topic of this week's book column. I'm sure you can hardly wait.

Anyway, I sense a major "90210" resurgence coming on.

My first instinct is to say my favorite episode is the one when David Silver's friend accidentally shot himself, but that makes me sound like a pretty morbid person. So I'll go with my 2nd fave -- when Brenda adopted her alter ego, Laverne, while subbing for Brandon at the Peach Pit.

I'll open the question up to you guys. Favorite episodes?

not my 'type'

The first Internet-spawned couple recently celebrated their 25th anniversary, this article notes.

The pair "met" in 1982 via a CompuServe CB Simulator program. They married a year after their first face-to-face encounter.

Obviously, the Internet dating world has impacted relationships. In addition to the ins and outs of courting someone online, the Web makes it increasingly difficult to completely sever ties once a relationship is over.

Even when geographical boundaries exist, there's those unspoken thoughts/suspicions/hopes that an ex is Googling you.

On that note, the Chicago Tribune has this article about a belief that social networking sites are taking the mystery out of dating. That is, users are so specific in listing interests that "we've gotten used to knowing someone's vital stats before we even meet face-to-face."

When it comes to relationships, do you think the Internet does more harm than good?

Summer 2008 Trend: Graphic Mini Skirts

Since I'm over 6", I have to approach this trend with caution. One good San Francisco breeze and I could be showing all the world my business. I like to wear my minis with boy shorts, flat sandals for daytime and killer heels at night. For my girls with a larger bottom half, I recommend selecting a mini with a darker background to down play one of your greater assets. This is truly one of my favorite summer trends because just about any girl can look fabulous in it! See a mini that you can't wait to sport? Click here to get more info on the skirts featured above.

Will you be sporting a mini this summer? Tell me why or why not in the comments below!

what's going on this weekend?

Here's your lineup...I'll be at The Tap Friday, so be sure to say hi if you see me dancing.

FRIDAY

*The Winter Sounds, Slow Motion Crash, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

*Webb Wilder, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $10. 706-596-8141.

*Jury, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).

*Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.

*Mojo:Saint, 9:45 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.

*Big Saxy, 6 p.m. Mediterranean Cafe, free. 706-320-9111.

*Union 5ive with special guest, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

*Claiborne & Friends, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Racket Club Band, 10 p.m. Del Ranch Restaurant & Lounge, $5. 334-297-9177.

SATURDAY

*Shakedown Monkey, 10 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5 (ladies free until 11 p.m.).

*Crop Circle, Sons of Roswell, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

*Peggy Jenkins, 9:30 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

*Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, $5. 706-322-3460.

*Mojo:Saint, 9:45 p.m. Broad Street Blues, $5. 334-297-3200.

*Union 5ive with special guest, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

*Claiborne & Friends, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Racket Club Band, 10 p.m. Del Ranch Restaurant & Lounge, $5. 334-297-9177.

*Michael Twitty and Emily Portman, 7 p.m. Hoofers Gospel & Bluegrass Barn, $18 general admission and $20 reserved. 706-885-9300.

SUNDAY

*The Mitchell Celebration Jam featuring Ed Cox, Kevin Vannoy,Robert Orr, Suzanne Swan, Bill Perry and more, 6-9 p.m., Liberty Theatre,donations requested to benefit the family of late bassist Edred Mitchell.706-653-7566 or 706-660-9295.

tracks of my tears

Much has been made of this clip from a CNN interview featuring Hillary Clinton crying while talking about daughter Chelsea.

Of course, it's raised the inevitable discussion about the double standard involving crying and politicians. When a female politician cries, it's a sign she belongs to the weaker sex. When a male cries, meanwhile, it's a sign of heroism.

On a more practical level, the crying game gets equally sticky once you enter the workforce. At every job I've had since college, there's been the obligatory cubicle crier who comes into the office with perpetually puffy eyes.

This Marie Claire piece says crying at work can in some cases actually further a career, but I don't know if I'm sold.

I've cried at work ONCE, and it made me feel sappy, weak and unprofessional.

What do you think? Is it OK for women to cry at work? Does it make a difference if you're crying about something work-related versus something pertaining to your personal life?

(For more about Hilary Clinton, check out the Ledger's political blog here.)

milwaukee's best?

You're not the only one resigned to a life of PBRs instead of Coronas.

Our rotten economy has made many people trade down their taste in beer, this article reports.

At the risk of revealing how poor I am, I'll admit that I've learned to actually enjoy a can of Natural Light. What about you?

not cool

Here's a list of 10 items you think make you cool -- but don't -- courtesy of Holy Taco.

The list touches on some valid pet peeves -- iPhones, Borat imitations -- but I'd like to add another valuable submission.

Something that doesn't make you look cool? A scarf.

OK, I understand that in certain colder climates, a scarf might keep your neck warm. Why this goal can't be accomplished with a turtleneck sweater, I don't understand. But I'll let that one slide.

What bothers me more is when people wear scarves inside...with a short-sleeved shirt. Or a tank top. I don't understand the point. Obviously, the accessory's warming quality is negated here. I don't even buy the quality that a scarf is a neck decoration. Um, that's what necklaces are for.

What? Guys don't wear necklaces? Then think about how you look in a scarf.

what's going on tonight?

It's a little late, but here are your Thursday night party offerings:

*The SixxiS, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

*Gary Parmer, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

*Pipers Down, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, free. 706-322-3460.

when life doesn't deliver...

Today was one of my most memorable days in Columbus. I got to work at 9 a.m. in order to write two articles and film a TV commentary by 11. While I was in the elevator, I learned there had been a fire in our paper's pressroom and today's papers hadn't been delivered.

At first I kind of just shrugged and went back to thinking about "The Hills." Yes, I'm an evil, evil person.

Then I learned I'd be helping deliver the remaining papers. And I had an hour to finish my remaining articles.

I was one of the last ones out of the newsroom, and I knew this would be a good day when I got lost on my way to the distribution warehouse. Which is, like, two miles from my office. Stop laughing.

Anyway, I made it to the warehouse in time and then spent the next three hours delivering papers with our business editor, Elizabeth Conner. My invisible sense of direction really added nothing to the equation.

To outsiders, probably, the whole thing sounds kind of ghetto and unnecessary. But there was something really nice about returning to the newsroom and listening to everybody's war stories. Not to mention learning that people care so much about our product that they'll sit out on the porch in the rain waiting to receive it.

Just don't ask me to find that warehouse again.

wine snobs rejoice!

Happy Hump Day!

Just learned that Gov. Sonny Perdue on Tuesday signed legislation allowing Georgians to buy wine over the Internet. Which means a whole bunch of locals are currently wasting valuable company time searching for online wine clubs to join.

Thought I'd contribute to the debauchery by passing on a few links:

*Wine Spectator

*Wine Library

*Wine Enthusiast

*Wine Insiders

*El Dorado Winery Association (A shout-out to my California roots. I worked near these wineries for two years. Good times.)

Feel free to pass on any additional recommendations for a follow-up post. I won't be offended, I promise. I drink Arbor Mist.

Megan Fox's Topless "Jennifer's Body"

TheBadAndUgly got their hands on a few photos of Megan Fox (Transformers) on the set of her latest movie "Jennifer's Body," which is currently being filmed in Vancouver. The shots feature Fox swimming in a lake topless, with just pasties covering the nips.
"Jennifer's Body" revolves around a newly possessed cheerleader, who turns into a killer, specializing in offing her male classmates. Can her best friend put an end to the horror?
The film is written by Diablo Cody, who recently won an Oscar for "Juno." Karyn Kusama (Girlfight, Aeon Flux) is directing.


If the new Jason Reitman-produced horror/comedy “Jennifer’s Body” has one thing going for it, it’s not Jennifer’s body, but rather Megan Fox’s body. According to Reitman himself, during an interview with Howard Stern on the shock jock’s radio show, the movie’s star, “Transformers” actress Megan Fox will be doing more than just turn into a monster and eating her victims raw (or something like that), she’ll also be luring them in with her body.

Jason Reitman on the Howard Stern show said she does a topless scene where she is luring in a victim with her breasts, all be it breasts covered by pasties and hair.

Karyn Kusama (”Aeon Flux”) will direct “Jennifer’s Body” from a script by “Juno” scribe Diablo Cody. Amanda Seyfried and J. Jonah Jameson co-stars, probably as an old guy who screams a lot.

See more Megan Fox Topless pictures Click Here

free shows!

Two free shows for Tuesday night partiers:

*Soho Bar & Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, hosts the NY-based alternative rockers from Fixer. The show starts after the bar's open mike, probably around 10:30 p.m.

*Local party band Mindblender performs at the Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road. Show starts at 8 p.m.

Have fun!

too much of a good thing?

Forget political oppression. Financial inequality. Health issues.

The biggest problem plaguing today's women?

Boobs that are too big.

Cue choruses of male protests.

But wait, guys. This ABC News article says too-large breasts can lead to serious neck, back and shoulder pain. It conveniently juxtaposes that info with the tale of a Brazilian woman set on having the biggest chest in the world.

Bra size 34 FFF, if you're interested.

Has anyone out there had a breast reduction?

Summer Trend 2008: Plastic Sandals

Nothing screams Summer more than my favorite pair of jelly sandals. The moment that I can wear them poolside, I know Summer has arrived. This season, retailers are giving us several choices to wet our appetite. Whether gladiator or thong, plastic (i.e. jelly or PVC) sandals have returned with a vengeance. The key to pulling off this trend is a fresh pedicure complete with a vibrant nail polish of your choice. See some sandals above that you want to rock poolside? Click here to get more info.

beer & typing

Happy Monday! Had a great weekend, the highlight of which was chilling by the pool all day Friday. I like to consider myself a well-rested, svelte bronze goddess right now. And if that doesn't turn you on, here's three things that might:

*Strawberry beer! Yes, that is probably one of the most girly phrases in the world and yes, I did buy it Saturday at Columbus Beverage Superstore. See what I'm talking about here.

*I already wasted 10 valuable minutes of work time on this site, TypeRacer, where you can see how your typing abilities match up against other players. You get to drive a cute little race car and everything. (via Pop Candy.)

*Finally, why are naked guys so funny? Hmm. I'll let the Chicago Tribune answer that.

what's going on this weekend?

Hey guys...I'm taking a much-needed day off today, but just wanted to pass on a few nightlife suggestions:

*Don't forget Whisky Bent takes the stage for Friday's concert series on the 1100 block of Broadway. The free show is 7-10 p.m.

*If you haven't checked out The Roadhouse (formerly Knockin' Boots), this is a good weekend to do so. I recently learned the rock bar lets ladies in free until 11 p.m. Fridays and Saturdays. Otherwise, cover is $5. Aclarion takes the stage Friday, The Letters perform Saturday. Both shows start at 10 p.m.

*And finally, just because I'm feeling sexist, I'll remind you of another no-cover ladies special. Saturday is still Little Black Dress night at cigar and martini bar Belloo's. Ladies in black dresses get free admission, plus a $10 gift certificate for the bar.

Have fun!

Trend on the Horizon: Neon Colored

With loud punches of color and vivid dips of patent, neon is making a comeback. It's not the 80's ladies, so head to toe neon is unacceptable! Ease into this trend by integrating a statement piece into your summer wardrobe. Remember, neon speaks loudly so keep the rest of your look neutral. Want to glow your way into this trend? Click here to get more info on the pieces featured above.

what's going on tonight?

Your Thursday threesome:

1. Participate in the poker league at Aqua Nightclub. Winner gets a trip to Las Vegas and the action starts at 7 p.m.

2. Hit up Scruffy Murphy's and watch a performance by local Southern rock act Whisky Bent. Show starts at 9 p.m., no cover.

3. Dance to live music from Big Woody and the Splinters at Belloo's. Show stars around 10 p.m., cover is $5.

sex shops!

I found a new Columbus sex shop. You can now buy your favorite novelty items at Fantasy's, which is across from Soho Bar & Grill. Let me know if you need additional directions. I'll stop by this weekend for a full review.

It's funny...because I had planned an erotic boutique post for today anyway. In one of my previous lives, I twice visited this sex shop with a guy I had a HUGE crush on. He rejected me, but I earned a permanent spot on the Pleasures of the Heart mailing list.

You tell me who came out on the better end of the deal.

Anyway, the store's monthly e-mails tell me all about cool bondage classes, as well as discussion groups. I found the quote for the upcoming discussion particularly intriguing. Here it is:

"Women grow more attracted to the one they love and men grow to love more the one they are attracted to."

Agree or disagree? Send me your thoughts.

what's going on tonight?

Two unique Hump Day promotions tonight.

First, don't forget about "Sex and the City" cocktails at Houlihan's. For the next couple Wednesdays, the restaurant is offering five SATC-themed martinis, for $5 each. I tried this party last week and had a blast.

(Just be aware that the drink called Mr. Big Shot is a SHOT, not a cocktail. Ahem, Dawn.)

Also, there's another "Rock Band"/"Guitar Hero" contest at Aqua Nightclub. Winner gets a trip to Mexico, and the action starts at 9 p.m. There's a $5 cover, but no entering the competition is free.

Have fun!

'bound' for disaster?

Happy Hump Day!

Thursday's nightlife column is about new rules for breakup etiquette. OK, no more details. I'll leave you in suspense for the next 24 hours.

Something I thought about including in the column -- but didn't -- is the idea of a rebound relationship. A friend recently told me that there's no such thing as a rebound mate, since every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.

(Yes, I did just quote "Closing Time." Have a problem with that?)

I think the "rebound" category classifies mainly-physical relationships that are used to mask emotions from a former heartbreak.

That said, do you think it's possible, and not at all sketchy, to genuinely fall for someone one week after a breakup? One day after a breakup?

At what point is it just a new relationship and not a rebound?

the "end" in friend

When it comes to friendships, are breakups necessary?

AskMen has this article about how to end a friendship. Recently, I heard a story from someone who received a phone call from a (former) buddy formally ending their friendship.

Assuming you've made the decision to sever ties with a friend, does a lapse in contact suffice? Or do you need to explain your motives?

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

the monday moan

Last week, I wrote a review of this book, "The Panic Years." It's advice for girls freaking out during the "oh my gosh I'm not married yet" phase of their life.

But the book's author is unique in that in addition to emphasizing female empowerment themes, she also gives readers advice on how to secure a fiance. Among that advice? Make a time line. If your man doesn't cross certain milestones by the designated time, ditch him and move on to someone more worthy of marriage, the author contends.

That's where today's question comes in. Here's what the book says about the two-year mark:

If you've been dating your boyfriend for more than twenty months, it's no one's fault but your own. "No emotionally mature guy will date his girlfriend for more than two years without proposing," says Felix, 26. "It wouldn't be fair to drag it out and lead her on. If a guy can't commit by then, he's wasting her time. You should really know by a year, or else it's not right."

Now I'm all for being realistic, but this sounds a bit extreme. Especially considering that the first year of a relationship is largely spent getting used to each other.

I'd like to hear your thoughts -- guys in particular.

(P.S. = You can read my review of "The Panic Years" here.)

what's going on tonight?

Here's your Cinco de Mayo rundown. I'll be partying at Mickey's Pub. Because I'm random like that.

*Downtown bars will host a block party with drink specials available at many Broadway hot spots.

*A party at Locos Amigos Cantina, 1030 Broadway, starts at 5 p.m. A DJ takes the stage at 8 p.m. No cover and $2 tequila shots.

*Smoke-free Phenix City nightclub Broad Street Blues, 913 Broad St., opens at 5 p.m. and will have drink specials.

*Local band Foreplay performs at the Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road. No cover.

*Local band Mindblender performs at Mickey's Pub, 4105 Buena Vista Road. No cover.

best women?

Here's an article from the Guardian about altered gender boundaries when couples hit the altar.

That is, a growing trend among men to opt for "best women." An excerpt:

Jeremy Skidmore, a 45-year-old journalist, chose a female friend, Emma Wilkinson - who is also an ex-girlfriend - as his chief lieutenant to organise the stag do, carry the rings and make the speech. Emma arranged a stag night which included food at Kettners, a restaurant in Soho, London, tenpin bowling and a visit to lapdancing club Stringfellows.

'I chose Emma because she is my best friend, but for all kinds of reasons it was a good thing,' says Skidmore. 'I knew that everyone would love her. I knew she would do a brilliant job and it was something different. I also think women are more reliable.'

Skidmore said he had 'groups' of male friends he had gathered while growing up, at university and through work, making it harder to single out a male friend. On the day itself, Wilkinson dressed in a fitted tuxedo.

Hmm. I can't imagine this catching on too much, especially since the "best woman" seems in most cases to also be an ex-girlfriend.

What do you think, ladies? Would you be mad if your significant other wanted an ex to be part of the wedding party?

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Britney Spears’ Troubles Cost her $16 Million

Atlanta, GA 5/02/2008 06:22 PM GMT (FINDITT)

According to a new report, Britney Spears has been estimated to have spent $16 million on her troubles. The pop star’s meltdown began on February 2007 after she shaved her head. Since then, she has spent millions on legal fees, rehab and psychiatric care.

Spears seems to be getting her life back in order after her father Jamie Spears was named co-conservator of her estate in January.

Meanwhile, the 26-year-old recently filmed another episode of the TV sitcom ‘How I Met Your Mother.’ This was her second guest appearance on the show.

Britney Spears Heads to Louisiana for Baby Shower

Atlanta, GA 5/02/2008 10:23 PM GMT (FINDITT)

Britney Spears headed home to Kentwood, Louisiana for her younger sister Jamie Lynn Spears’ baby shower. The singer left Los Angeles on Friday. Spears’ father Jamie Spears, who is temporary co-conservator over her affairs, also went home for the shower.
Jamie Lynn, 17, and her fiancé Casey Aldridge are rumored to be expecting a baby girl.

Tom Cruise Talks Katie Homles and Daughter

Atlanta, GA 5/02/2008 10:56 PM GMT (FINDITT)

Tom Cruise has sat down with Oprah Winfrey for the first time since his infamous “couch jumping” incident. The talk show host headed to his Colorado home for the first part of the interview. They talk about his love for wife Katie Holmes and their daughter Suri.

Winfrey first asks him about his jumping on her sofa to profess love for then-girlfriend Holmes. “When we finished that show with you jumping on the sofa, I was like, ‘Wow. What was that? I had no idea it was going to turn into an international brouhaha, as I’m sure you did not either,” Winfrey said.

“I felt that way, and I feel that way about her. I can’t even articulate it, to be honest. That feeling, that connection. Just who she is and what she means to me,” Cruise said.

As for their daughter Suri, Cruise said he and Holmes just wanted to keep her out of the media as long as possible to enjoy the special moments. “We just wanted to have out baby, have the kids and everyone get to know Suri, get the family up here and just chill and have that time that you never get back,” he explained.

what's going on this weekend?

A few things to remember:

*Friday, there's a free outdoor concert downtown featuring the Old School Band, 7-10 p.m. on Broadway.

*Also on Friday, be one of the first 500 people at the Columbus Catfish game at 7 p.m. and get a free sombrero and maracas.

*Get your funnel cake fix at Fiesta Columbus, the mini-fair that runs through Sunday at the Columbus Civic Center.

*The local Cinco de Mayo festivities kick off with back-to-back parties Friday and Saturday at Aqua Nightclub. No cover Friday, $5 Saturday.

*Just looking to grab a beer? Hit up Scruffy Murphy's for Friday and Saturday performances by Whisky Bent.

Have fun!

mommy dearest?

Here's a hard-hitting question courtesy of CNN:

Do you mommy your husband?

The article describes women who style, feed and even bathe their husbands. (And no, that last one isn't as hot as it sounds. It involves back-washing.)

An excerpt:

Women find themselves mothering their husbands because of societal pressures to be the ultimate woman, says Pepper Schwartz, a sociology professor at the University of Washington in Seattle.

"We've been taught that the way to show love is to do for others," she says. And, according to Schwartz, some women believe that the more they nurture, the better a woman they are.

Granted, no one wants to take care of their significant other to the point of a parent-child relationship. But where do you draw the line between compassion and babying?

And ladies...is there any kind of maternal role that should extend to romantic relationships?

chairing, not sharing

Someone (kind of) smart has devised these "seat savers" to keep your bar chair free while you're on a bathroom break.

Seeing as they look kind of, um, paper, I don't know how well they serve their purpose.

It addresses a valid pet peeve, though.

Equally frustrating are partiers on the other side of the coin -- those who hold a big chunk of seats for friends who take 20 minutes to show up.

Thoughts?

picture this

Today's paper features my article about the way military spouses share family photos with spouses deployed overseas.

One aspect unrelated to my interviewees that I left out of the article was my e-mail exchange with this local photographer, who does erotic art and body painting in addition to traditional portraits. Some 45 percent of his client base is "women wanting to send their better half overseas something special," he said.

Give it a try if you're looking to spice up your care packages, ladies.

On another note...do you think people have become less leery about sending photos, provocative ones in particular, via computer or cell phone?

pants-off dance-off

Happy Friday!

OK, now that we got that out of the way...take your pants off. Now.

(No, I am not hitting on you. But yes, I am usually that aggressive. Thanks for asking.)

Anyway, today is officially No Pants Day. An excerpt from the worldwide holiday's Web site:

When large groups of people parade around in public without their pants, amazing things are bound to happen. At the very least, you’ll take your drab, wretched life a little less seriously, at least for one day.

Read more here.

what's going on tonight?

Don't forget...the Columbus Catfish play at 7 p.m. in Golden Park, 100 Fourth St. It's Thirsty Thursday, so beer is $1.

Here are your music offerings:

*Crowfield, 10 p.m. Soho Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

*Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy's, free. 706-322-3460.

*Java Monkey, 10 p.m. Belloo's, $5. 706-494-1584.

Have fun!

combat dating zones

Today's nightlife column talks about the way women react to military guys downtown -- especially given the 1,400 single soldiers who are returning to town.

When I first heard about the skewed male/female ratio here, I had all these visions of occupying a giant harem of males and never paying for a drink for the rest of my life.

Turns out it's not that cool after all.

I've had some genuinely interesting conversations with military guys at nightclubs. Just as prevalent, however, are the pushy solidiers who won't let you decline their advances nicely. Often, even after you've politely refused, they hit on you so aggressively that your entire night gets ruined.

It can be really overwhelming, especially for girls who have moved here after being exposed only to the college dating scene.

In the nearly two years I've been here, I've watched female friends initially opposed to the military find long-term, trusting relationships with soldiers.

I've also seen friends obsess over soldiers without having a full grasp on what they were getting themselves into.

Your best bet, ladies? Be direct, and know how to fight your own battles.

mmm...jelly

Living in perfect harmony, apparently, is as simple as applying the right kind of lube.

K-Y Brand has a new product, YOURS+MINE, which consists of two tubes of lubricant. His excites. Hers delights. Together they ignite. Or so the product's motto declares.

(The LA Times got the same press release we did. Read their comments here.)