It wouldn't be April Fools' Day without the female friend who smiles and informs you she's devised the BEST PRANK EVER.
She's going to tell her boyfriend she's pregnant.
This is not a good idea. But tons of women do it every year.
Why isn't it funny? For starters, it has tremendous potential to put a guy in a state of paralyzing shock. It's one thing to say, "I got you a turkey sandwich instead of bologna. Hehe."
It's an entirely different deal to announce, "I'm bearing your child and our lives are going to change forever. Hehe."
In addition, the fake pregnancy is perhaps the April Fools' prank most likely to ignite a fight. The guy freaks out, the girl says she's kidding.
It should end there -- until you consider the female tendency to offer an innocent, "What would you do if I was REALLY pregnant, honey?"
Planning an April Fools' prank? Consider this wise Esquire tweet: "April Fools pranks should not include: saying you're pregnant, spilling, grooming supplies, anything involving your boss."
I'm sure Facebook's rise will make for all sorts of status updates involving fake pregnancies and engagements, too.
Weigh in with your best/worst April Fools' pranks.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
5. Z ŻYCIA ŚWIATA 1.
Odrobina wiosny, która przeminęła. Odrobina wiosny, która właśnie nastała. Odrobina wspomnień budzącej się przyrody oraz odrobina, tego co nas czeka :)
Odrobina lata, które pieści nas promieniem gorącego słońca. I ten niesamowity zapach koszonych zbóż.
Jesień. Ostatnie głaskanie promieni, które sprawiają, że dusza nasza sie uśmiecha.
Zima. Brrrrrrrr. Nie przepadam za ta porą roku. Ma ona swe uroki lecz dostrzegalne są dla mnie tylko będąc w przytulnym ciepłym pokoju.
Odrobina lata, które pieści nas promieniem gorącego słońca. I ten niesamowity zapach koszonych zbóż.
Jesień. Ostatnie głaskanie promieni, które sprawiają, że dusza nasza sie uśmiecha.
Zima. Brrrrrrrr. Nie przepadam za ta porą roku. Ma ona swe uroki lecz dostrzegalne są dla mnie tylko będąc w przytulnym ciepłym pokoju.
Tonight at Flip Flops
Craving a little hump day action? Head to Flip Flops tonight for a performance by Trotline, a Southern rock act from Valdosta.
Flip Flops' new back patio will also be revealed tonight. It looks like the weather will cooperate, so I'm pretty excited.
Cover is $5 and action starts at 9 p.m. See you there!
Flip Flops' new back patio will also be revealed tonight. It looks like the weather will cooperate, so I'm pretty excited.
Cover is $5 and action starts at 9 p.m. See you there!
4. MOJE 2,5 ROKU WSPANIAŁEGO ŻYCIA
Tosia. Sens mojego życia. Zmieniła moje życie. Zaskakuje mnie każdego dnia. Uczy mnie cierpliwości i opanowania. Ja ją uczę cierpliwości i "życia". Oczywiście tylko do pewnego momentu tak będzie. Wiem, że nadejdzie chwila, w której będę dla niej wsparciem. Nie będę trzymać jej za rękę, nie będę prowadzić jej przez życie. Poprostu będę.
3. CZAS
Spoglądając na córkę zdaję sobie sprawę z tego, jak szybko płynie czas. Dzieciństwo to najpiękniejsze lata i dla matki i dla małego człowieka. Warto uwieczniać je w fotografiach. Warto łapać chwile. Kiedyś z przyjemnością usiąde w wygodnym fotelu, opatulę się ciepłym kocem i przy lampce wina zerknę na chwile, ktore były tak cenne. Zerknę na fotografie.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Babymoons
Consider it your final fling before the teething ring.
Babymoons.
The concept, addressed in this Glamour blog post, refers to a couple's decision to take a big vacation together shortly before becoming parents.
The "babymoon" is more than just a cool Internet buzzword. Many of my pregnant friends have splurged on an extravagant vacation while preparing to earn the "mommy" label.
Outsiders -- read: jealous homebodies -- are often baffled by the concept. Shouldn't future parents spend their money on baby stuff? Are vacations really that fun if you can't drink and wear form-fitting apparel?
But I understand the babymoon's benefits. It's a welcome opportunity to get away and process the ways in which your life is about to change.
If nothing else, it promises a temporary break from a friend's daily requests to pat your growing stomach.
Share your babymoon experiences in the comments section.
Babymoons.
The concept, addressed in this Glamour blog post, refers to a couple's decision to take a big vacation together shortly before becoming parents.
The "babymoon" is more than just a cool Internet buzzword. Many of my pregnant friends have splurged on an extravagant vacation while preparing to earn the "mommy" label.
Outsiders -- read: jealous homebodies -- are often baffled by the concept. Shouldn't future parents spend their money on baby stuff? Are vacations really that fun if you can't drink and wear form-fitting apparel?
But I understand the babymoon's benefits. It's a welcome opportunity to get away and process the ways in which your life is about to change.
If nothing else, it promises a temporary break from a friend's daily requests to pat your growing stomach.
Share your babymoon experiences in the comments section.
Prom 2010. Sigh.
If you're reading this from the Columbus area, you've probably already spotted gown-clad teenagers enjoying a "formal" dinner at Cheddar's.
Get used to it. Prom season will continue for approximately the next nine months.
OK, maybe that's an exaggeration. But after consulting this list of local prom dates, you'll see I'm not too far off.
I always enjoy spying on the teenage masses having pre-prom dinners at Columbus Park Crossing.
You have the standard characters, everyone from the guy wearing too much cologne to the girl whose family failed to tell her that skin-tight leopard print is not flattering.
My people-watching highlight last season occurred when I spotted a young woman sporting PLASTIC HEELS in Cheddar's. The worst part: She was apparently attending a middle school prom.
Maybe her fashion travesty wasn't an isolated event. Here, the NY Post describes this year's prom fashion trend: "slutty chic." That means it's cool to reveal your bellybutton...and more.
When I was in high school, we had to wear head-to-toe burlap bodysuits to prom. Just kidding. Dates were mandatory for the event, though. That's apparently changed in the 10 years since I graduated.
Weigh in: How has prom changed since you bought your first corsage or boutonniere?
Get used to it. Prom season will continue for approximately the next nine months.
OK, maybe that's an exaggeration. But after consulting this list of local prom dates, you'll see I'm not too far off.
I always enjoy spying on the teenage masses having pre-prom dinners at Columbus Park Crossing.
You have the standard characters, everyone from the guy wearing too much cologne to the girl whose family failed to tell her that skin-tight leopard print is not flattering.
My people-watching highlight last season occurred when I spotted a young woman sporting PLASTIC HEELS in Cheddar's. The worst part: She was apparently attending a middle school prom.
Maybe her fashion travesty wasn't an isolated event. Here, the NY Post describes this year's prom fashion trend: "slutty chic." That means it's cool to reveal your bellybutton...and more.
When I was in high school, we had to wear head-to-toe burlap bodysuits to prom. Just kidding. Dates were mandatory for the event, though. That's apparently changed in the 10 years since I graduated.
Weigh in: How has prom changed since you bought your first corsage or boutonniere?
Jill Scott and Essence
Not only will we see the beautiful Jill Scott in Tyler Perry's upcoming Why Did I Get Married, Too?, but she'll be gracing the cover of Essence Magazine's May issue!
From Essence.com:
With a string of lead movie roles under her belt and on the eve of a new album, the inimitable Jill Scott covers ESSENCE's May issue--looking and feeling better than ever! In "And Baby Makes 2," Jill is photographed at home with her 9-month-old son Jett, as she opens up about the difficult road that led her to single motherhood, the sister circle that helps her get by, and the perfect life she enjoys today.
Monday, March 29, 2010
Yes, I like Justin Bieber
Saturday night, I parked my butt on the couch for a date with the 2010 Kids' Choice Awards. Conveniently, I turned on the TV shortly before one of the show's most anticipated moments: a performance by teen heartthrob Justin Bieber.
While he sang "Baby," the camera caught the average suspects in the audience: young, female teenyboppers clutching their digital cameras and crying.
But between those predictable shots, I swear I saw the camera briefly focus on a female 20-something standing awkwardly and wondering where fandom ends and freakdom begins.
Welcome to the plight of the adult Justin Bieber fan.
It's hard for us. Sing along too loudly or compliment the 16-year-old singer too enthusiastically and you look like a "To Catch a Predator" candidate.
So, using your age-acquired wisdom, you avoid all comments about Justin Bieber's swagger and instead only praise his music.
There's just one problem: It's not that good. When you rave about lyrics like "your world is my world," you only get a blank stare and a depressing Cure quote.
Go ahead, outsiders: Regard a 20-something's Justin Bieber obsession as pathetic. Just don't say it out loud.
Then, and only then, will I truly be one less lonely girl.
(The online rumor mill says Justin Bieber will perform on Wednesday's "American Idol." Get updates here.)
While he sang "Baby," the camera caught the average suspects in the audience: young, female teenyboppers clutching their digital cameras and crying.
But between those predictable shots, I swear I saw the camera briefly focus on a female 20-something standing awkwardly and wondering where fandom ends and freakdom begins.
Welcome to the plight of the adult Justin Bieber fan.
It's hard for us. Sing along too loudly or compliment the 16-year-old singer too enthusiastically and you look like a "To Catch a Predator" candidate.
So, using your age-acquired wisdom, you avoid all comments about Justin Bieber's swagger and instead only praise his music.
There's just one problem: It's not that good. When you rave about lyrics like "your world is my world," you only get a blank stare and a depressing Cure quote.
Go ahead, outsiders: Regard a 20-something's Justin Bieber obsession as pathetic. Just don't say it out loud.
Then, and only then, will I truly be one less lonely girl.
(The online rumor mill says Justin Bieber will perform on Wednesday's "American Idol." Get updates here.)
Age differences in dating
Dating someone significantly younger than you? Here's tip No. 1: Refrain from all sentences that begin, "When I was hooking up in college, you were just learning to crawl."
Easy enough, right?
This YourTango piece, which asks if a 25-year age difference can work in dating, has attracted online discussion. The essay's conclusion:
If you're in a May-December relationship or contemplating one, just remember that, like any relationship, it takes compromise and compassion to make it work.
I don't discriminate too much when it comes to age differences and relationships. Truth is, many couples have the same ages on paper but seem decades apart when it comes to maturity levels.
However, I think there's a difference between dating someone older and pursuing a long-term relationship with someone older. In the latter scenario, you're more likely to discuss things like someone's willingness to marry (or remarry) and have children.
Thoughts?
Easy enough, right?
This YourTango piece, which asks if a 25-year age difference can work in dating, has attracted online discussion. The essay's conclusion:
If you're in a May-December relationship or contemplating one, just remember that, like any relationship, it takes compromise and compassion to make it work.
I don't discriminate too much when it comes to age differences and relationships. Truth is, many couples have the same ages on paper but seem decades apart when it comes to maturity levels.
However, I think there's a difference between dating someone older and pursuing a long-term relationship with someone older. In the latter scenario, you're more likely to discuss things like someone's willingness to marry (or remarry) and have children.
Thoughts?
Friday, March 26, 2010
What's going on this weekend?
Hey party people! Here's your weekend lineup:
FRIDAY
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
Daileys: Lazy Swamis, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
Flip Flops: Caleb Gamble and Jeremiah Duhart, 9 p.m. $5 cover starts at 11 p.m.
The Roadhouse: Discount Superstar, 9 p.m. $5.
Eighty-Five: Stephaniesid, Stereomonster, 10 p.m. $5. 706-324-1500.
Belloo’s: Big Woody & The Splinters, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
The Loft: Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
SoHo Bar & Grill: Powersville, Trap County, 10 p.m. $5. 706-568-3316.
SATURDAY
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
Daileys: Lazy Swamis, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
The Roadhouse: Country music night hosted by The South with music by Montgomery Gunn, 9 p.m. $5.
Belloo’s: Big Woody & The Splinters, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
Eighty-Five: Stephaniesid, Stereomonster, 10 p.m. $5. 706-324-1500.
The Loft: Jasper Drive, 9:30 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
SoHo Bar & Grill: Ultradrive, Poynte, 10 p.m. $5. 706-568-3316.
FRIDAY
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
Daileys: Lazy Swamis, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
Flip Flops: Caleb Gamble and Jeremiah Duhart, 9 p.m. $5 cover starts at 11 p.m.
The Roadhouse: Discount Superstar, 9 p.m. $5.
Eighty-Five: Stephaniesid, Stereomonster, 10 p.m. $5. 706-324-1500.
Belloo’s: Big Woody & The Splinters, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
The Loft: Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
SoHo Bar & Grill: Powersville, Trap County, 10 p.m. $5. 706-568-3316.
SATURDAY
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
Daileys: Lazy Swamis, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
The Roadhouse: Country music night hosted by The South with music by Montgomery Gunn, 9 p.m. $5.
Belloo’s: Big Woody & The Splinters, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
Eighty-Five: Stephaniesid, Stereomonster, 10 p.m. $5. 706-324-1500.
The Loft: Jasper Drive, 9:30 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
SoHo Bar & Grill: Ultradrive, Poynte, 10 p.m. $5. 706-568-3316.
Craving a spring fling?
The weather might not be cooperating, but local hot spots are slowly preparing for the season of outdoor entertainment.
Wednesday, Flip Flops unveils its back patio for the first time ever. Be there! Regional act Trotline will perform. Action starts at 9 p.m. and cover is $5.
Also, the outdoor concerts on Broadway start at the end of April. The Friday shows are 7-10 p.m. Here's this season's lineup:
APRIL 30: Big Woody & The Splinters
MAY 7: The Pine Beetles
MAY 14: Theatrics
MAY 21: Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness
MAY 28: Do Not Resuscitate
Wednesday, Flip Flops unveils its back patio for the first time ever. Be there! Regional act Trotline will perform. Action starts at 9 p.m. and cover is $5.
Also, the outdoor concerts on Broadway start at the end of April. The Friday shows are 7-10 p.m. Here's this season's lineup:
APRIL 30: Big Woody & The Splinters
MAY 7: The Pine Beetles
MAY 14: Theatrics
MAY 21: Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness
MAY 28: Do Not Resuscitate
Thursday, March 25, 2010
The Male Brain
A few years ago, Louann Brizendine released "The Female Brain," a book that scientifically explained behavior differences between genders.
I interviewed Brizendine for one for my first feature stories at the Ledger. During that interview, I asked the neuropsychiatrist if she'd consider a male version of the book.
She said yes, and now that book is here.
"The Male Brain" focuses on everything from "man trance" to why men actually have stronger emotional reactions than women.
I expect the book will get some of the same criticism that surrounded "The Female Brain."
Skeptics sometimes say there's not enough research to support Brizendine's assertions.
They also argue scientifically applying a set of traits to an entire gender risks erasing individual personalities.
I haven't read "The Male Brain" yet, but I enjoyed "The Female Brain."
I didn't agree with all the book's findings, but its emphasis on science encouraged me to step outside my emotions while fighting in a romantic relationship.
Whether it's through science or just a good heart-to-heart, I think everyone needs an occasional reminder to think of the why, rather than the how, surrounding your partner's actions.
Thoughts?
I interviewed Brizendine for one for my first feature stories at the Ledger. During that interview, I asked the neuropsychiatrist if she'd consider a male version of the book.
She said yes, and now that book is here.
"The Male Brain" focuses on everything from "man trance" to why men actually have stronger emotional reactions than women.
I expect the book will get some of the same criticism that surrounded "The Female Brain."
Skeptics sometimes say there's not enough research to support Brizendine's assertions.
They also argue scientifically applying a set of traits to an entire gender risks erasing individual personalities.
I haven't read "The Male Brain" yet, but I enjoyed "The Female Brain."
I didn't agree with all the book's findings, but its emphasis on science encouraged me to step outside my emotions while fighting in a romantic relationship.
Whether it's through science or just a good heart-to-heart, I think everyone needs an occasional reminder to think of the why, rather than the how, surrounding your partner's actions.
Thoughts?
Who's Jemi?
When I hit Twitter shortly after Wednesday's "American Idol" results show, I recognized all the trending topics except one: Jemi.
I reasoned the term referred to a complex political movement, or maybe the '80s animated series "Jem."
No. After some brief Internet research, I realized "Jemi" is the nickname for celebrity couple Joe Jonas and Demi Lovato, who performed at Wednesday's "Idol."
I officially felt old. I listen to the "High School Musical" soundtrack on an almost-daily basis, but still can't keep up with the growing crop of Disney celebrity couple nicknames.
Jemi. Who would've known? I thought TomKat was cutting-edge.
Whether you prefer Jemi or Brangelina, I know some couples who construct their hybrid name seconds into their first date. Others hate the idea.
Weigh in: Should couple nicknames be confined to the Disney crowd?
I reasoned the term referred to a complex political movement, or maybe the '80s animated series "Jem."
No. After some brief Internet research, I realized "Jemi" is the nickname for celebrity couple Joe Jonas and Demi Lovato, who performed at Wednesday's "Idol."
I officially felt old. I listen to the "High School Musical" soundtrack on an almost-daily basis, but still can't keep up with the growing crop of Disney celebrity couple nicknames.
Jemi. Who would've known? I thought TomKat was cutting-edge.
Whether you prefer Jemi or Brangelina, I know some couples who construct their hybrid name seconds into their first date. Others hate the idea.
Weigh in: Should couple nicknames be confined to the Disney crowd?
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Darius McCrary and Karrine Steffans
Darius McCrary & Karrine Steffans have filed for a divorce. The couple married last April. Word has it that they have been on-again/off-again for a while now.
Check out the article here
Facebook and syphilis
Everybody's buzzing about this recent article linking Facebook to a rise in syphilis.
Why? "Social networking sites are making it easier for people to meet up for casual sex."
Hmm.
If I'm going to get a disease from Facebook, it'll likely be a bacterial infection from the newest FarmVille addition you keep hyping. Or perhaps that nasty addition to your SuperPoke Pet's habitat.
Perhaps Facebook is subtly encouraging casual sex.
Another hypothesis? The social networking site, filled with angry relationship updates and TMI baby photos, is breeding a generation of partiers with an expanded "eww" factor.
OK, you can go back to playing FarmVille.
Why? "Social networking sites are making it easier for people to meet up for casual sex."
Hmm.
If I'm going to get a disease from Facebook, it'll likely be a bacterial infection from the newest FarmVille addition you keep hyping. Or perhaps that nasty addition to your SuperPoke Pet's habitat.
Perhaps Facebook is subtly encouraging casual sex.
Another hypothesis? The social networking site, filled with angry relationship updates and TMI baby photos, is breeding a generation of partiers with an expanded "eww" factor.
OK, you can go back to playing FarmVille.
Predicting divorce
"They'll never make it."
You utter the sentence confidently...and then watch the couple get married, have kids, and celebrate relationship bliss.
Unlike Oscar wins and "American Idol" results, I think I'm pretty good at predicting a romance's life span.
But occasionally, there's that wild card -- the couple who strangely manages to survive and thrive, despite initially having all the odds stacked against them.
Here's an interesting article from Slate about a marriage researcher's attempt to predict divorce based on how a newlywed couple fights. The prediction seems nearly impossible, but some people still say it can be done.
Weigh in: How do your natural instincts fare in predicting a couple's success?
(With her wedding on the horizon, my colleague Katie Holland has already vowed she'll never get divorced. Read more here.)
You utter the sentence confidently...and then watch the couple get married, have kids, and celebrate relationship bliss.
Unlike Oscar wins and "American Idol" results, I think I'm pretty good at predicting a romance's life span.
But occasionally, there's that wild card -- the couple who strangely manages to survive and thrive, despite initially having all the odds stacked against them.
Here's an interesting article from Slate about a marriage researcher's attempt to predict divorce based on how a newlywed couple fights. The prediction seems nearly impossible, but some people still say it can be done.
Weigh in: How do your natural instincts fare in predicting a couple's success?
(With her wedding on the horizon, my colleague Katie Holland has already vowed she'll never get divorced. Read more here.)
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
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The friend breakup
Imagine eying your favorite pedicure companion and saying, "It's not you. It's me."
Welcome to the world of the friend breakup.
The issue, which I've discussed here before, has resurfaced thanks to a recent Wall Street Journal piece titled "How to break up with a friend."
The writer notes that unlike a romantic relationship, there are no social norms for ending a friendship. You and your friend don't go to counseling undergo a formal divorce.
Part of the reason is the myth of "friends forever," the idea that your friendships are always supposed to transcend the limits of your romantic relationships.
I've known women who have had a friend formally give them the "we need to talk" speech. (Of course, it didn't include the standard breakup cliche of "let's just be friends.")
When it comes to friend breakups, I've always opted for the gradual "ignore and avoid" approach rather than direct confrontation. But the phoniness of exchanging formal pleasantries often leaves me wishing I'd opted for a formal breakup.
Weigh in: Is a friend breakup more complicated than a romantic one?
(via Jezebel)
Welcome to the world of the friend breakup.
The issue, which I've discussed here before, has resurfaced thanks to a recent Wall Street Journal piece titled "How to break up with a friend."
The writer notes that unlike a romantic relationship, there are no social norms for ending a friendship. You and your friend don't go to counseling undergo a formal divorce.
Part of the reason is the myth of "friends forever," the idea that your friendships are always supposed to transcend the limits of your romantic relationships.
I've known women who have had a friend formally give them the "we need to talk" speech. (Of course, it didn't include the standard breakup cliche of "let's just be friends.")
When it comes to friend breakups, I've always opted for the gradual "ignore and avoid" approach rather than direct confrontation. But the phoniness of exchanging formal pleasantries often leaves me wishing I'd opted for a formal breakup.
Weigh in: Is a friend breakup more complicated than a romantic one?
(via Jezebel)
DJ Roonie G opening Columbus club
DJ Roonie G, an entertainer who hails from Columbus and regularly performs in places like Las Vegas and New Orleans, will open a nightclub in downtown Columbus.
He confirmed the news in a phone interview with the Ledger-Enquirer this afternoon, noting the hot spot will open in the Broadway venue that's previously housed clubs like Savana's, Rumors and most recently The Oasis.
Roonie's club, Mix Nightclub and Lounge, will be an upscale dance bar that he expects will open in the next 45 days. It's the first nightclub he's solely owned.
The DJ said he'll continue performing on a national level while the nightclub is open. Roonie G, who has been recognized by trade publications like DJ Times and Club World Magazine, boasts a unique show that mixes video with music.
Weigh in: Will his new nightclub transform the downtown Columbus party scene?
Tiger Makes His First TV Appearance
Dr. Boyce Watkins, Syracuse University
Tiger Woods chose ESPN and the Golf Channel as the venues for his first interviews, since his sex scandal began four months ago. He gave the interviews with the requirement that they be only five minutes long.
"If you limit it to five minutes, when you account for structure, there's not much time to get into anything, which is probably best," said Syracuse University professor and pop culture expert Robert Thompson.
Woods had to be careful to ensure that the interviews were done in a such a way that they did not overshadow the PGA event being played this weekend. Woods has been able to transcend the game of golf in ways that no player in history has been able to accomplish. His presence (or lack thereof) can make or break a golf tournament's financial outcome.
"We really had two main things that were most important," said an ESPN spokesman. "No. 1, no restrictions on questions, and No. 2, we chose the interviewer."
Monday, March 22, 2010
Divorce doesn't make cents
I hate you, but my wallet can't live without you.
The Washington Post has an interesting piece about couples who have postponed divorce simply because they can't afford it. The article also mentions people who have separated romantically, but still live together.
Because -- you guessed it -- they can't afford to live otherwise.
I'd argue the issue isn't confined to married couples entering splitsville. When you've been dating somebody for a decent amount of time, it's only natural to think of the economic ramifications of a split. It can be a little disheartening to realize you'll finally have to buy your own dinners...or your own lawn mower.
Then again, financial issues can be a ray of light in a breakup's aftermath, too.
Once, when a friend broke up with a guy around Christmas, I watched her smile amid tears and say, "Well, at least I won't have to buy him a present."
It's also nice to think of all the money you'll save without having to hit up your former fling's favorite overpriced restaurant monthly.
Weigh in: Have finances ever been the deciding factor in your choice to keep a relationship alive?
The Washington Post has an interesting piece about couples who have postponed divorce simply because they can't afford it. The article also mentions people who have separated romantically, but still live together.
Because -- you guessed it -- they can't afford to live otherwise.
I'd argue the issue isn't confined to married couples entering splitsville. When you've been dating somebody for a decent amount of time, it's only natural to think of the economic ramifications of a split. It can be a little disheartening to realize you'll finally have to buy your own dinners...or your own lawn mower.
Then again, financial issues can be a ray of light in a breakup's aftermath, too.
Once, when a friend broke up with a guy around Christmas, I watched her smile amid tears and say, "Well, at least I won't have to buy him a present."
It's also nice to think of all the money you'll save without having to hit up your former fling's favorite overpriced restaurant monthly.
Weigh in: Have finances ever been the deciding factor in your choice to keep a relationship alive?
Exclusive Interview with Tiger Woods by ESPN SportsCenter
In an interview with ESPN's Tom Rinaldi, Tiger Woods says he's stronger after giving up a life of lies but nervous about returning to golf.
I love your accent
Seriously, that Alabama twang is totally hot. So much, in fact, that I'm willing to overlook all your relationship flaws.
I've already written about how I don't understand the accent obsession in dating. But I might be in the minority.
Need proof? Check out ILoveYourAccent.com, a new online dating Web site designed to help you find the mate -- or, um, "matey" -- of your dreams.
Your affinity for Australian conversation might go unnoticed, though. The site seems to focus on US and UK ties. Crumpets, anyone? Read more here.
Weigh in: Would you ever make an initial connection with someone solely because you liked his/her accent?
I've already written about how I don't understand the accent obsession in dating. But I might be in the minority.
Need proof? Check out ILoveYourAccent.com, a new online dating Web site designed to help you find the mate -- or, um, "matey" -- of your dreams.
Your affinity for Australian conversation might go unnoticed, though. The site seems to focus on US and UK ties. Crumpets, anyone? Read more here.
Weigh in: Would you ever make an initial connection with someone solely because you liked his/her accent?
Friday, March 19, 2010
What's going on this weekend?
Hey party people! Make sure to check out the Journey tribute item in my previous post. Here's your weekend lineup:
FRIDAY
SoHo Bar & Grill: Psyk Nyne, 10 p.m. $5, free for military. 706-568-3316.
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
The Loft: Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
Belloo’s: The Good Doctor, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
Eighty-Five: Siberia My Sweet, Attention System, 10 p.m. $5. 706-324-1500.
Daileys: Ophir Drive, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
SATURDAY
SoHo Bar & Grill: The Killing Ground, 10 p.m. $5. 706-568-3316.
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
Flip Flops: Whisky Bent, 9 p.m.
Spicoli's: Talk Journey to Me, Moby Dick, 8 p.m. 706-221-5252.
Daileys: Ophir Drive, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
Belloo’s: The Good Doctor, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
The Loft: Little Brown Peach, 9 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
SUNDAY
Spicoli’s: Karaoke, 8 p.m. free. 706-221-5252.
FRIDAY
SoHo Bar & Grill: Psyk Nyne, 10 p.m. $5, free for military. 706-568-3316.
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
The Loft: Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
Belloo’s: The Good Doctor, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
Eighty-Five: Siberia My Sweet, Attention System, 10 p.m. $5. 706-324-1500.
Daileys: Ophir Drive, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
SATURDAY
SoHo Bar & Grill: The Killing Ground, 10 p.m. $5. 706-568-3316.
VFW Post 665: The Last Rodeo Band, 9 p.m. $5. 706-687-6656.
Flip Flops: Whisky Bent, 9 p.m.
Spicoli's: Talk Journey to Me, Moby Dick, 8 p.m. 706-221-5252.
Daileys: Ophir Drive, 8 p.m. $5. 706-320-3353.
Belloo’s: The Good Doctor, 9 p.m. $5. 706-494-1584.
The Loft: Little Brown Peach, 9 p.m. $5. 706-596-8141.
SUNDAY
Spicoli’s: Karaoke, 8 p.m. free. 706-221-5252.
Don't Stop Believin?
Talk Journey to Me Promo
Talk Journey To Me | MySpace Music Videos
Readers of this blog know I have a special place in my heart for Journey. So I couldn't resist posting a special item about Saturday's Journey tribute show at Spicoli's, 5762 Milgen Road.
The band: Atlanta-based Talk Journey To Me. Apparently they're not only a Journey tribute act, but also a tribute band for Poison, GNR and Bon Jovi.
Wow. That's talent.
Watch the clip above to see how Talk Journey To Me compares to the real deal.
Party starts at 8 p.m. Band takes the stage around 9 or 10. Atlanta cover band Moby Dick will also perform.
Lady Gaga gets sued
Here's an interesting article about an ex-boyfriend who's suing Lady Gaga because he claims he created her stage name and "pushed her to explore different musical genres."
Please.
It makes me think how nice it would be we all had the freedom to sue our exes after making them better people.
I could make millions -- er, maybe at least $20 -- for the role I've had in teaching many clueless guys how to do laundry.
In all seriousness, we often better our partners during a romantic relationship. Sadly, we also often break up and watch our exes excel with skills they learned from us.
Sigh. Looks like it's time to watch "Can't Buy Me Love" again.
Dating prenups: Agree or disagree?
The scene is romantic: your first place together, matching pillows, a shared promise to clean the cat's litter box daily.
Then, he pulls out a contract and asks for your signature.
Welcome to the dating prenup, a growing trend among 20- and 30-somethings. Before moving in together, couples will sign an agreement dividing their property.
You know, just in case they break up.
I understand the practical fears that come with not having a ring on your finger and moving into a house that somebody else owns. Still, I'm leery of anything that merges love and business transactions.
Weigh in: Are dating prenups a necessary evil, or a recipe for relationship failure?
(via Lemondrop)
Then, he pulls out a contract and asks for your signature.
Welcome to the dating prenup, a growing trend among 20- and 30-somethings. Before moving in together, couples will sign an agreement dividing their property.
You know, just in case they break up.
I understand the practical fears that come with not having a ring on your finger and moving into a house that somebody else owns. Still, I'm leery of anything that merges love and business transactions.
Weigh in: Are dating prenups a necessary evil, or a recipe for relationship failure?
(via Lemondrop)
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Fighting on Facebook?
Do you and your significant other publicly duke it out on Facebook? Yeah, me neither.
But apparently some people do -- at least if you believe this NY Times article, which describes a common(?) tendency to air your relationship tiffs on Facebook.
Why? Sometimes, it's to get your friends to weigh in, take sides and decide who's right.
If that's the intended purpose, it often backfires, the NY Times article notes. An excerpt:
But rather than win support, fighting in front of your friends will more likely convince them that you shouldn’t be together in the first place, marriage counselors say. That certainly seems to be the case among friends of Facebook fighters, who, like any witnesses to a public spat, are caught in the middle, unsure whether to intervene or mind their own business.
I've witnessed relationship fights on Facebook and I think they're pretty lame.
In fact, I think any kind of public fighting -- whether it's on a laptop or in a restaurant -- signals tremendous immaturity. Here's my column on that topic.
Do you weigh in on Facebook fights, or simply smile while watching the drama from afar?
(via TresSugar)
But apparently some people do -- at least if you believe this NY Times article, which describes a common(?) tendency to air your relationship tiffs on Facebook.
Why? Sometimes, it's to get your friends to weigh in, take sides and decide who's right.
If that's the intended purpose, it often backfires, the NY Times article notes. An excerpt:
But rather than win support, fighting in front of your friends will more likely convince them that you shouldn’t be together in the first place, marriage counselors say. That certainly seems to be the case among friends of Facebook fighters, who, like any witnesses to a public spat, are caught in the middle, unsure whether to intervene or mind their own business.
I've witnessed relationship fights on Facebook and I think they're pretty lame.
In fact, I think any kind of public fighting -- whether it's on a laptop or in a restaurant -- signals tremendous immaturity. Here's my column on that topic.
Do you weigh in on Facebook fights, or simply smile while watching the drama from afar?
(via TresSugar)
Dr. Boyce Watkins: Are these McDonald's Ads Racist?
CNN just called me for an appearance on American Morning. They wanted to know if I think that these McDonald's ads are racist. Please watch them and tell me what you think:
Sandra Bullock & Jesse James
Everybody's buzzing about a possible split between actress Sandra Bullock and her husband, Jesse James. It's spurred by reports of James' possible infidelity.
If Bullock and James split, Bullock would join the many women who have experienced the "Oscar curse" -- getting a divorce shortly after winning a best actress Oscar.
As speculation over the celebrity couple heightened, one of my Facebook friends posted a status update saying that James' possible actions had diminished her faith in men.
Seriously?!?
I follow these stories for gossip's sake, but celebrity couple news rarely transcends into my understanding of real-life relationships.
While celebrity breakups can be disheartening, I think you have to step back and realize these people operate at an entirely different level than our date nights at Columbus Park Crossing. After all, Jesse James WAS once married to a porn star.
Weigh in: When a celebrity couple splits, does it affect your perception of real-life romance?
If Bullock and James split, Bullock would join the many women who have experienced the "Oscar curse" -- getting a divorce shortly after winning a best actress Oscar.
As speculation over the celebrity couple heightened, one of my Facebook friends posted a status update saying that James' possible actions had diminished her faith in men.
Seriously?!?
I follow these stories for gossip's sake, but celebrity couple news rarely transcends into my understanding of real-life relationships.
While celebrity breakups can be disheartening, I think you have to step back and realize these people operate at an entirely different level than our date nights at Columbus Park Crossing. After all, Jesse James WAS once married to a porn star.
Weigh in: When a celebrity couple splits, does it affect your perception of real-life romance?
Barack Obama on Fox
President Obama sits down with Fox News' Bret Baier to discuss his healthcare reform bill. Obama describes their conversation as "a little frustrating."
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
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St. Patrick's Day party picks
Don't know where to party on St. Patrick's Day? Here are some of your local options:
Irish pub Scruffy Murphy’s, 1037 Broadway, has been waiting for this day all year. The bar opens at 11:30 a.m. They’ll be serving Irish food like fish and chips, corned beef casserole and shepherd’s pie. The Irish musicians from Captain Mackey’s Goatskin and Stringband will entertain all day. After 4 p.m., there’s a cover charge of $10, or $15 for an Irish food buffet. The bar will offer green beer and all its regular popular Irish beers.
Irish pub Scruffy Murphy’s, 1037 Broadway, has been waiting for this day all year. The bar opens at 11:30 a.m. They’ll be serving Irish food like fish and chips, corned beef casserole and shepherd’s pie. The Irish musicians from Captain Mackey’s Goatskin and Stringband will entertain all day. After 4 p.m., there’s a cover charge of $10, or $15 for an Irish food buffet. The bar will offer green beer and all its regular popular Irish beers.
Spicoli’s hosts a costume party with DJ music, drink and shot specials and $1.50 beer specials all night. The bar is at 5762 Milgen Road. No cover.
The Cannon Brew Pub, 1041 Broadway, hosts a party beginning at 6 p.m. Proceeds benefit the American Red Cross.
SoHo Bar & Grill, 5751 Milgen Road, offers giveaways, party favors and beer specials. Beeramid entertains. No cover.
Belloo’s, 900 Front Ave., has drink specials, green beer, giveaways. No cover.
Mickey’s Pub, 4105 Buena Vista Road, has drink specials and DJ music. No cover.
At Smokey Bones Bar & Fire Grill, 5555 Whittlesey Blvd., you can expect a costume party with DJ music, drink specials and appetizer specials. Action starts at 7 p.m. No cover.
The Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road, hosts a party with music by Surgestone. There’s party favors and beer specials with a souvenir cup. No cover.
At Daileys, the local rockers from Ophir Drive promise to sport kilts during their St. Patrick’s Day performance. They say their set might include some St. Patrick’s Day surprises. Music starts at 10 p.m. The bar is at 1039 Broadway. No cover.
Flip Flops will open at 6 p.m. and offer DJ music and specials on green Bud Light and Jet Fuel. There will be prizes for hottest lady in green and best overall St. Patrick’s Day getup. The bar is at 1111 Broadway. No cover.
Kate Winslet & Sam Mendes
I skimmed past recent news that actress Kate Winslet and director Sam Mendes had broken up. A related post on Jezebel caught my attention, however.
Its headline: "Why does the Winslet-Mendes split make me so sad?"
The post echoes the common tendency to become personally invested in a celebrity couple, namely the ones who seem to remain somewhat stable amid Hollywood chaos. An excerpt:
They were an upper-middlebrow (lower-highbrow?) couple you didn't have to feel bad about ogling, because they seemed both brilliant and normal. And so nice. They spoke respectfully of another's work and successes without seeming smug. They were at the top of their games, but they seemed to live real lives.
Believe it or not, I felt the same way about Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee.
Kidding.
As much as I avoid admiring a couple based only on their public lives, I understand how easy it is to put a twosome on a romantic pedestal. You view them as proof that it's possible to romantically thrive even when the odds are against you.
And when they break up, well, ouch.
Weigh in: Have you ever been invested in a celebrity couple's relationship?
Its headline: "Why does the Winslet-Mendes split make me so sad?"
The post echoes the common tendency to become personally invested in a celebrity couple, namely the ones who seem to remain somewhat stable amid Hollywood chaos. An excerpt:
They were an upper-middlebrow (lower-highbrow?) couple you didn't have to feel bad about ogling, because they seemed both brilliant and normal. And so nice. They spoke respectfully of another's work and successes without seeming smug. They were at the top of their games, but they seemed to live real lives.
Believe it or not, I felt the same way about Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee.
Kidding.
As much as I avoid admiring a couple based only on their public lives, I understand how easy it is to put a twosome on a romantic pedestal. You view them as proof that it's possible to romantically thrive even when the odds are against you.
And when they break up, well, ouch.
Weigh in: Have you ever been invested in a celebrity couple's relationship?
Monday, March 15, 2010
Pregnant women are smug?
This is not an attack on you, Girl Who Posts Bare Stomach Photos Every Five Minutes on Facebook.
I caught Jay Leno's show Friday night just in time to watch comedic duo Garfunkel & Oates perform their Internet hit, "Pregnant Women are Smug."
The song includes memorable lines like, "You're just giving birth now, you're not Mother Earth now."
I think technology's rise has made it even easier to correlate pregnancy with smugness. You're no longer just tolerating a five-minute update in the grocery store -- there's the inevitable social networking deluge of photos and status updates.
That kind of outpouring can be tough for a singleton. Just when you think you survived the winter engagement blitz, the spring baby boom hits.
Recently, top items on my Facebook feed -- all from separate friends -- were a stomach photo, a pregnancy back pain update and a summary of what happens during the third trimester.
I bought my dog a T-shirt after work just to make sure my maternal instincts were still working.
Is excessive baby talk alone a reflection of smugness? No way.
But it's often an outsider's first brush with conversation that's truly one-sided. And that alone can be challenging.
If there is one, the moral might be to think before you talk and resist an urge to take yourself too seriously -- whether you're carrying the next child genius or touting the benefits of a Gerber-free existence.
Unsatisfied, pregnancy critics? Stuff a pillow under your shirt and temporarily savor the power of this line: "I can't. I'm pregnant."
Consider your grudge settled.
Black Entertainment News - 3/15/10
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