Are they Gay? Pretty Ricky Gets Clowned in this Cartoon

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Lady Drama: Gabrielle Union is Suing Bossip.com

Word on the street is that Gabrielle Union isn’t taking the Bossip brand of news sitting down.  She has pulled together a team of lawyers and plans on taking their butts to court!  Gabby has always hated bloggers, so we figured that it might come to this anyway.  Good luck!

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He Needs to Stop Selling Dreams!

by Nicole Spence

There is this girl I know, and we're friends.

She has been sorta dating this guy, well they've flirted with the idea of being more, but never took it there fully. Why? Cuz he is always on some stop and go shit! You know one minute wanna kick things up a couple of notches and the next he's on his period!

I don't like inconsistency so I encourage her to dip out! Don't delete him from your phone, but he sure as hell shouldn't be in her top 5!She took my advice and remained out of the picture for a couple of months, and you know never really gave the idea of him another thought, other than the occasional " what the hell was his problem"?
Fast forward time passes and he reaches out stating how much he misses her ( oh yea? ) and get this, that he realized that he needs her in his life. ( Pretty heavy shit I thought). So they exchange niceties back and forth, but she's still wading in the water because she doesn't know what this brother wants.

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Tennis Star Serena Williams Goes Off on Her Opponent

PARIS – Serena Williams was sure the ball went off her opponent's arm, a no-no in tennis. The opponent, Maria Jose Martinez Sanchez, insisted the ball went off her racket.

Williams accused Martinez Sanchez of "cheating." Martinez Sanchez thought that was a "stupid" thing for Williams to say.

Then consider that the point in question helped Martinez Sanchez win the first set of their French Open match Saturday. Oh, and that Williams had a coughing fit during a third-set changeover. All in all, what eventually became a 4-6, 6-3, 6-4 victory for Williams stands as the latest example of the athlete/actress' penchant for theatrics.

"I'm, like, drama. And I don't want to be drama," a hoarse Williams said, straining to get the words out. "I'm like one of those girls on areality show that has all the drama, and everyone in the house hates them because no matter what they do, like, drama follows them. I don't want to be that girl."

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Kimora Lee Simmons is in Labor!

Kimora Lee Simmons reported on the Baby Phat twitter site that she's in labor!

"It's time !! No turning back! At hospital in labor right now!! Love & Light, KLS"

This is child #3 for Lee and child #1 for her boyfriend, Djimon Hounsou. Congrats to them both.

What's going on this weekend?

The sun is out -- for now -- so you have a perfect reason to hit up Friday's free outdoor concert on Broadway. Classic Addict and Deeper Shades of Soul entertain 7-11 p.m.

While you're downtown, check out Hells/Bells, a Nashville-based AC/DC tribute act. They perform at The Roadhouse, 1047 Broadway, beginning at 8 p.m. Tickets are $10.

Beyond the nightlife scene, there's a book release party Saturday at The Coffee Beanery, 1204 First Ave. From 7 to 9:30 p.m., Felicia L. Hamilton will sign copies of "From High Heels to High Places." Expect music, food, free cocktails and free facials.

Here's the rest of your lineup:

FRIDAY

• Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

• Last Episode, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

• Hells/Bells, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $10.

• Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Gone Country, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• Jaded Soul, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

SATURDAY

• Jaded Soul, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

• Lee Holmes acoustic, 8 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• Last Episode, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

• State of Man, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

• Codfish Quartet, 7:30 p.m. Ossahatchee Oyster Bar and Grill, free. 706-582-2629.

• Jason Connelly, Christian Riddell, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• Haywire, 9 p.m. The Dawghouse, free. 706-507-9374.

• DJ D’Rock, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free.

I wanna take you for granted

How often do you say "thank you" to your significant other?

I'm always amazed by girls who thank their boyfriends for things like showing up. Being nice to their friends. Staying mildly sober.

It's like, "Hello, you're supposed to do that stuff."

One male writer agrees. In a guest blog post for the NY Times, he asks readers, "Do you thank your spouse too much?" If the answer is "yes," you might be in trouble. Here's why:

When I’m thanked for doing only the things I don’t necessarily enjoy, I’m left with the feeling that my efforts are above and beyond expectations — not simply my responsibility as a partner in raising a family. It is as if it’s optional that I continue to participate at this level.

It's a nice analysis. Often, our "thank yous" reinforce a belief that common courtesy is optional.

Nonetheless, as many of the post's commenters point out, if thanking each other is the biggest problem in your relationship, you're in pretty good shape.

Does Spike Lee Dislike Tyler Perry?

*On this weekend’s "Our World with Black Enterprise," director Spike Lee sits down with host Ed Gordon for a no holds barred interview rife with the artist’s trademark frankness.

Taped live at the 14th annual Black Enterprise Entrepreneurs Conference, Lee discusses his concern about the image of blacks in the media, and weighs in with his thoughts on contemporaries John Singleton and Tyler Perry. [See details below.]     

"Our World with Black Enterprise" will air its exclusive interview with Spike Lee on Saturday, May 30, and Sunday, May 31 on syndicated stations across the country.

Highlights include:

On his films being labeled “controversial”:

 

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Black News: Is Tupac Alive?

All I can say is “hmmmmm”.  Check out this Tupac Impersonator.  Real or not so real? Click the image to watch!

 

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Dr Boyce and Charlamagne Tha God: Was Michelle Obama Really Insulted?

In today’s news, 100.3 “The Beat” in Philly asks whether or not a comedian was insulting Michelle Obama by making jokes about her height and the way she looks.  Click the image to listen!

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Your Black News: Jay Z inks a deal with Sony

Rapper Jay-Z is close to signing a deal that will bring his future recordings to Sony, sources told Billboard.

The deal, which will link Jay-Z's Roc Nation releases with Sony's Epic Records for distribution, "is 95% complete," according to people familiar with the negotiations. A formal announcement is expected in the coming weeks.

Just last week, Jay-Z confirmed his departure from longtime label homeDef Jam, where he was once president and CEO. His split from theUniversal Music Group-owned label reportedly cost him $5 million, but left him in control of his future master recordings. Jay-Z's eleven solo records (including the live "Unplugged" album) and collaborations with Linkin Park and R. Kelly have sold more than 29 million units according toNielsen SoundScan.

Last year, Jay-Z and concert promoter Live Nation struck a wide-ranging deal that included touring, publishing and albums. The roughly $150 million pact includes a partnership in Roc Nation, as well as the rapper's own recordings and tours for the next 10 years.

 

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They're just jealous

What do you do when everyone -- except you -- thinks you're in a bad relationship?

This blog post was inspired by "Hitched or Ditched." Yes, I am still thinking about that show. Things take on an added sense of permanence when when you only get five channels.

Anyway, there was one scene in the first episode when a couple came to the harsh realization that no one wanted them to get married. This was literally proven by a show of hands. Or more appropriately, a show of no hands.

Their first instinct was to dismiss the criticism, saying, "They don't know what goes on behind closed doors."

To some extent, that's a fine reaction. Many couples have a different dynamic in public, one that can taint others' opinions of their emotions.

But having a couple critical friends is one things. Finding absolutely no support for your relationship is another.

You can make up all the excuses you want, but in the end all those people can't be wrong.

Can they?

What's going on tonight?

Hey Thursday partiers: Don't forget about the weekly Thursday martini tasting at Belloo’s, 900 Front Ave. Cost is $20 for individuals, $35 for couples. The tasting is offered 8 p.m. until closing time. Steve McRay performs tonight. Call 706-494-1584.

Here are some other party options:

• Mile Train, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

• Stereomonster, Unsung, Ethos, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free. $1.50 PBR.

Say cheese!

On the party scene, everyone has That Friend who always demands a photo do-over -- no matter how good the picture looks.

Today's nightlife column is about how we often hit the bars with one goal:

Take a new Facebook profile photo.

Everyone can relate to the sense of dread that comes with hearing one of your friends scream "Picture time!"

Even after entering the world of digital cameras, I've never been a huge photo person. I prefer to operate under an illusion of physical perfection. That's also why I avoid mirrors.

Some of my friends, however, are crazy about photos. I know people who will take nearly 100 on any given Saturday night.

How many photos do you take on an average weekend? And more importantly, what's your favorite kind of photo to make fun of on someone else's social networking page?

Rivertown Showdown results!

Hey everybody! It's nearly 1 a.m. Thursday and I just got back from the Rivertown Showdown at The Loft. Justin Belew, a worship pastor at Golden Acres Baptist Church in Phenix City, won the third installment of the singer-songwriter competition.

Belew (pictured above) was an all-around entertaining guy, getting an especially enthusiastic audience response from his song lamenting the loss of Pluto's official planet status.

Thirteen finalists performed Wednesday night. At stake? A prize package worth $1,500.



Even indicted attorney Mark Shelnutt, pictured here, appeared in the contest. He made no comment about the charges against him. His first original song, "The Song That Never Ends," was about the good times he had in college. His second, "Precious Child," was inspired by a friend going through a rough time.



The Rivertown Showdown is designed largely to draw attention to Columbus' prominence on the regional and national music scene. The competition attracts not only local artists, but also traveling musicians. Katie Pearlman, pictured here, flew from New York to compete in Wednesday's show.

Read more about the Rivertown Showdown here.

Cheating at its worst

I feel awkward telling the entire blogosphere about this, but there's somebody else in my boyfriend's life and I hate it.

He spends late nights with her, and sometimes full days on weekends. He puts money into making her feel better when she's hurt. He admits knowing how to turn her on, and has his hands all over her whenever they're together.

It's his computer.

This article about pet jealousy got me thinking that in relationships, sometimes the biggest jealousy doesn't involve another person at all.

It can be driven by a favorite TV show -- "I'll hang out right after Gossip Girl, honey" -- or a passion for sport. Or an inanimate object, like a computer or car, that somehow manages to always get more physical attention than you.

Which non-human force makes you most jealous?

Rivertown Showdown

Need Wednesday night party plans? Come hang out with me at the Rivertown Showdown.

The third installment of the singer-songwriter competition names its winner tonight at The Loft, 1032 Broadway.

Thirteen finalists perform in the final showcase, which starts at 8 p.m. Cover is $5.

Performers are Anthony Johnson, Ben Braswell, Justin Belew, Brent Lindley, Jason Connelly, Neal Lucas, John McGee, Brent Browning, Katie Pearlman, Mark Shelnutt, Gini Woolfolk, Griff Parrish and Doug Cox.

The competition included six weeks of preliminary rounds and attracted nearly 50 singers. Tonight's winner gets a prize package worth $1,500.

Hitched or ditched

Fortunately, a hot handyman installed my digital TV converter box just in time for the premiere of the CW's new reality series, "Hitched or Ditched."

Ladies and gentlemen, I have a new guilty pleasure.

Here's how the show works: Each week focuses on a couple who's at the stage where one partner is thinking, "What are we doing?" The producers surprise them by fully funding their dream wedding. With one catch: The wedding has to happen in one week.

Essentially the show should be called "Marry me...or else," but that probably sounded a little too cruel.

Monday's episode focused on a couple who had been dating for four years. When they got to the altar, the girl said "I do" and the guy said "I don't." Done. Broken up.

Ignore the discomfort that comes with being dumped on national TV and you might actually love this show.

Yes, it's cheesy reality television, but as the LA Times keenly observes here, it accurately reflects an unspoken question that clouds many partnerships:

Where is this relationship going?

Black Celeb News: Boxer Mike Tyson’s Daughter Dies

The 4-year-old daughter of boxer Mike Tyson died at a hospital Tuesday, a day after her neck apparently got caught in a treadmill cord at her Phoenix home, police said.

Exodus Tyson was pronounced dead just before noon, police Sgt. Andy Hill said. She had been on life support and police have said their investigation showed her injury on Monday was a "tragic accident."

"There are no words to describe the tragic loss of our beloved Exodus," the family said in a statement. "We ask you now to please respect our need at this very difficult time for privacy to grieve and try to help each other heal."

Police said Exodus either slipped or put her head in the loop of a cord hanging under the console. Her 7-year-old brother found her and told their mother. She took Exodus off the cord, called 911 and tried to revive her.

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The silver lining

Enter a long-distance relationship and you'll be treated to the pleasure that comes with a constant fear of infidelity.

If you're really lucky, you'll savor the financial burden of buying frequent cross-country plane tickets.

Forgive my sarcasm. There really is a good side to the infamous LDR. Twenty good sides, in fact.

At least that's what one writer for The Frisky argues. Here, she lists 20 reasons to date long-distance. Entries include reasons like "there's much less to fight about" and "you'll never feel suffocated by your SO."

The items are entertaining, but I can't get past the fact that those reasons also mark the LDR's biggest weakness: It blinds you to the necessary problems that affect traditional relationships.

Nonetheless, if you have a definite end point for the distance element of your relationship, you can learn a lot from an LDR.

A three-month cross-country separation, for instance, can remind you of the importance of independence and having friends outside of the person with whom you're romantically involved.

What's the biggest lesson you've learned from a long-distance relationship?

Rapper Rick Ross Has Baby Mama Drama

Here's what Tialondra Kemp (Rick Ross's baby mom) has to say about Rick Ross.

“50 reached out to my attorney. I told him that I wanted to do a book and he made it happen,” Kemp shared with AllHipHop.com. “He got me my publishing deal and everything. He really helped me a lot. Rick Ross would’ve never gave me this opportunity.”

“I think that everybody know that he’s [Rick Ross] a fake and he’s a fraud and I think it’s a lot of things that’s in the book that would explain why he’s that type of person, you know,” Kemp continued. “He was an abusive person, you know. And he’s a deadbeat dad. He’s battered his first baby mama and the only things that he’s done is put his hands on women… he’s never been arrested but for battery for on his baby mom. Right now, he has an open case for carrying a concealed firearm, but the firearm was registered to him. And the reason he caught the charge is because his concealed weapon license was revoked for the battery he had against his first baby mom.”

“I wouldn’t consider him as a great father. I’m quite sure he loves his son, but he’s not supporting his son. He’s not in his son’s life. And that’s what it’s about,” she said. “You know, it’s not about money. It’s about being there for your child, you know, and showing them love.”

 

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Men in aprons

I recently realized that in the majority of married couples I know, the man is responsible for making dinner most nights.

Weird, huh?

Sure, sometimes the setup is a result of scheduling constraints. But in most cases, the guy has made a conscious choice to be the cook in the relationship.

For men, food has become not only a vehicle for seduction, but a permanent -- and welcome -- relationship responsibility.

Last year, the term "gastrosexual" made waves on the dating scene. It refers to men who "consider cooking more a hobby than a household chore and use their kitchen prowess to impress friends and prospective partners," one article notes.

I love a man who can grill me a good steak. Add a savory plate of pasta to the mix and I'm yours forever.

But some women take issue with a man who wants to be the primary provider in the kitchen. Most of our mothers were raised to be a family's sole cook, and taught us to expect to inherit that role.

Having a man who wants to make us dinner can be a relief, but under the wrong circumstances it can also lead to a control struggle.

Give me your thoughts on a man who can cook -- you know, beyond the realm of frozen pizzas.

Beyonce Says You Shouldn’t Have to Work out to be Sexy

Here's what beyonce says about working out and being sexy...

“To me, it’s sexier when it doesn’t look like you go to the gym,” she told Britain’s Daily Mail. “If you look like you’ve been spending a lot of time in the gym, then it just looks like you spend a lot of time in the gym.”

“I feel best when I’m not really thin and not really heavy—when I’m still curvy. I really believe that everyone is supposed to be different, and whatever is a natural weight for you is usually what looks best.”

“The truth is, it’s a lot of sacrifice. It’s more about your mental strength than physical strength. You have to push yourself. It doesn’t matter what trainer you have, and it doesn’t matter what program you’re on,”

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Watch out, bad boys

The intriguing image of a rule-breaking, rebellion-making Bad Boy has been overtaken by a sea of smiley faces.

At least that's what this NY Times piece says.

It argues that niceness is back with a vengeance, thanks largely to the "aw shucks" vibe of entertainers like actor Paul Rudd and "American Idol" Kris Allen. In summary:

That amiable guys and uncomplicated sweethearts could be today’s pop heroes is one sign of an outbreak of niceness across the cultural landscape — an attitude bubbling up in commercials, movies and even, to a degree, the normally not-nice blogosphere.

If this is true, could the infamous Bad Boy finally lose his appeal on the dating scene?

(via Jezebel)

What's going on this weekend?

Hey everybody! Friday's Whisky Bent concert on Broadway was canceled, but you still have party options.

Here's your lineup:

FRIDAY

• Boneheadz, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• DJ D Rock, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free.

• Spent, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

• Bad Element, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

• The Relics, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Seven Zero Sixx, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

• Foreplay, 6 p.m. Shanty Shack, free. 706-507-3418.

• Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

SATURDAY

• Boneheadz, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

• WILX, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• DJ D Rock, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free.

• Keith Stewart (acoustic), 8 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Neal Lucas Band, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, $5. 706-322-3460.

• Platinum Fuzz, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• Spinfish, 7:30 p.m. Ossahatchee Oyster Bar and Grill, free. 706-582-2629.

• The Relics, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Starlume, Blue Flashing Light, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

Hot for teacher

I'll post the full roundup of weekend parties soon, but I want to remind you that tonight is Teacher Appreciation Night at the Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road.

Beginning around 4 p.m., local teachers will pack the Shack and enjoy games, drink specials and more. Foreplay plays at 6 p.m. No cover.

To anyone who's offended by the concept, I say lighten up. Things could be much worse.

Case in point: Mary Kay Letourneau, who served a prison sentence for having an affair with a sixth-grader, is hosting "Hot for Teacher" night at a Seattle bar.

Is this cheating?

Thanks to celebrities' recent infidelity epidemic, there's now all sorts of articles justifying the times we've snooped on a significant other's cell phone contact list.

Buzz about "emotional affairs" has also returned to women's magazines.

This Oprah.com article says even though emotional affairs lack physical intimacy, they involve a deeper breach of trust and are therefore most difficult to recover from.

There's something dangerous about relying on someone other than your spouse as your chief confidant. But as the term "emotional affair" takes a more prominent role in the relationship world, it also risks making distrust and paranoia more common.

Is there such thing as an emotional affair? And if it exists, is emotional cheating more or less severe than physical cheating?

Why Does Irv Gotti Treat His Wife Like Sh*t?

Hip-hop "mogul" Irv Gotti has gotten tremendous criticism for mistreating his estranged wife, Deb. Let's be real, Irv is mean and appears to be highly inconsiderate. He cheats on Deb openly, disrespects her and doesn't seem to care if she stays or goes.

"Irv Gotti treats his wife worse than an abandoned dog in a pound," says black celebrity gossip columnist, Lady Drama. "Any man who treats his wife like that should walk through hell with gasoline soaked pants."

But while Irv does his thing and does it wherever and with whomever he likes, his wife may not necessarily be an innocent victim. She has the opportunity to leave him and be with another man. She can draw boundaries on the relationship and not deal with his behavior. But she does not. Why is that?

In this episode of Financial Lovemaking with Dr. Boyce, we talk about Gotti and what he and his wife can do to make things right. We also answer some critical and important questions.

Continue reading Financial Lovemaking with Dr. Boyce: Is Irv Gotti's Way the Right Way?

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The church date

Is church the new meet market?

A guest blogger tackles that question on the AJC's dating blog, describing the pros and cons of meeting a significant other at church. My favorite part: The "God told me you were my spouse" pickup line.

I've heard tons of stories from readers who met partners at church. The concept makes sense: In theory, you're in a pool of people with the same values and ideals.

And it's significantly less sleazy than the bar scene...assuming you leave room for the Holy Spirit.

But tread lightly. Much like the gym, some people view church as a sanctuary where you go to be "in the zone" for an hour. Uninvited pickup lines taint that process.

Finding romance at church is great -- if your relationship works.

If it doesn't, you're forced to associate a place traditionally rooted in love with, well, anything but.

What's going on tonight?

Hey everybody! The weekend's almost here. Get in the party mood with these Thursday night options:

• Gary Parmer, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, free. 706-494-1584.

• Whisky Bent, 10 p.m. Scruffy Murphy’s, free. 706-322-3460.

• Magnolia Sons, Colorcast Veteran, Sequoyah Prep School, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

• Stereomonster, Unsung, Ethos, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free. $1.50 PBR.

You bore me

What's the meanest thing a significant other has ever said to you?

I started thinking about that question after reading this article from The Frisky. It's a list of mean things women say to men.

In the romance world, verbal spars aren't gender-specific. Probably the meanest line a guy's told me is, "I should be attracted to you, but I'm not." Kinda harsh, right?

But unfortunately, in relationships, the biggest emotional pain often comes from saying nothing at all.

The pain of NOT hearing "I love you" is sometimes far worse than hearing "I don't love you."

I've written before about my totally tactful MySpace breakup. In that situation, when I was dumped indirectly, I would have much rather heard a 30-minute tirade about my lack of romantic appeal.

Something -- even when it's mean -- is better than nothing.

Groom duties

Jezebel introduces us to ThePlunge.com, a new online community dedicated to helping guys plan their weddings.

You'll learn all about hard-hitting topics like what constitutes cheating at a bachelor party, as well as advice for what to do if the maid of honor is "a bit loose."

I can't imagine too many guys programming this one into their Internet favorite places. I predict it'll mainly serve as a link women constantly forward to the men in their lives.

That's not to say the site doesn't serve a purpose. The writing is actually pretty entertaining, especially this installment of live-blogging from the 2009 Great Bridal Expo in New York.

Maybe I'm not part of the intended audience, but I'll be back for more.

It's the perfect detox for when you've spent one too many afternoons with that friend who squeals every time she says "registry."

Black News: “The Game” is Gone

Word on the street is that CW has canceled "The Game". Now this definitely doesn't come as a surprise because we all know that black shows are always the first to get axed. There are still some rumors saying that the cancellation isn't final, but I don't believe that at all. I guess the show was good while it lasted.

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Posted By LadyBaby to Your Black Gossip: The Official Source of Black Celebrity Gossip at 5/20/2009 04:52:00 PM

What? Michael Vick Goes Home

Former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick left a federal prison in Leavenworth, Kansas, early Wednesday, according to his publicist and the Federal Bureau of Prisons.

Michael Vick, left, arrives at federal court with attorney Billy Martin in Richmond, Viriginia, in 2007.

He will serve the last two months of his 23-month sentence in home confinement in Virginia, his publicist Judy Smith said. He is a native of Newport News, Virginia.

Vick, 28, pleaded guilty in August 2007 to a federal charge of bankrolling a dogfighting operation at a home he owned in Virginia.

He will return to professional football as soon as September if reinstated by the NFL, according to the sports agent who negotiated Vick's 10-year, $140 million contract with the Falcons. Meanwhile, Vick's attorneys have said he will work at a Newport News construction firm following his release, and he has also agreed to participate in a documentary for $600,000.

Last month, a federal bankruptcy judge denied a Chapter 11 bankruptcy plan presented by Vick, urging him to offer the court another plan to emerge from bankruptcy. The plan called for Vick to come up with $750,000 to $1 million in cash to be paid to creditors, U.S. Bankruptcy Judge Frank Santoro said, but added he saw no evidence Vick could come up with that much. Santoro suggested Vick's next plan not call for him to keep two houses and three cars, as did the rejected proposal.

In testimony, Vick acknowledged committing a "heinous" act and said he should have acted more maturely. He said he has been earning 12 cents an hour as an overnight janitor in prison. His Falcons salary, he said, was between $10 million and $12 million. He acknowledged failing to handle his money well.

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WTF? Eminem Apologizes to Nick Cannon

'What I actually meant to say is, I wish them the best,' Em says of 'Bagpipes From Baghdad' lyrics.

By Jayson Rodriguez

Is Eminem taking the high road? As odd as it seems, that's what the rapper did in answer to Nick Cannon's furious blog post responding to Em's apparent dis of Mariah Carey in a new track. Well, he's sort of taking the high road. He still is Slim Shady after all.

During an interview with BBC Radio 1 host Tim Westwood on Saturday, Eminem explained the song that sparked the ire of Carey's husband.

"With the song 'Bagpipes From Baghdad,' I kinda spazzed out on that record, but I guess I spazzed out on every record," Em told Westwood of the Relapse track. "There's a line on there that was a little harsh. It's a harsh line. ... But it's like this, the way I look at it: I had no idea he was gonna take it like he took it. I had no idea Nick Cannon was gonna start wildin' out on me. No pun intended."

Possibly in jest, Em said his lyrics — which include the lines, "Nick Cannon better back the f--- up. I'm not playing, I want her back, you punk," and, "Nick Cannon, you pr---, I wish you luck with that f---in' whore" — were misinterpreted. The rapper downplayed the situation, and his level tone seemed to be an attempt to diffuse any tension between himself and Cannon.

 

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Sorry, TI Really Will Serve an Entire Year

Despite several reports, rapper T.I. is still on track to spend approximately one year in prison when he enters the Forrest City Federal Correctional Complex’s low security facility next week.

Following a report by the Associated Press on Sunday (May 17), news spread across the internet and throughout the entertainment industry that the Atlanta entertainer would only serve two months of the 366-day sentence handed down in March in connection with his October 2007 arrest. The reduced sentence was due to a credit for the 305 days of home confinement T.I.

However, Charysse Alexander, a spokesperson for the U.S. Attorney’s Office for the Northern District of Georgia told MTV.com today that the credit has nothing to do with T.I.’s prison sentence.

The rapper, born Clifford Harris, could see 15% of his sentence taken off for good behavior, reducing his sentence to 311 days.

The credit for home confinement will be applied to the 365 days of house arrest the rapper was set to serve after he completes his prison term, Alexander added.

In an interview with the Associate Press, Forrest City spokesperson R.D. Weeks indicated that when T.I. joins the other 1,500 inmates currently being held at the facility, he will most likely be treated like any other prisoner.

The rapper will still be required to turn himself in at the end of the month. Paperwork filed in his federal court case shows he has until noon on May 26 to report for his sentence.

Unless a custody or security concern is observed, he will be placed in general population, will share a double-bunked cell with another prisoner, and will have access to all inmate activities, including the recreation yard and counseling.

The "King of the South" will reportedly complete two music videos before beginning his stay. Tip's rep told XXL that the Atlanta rap giant has already shot one video and will shoot another clip for "Don't Forget," his duet with Mary J. Blige on Thursday (May 21) in Los Angeles. Both new songs will appear on the re-issue to T.I.'s multi-platinum selling album Paper Trail. While there is no official release date as of yet, they are hoping to drop the album sometime this August.

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First impressions

Monday, some of my friends were captivated by the premiere of the newest installment of "The Bachelorette."

I didn't watch, mainly because I just don't have the brain capacity to follow the show when 30 potential suitors are involved. Narrow the pool to four and I'll be hooked.

I'm always amazed at how reality TV dating contestants are forced to give so many of their prospects the boot after such a short period of time.

I realize producers must manipulate the process to some extent, but I wonder which factors go through a Bachelor or Bachelorette's mind during the first cut.

And just as often, I wonder what would go through my mind if I was in a similar scenario.

Some obvious factors feed early attraction: good smile, nice sense of humor, admirable grooming habits.

But there are also quirky things that hook people just as commonly. Say, a specific hairstyle or speech pattern.

When it comes to first impressions, which traits make you keep somebody around?

Muldoon's Tuesdays start tonight

Last week I wrote this article about how older partiers are looking for a new nightlife niche now that Muldoon's and Memory Lane have closed.

The Shanty Shack is trying to lure those "homeless" partiers with a new promotion that begins tonight.

From 7 to 11 p.m. Tuesdays, the Warm Springs Road hot spot will replicate the atmosphere of longtime hangout Muldoon's. H2O stands in the place of Muldoon's now.

Tonight, Muldoon's Tuesdays kick off at the Shanty Shack with a performance by local band Haywire. Arrive early and you'll have a shot at getting free food.

Love in a battlefield

Here's an interesting article about how more military members are using online dating sites to find love in the U.S. while serving in Iraq or Afghanistan.

It notes:

The percentage of military members joining eHarmony online dating increased by 56% from 2006 to 2008, says Gian Gonzaga, an eHarmony research psychologist. The companies do not have statistics on how many of their military personnel are deployed overseas.

The life-altering experience of going to war often focuses the romantic mind, Gonzaga says. "When you are reminded of your own mortality, the theory kind of boils down to, you remember what's most important to you, which is relationships," he says.

But the online relationships can be straining, the article adds. It points to a fear that the servicemember is reaching out because of sheer loneliness, rather than an attraction to a specific partner.

While in Columbus, I've watched many couples deal with the stress that comes when a spouse returns from a deployment. Sometimes, even couples with the most solid marital foundations have a hard time weathering this stress.

I'd imagine things would be even harder for a couple meeting face-to-face for the first time. Then again, maybe love really does conquer all.

Thoughts?

Bud Light Lime, anyone?

I have absolutely no shame in holding a bottle of beer displaying the phrase "pomegranate infusion."

But maybe that's just me.

Here, Jezebel is critical of the growing crop of "girlie beers." The piece talks about how increasingly, beers with ingredients like elderberry and elderflower are being marketed exclusively toward women.

I'm all for drinking in moderation -- and taking all measures possible to avoid the dreaded beer gut -- but you can't assume women will drink dainty cosmopolitans every time they're put in a social drinking environment.

This is especially true on the Columbus bar scene, where it's often safer to opt for a bottle of beer than put your faith in a bartender's shaky mixology skills.

The rise of "girlie beers" hasn't upped my drinking at all. If nothing else, I'm glad there's an option other the usual Bud Light.

Glad enough to even drink this strawberry-flavored brew in public.

Taraji Rocks the Carpet

A CURIOUS CASE: Taraji P. Henson, who usually kills on the red carpet, was busting out of this minidress last week. Sexy and sassy or a fashion sin? [Go Fug Yourself]
OH NO 'SHE' DIDN'T: 'Real Housewives of Atlanta' cast member Sheree Whitfield -- the one fans love to hate -- debuted her new fashion line, She by Sheree, in her hometown recently. It's not bad... if chinchilla-trimmed bikinis are your thing. [The Fashion Bomb]

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Tyler Perry's Next Movie: "I Can Do Bad All By Myself"

Tyler Perry's next movie is the screen adaptation of his play, "I Can Do Bad All By Myself". It's stated to be released on September 11th. His website had no info on the cast, but surfing the net, shows Taraji Henson, Bryan J. White, and Gladys Knight as part of the cast. Of course we will see Tyler as Madea and Joe!

Here's a short clip of the movie:

Updated: What's going on this weekend?

Update: Just learned there's a whipped cream contest Saturday night at Big City Club, 1113 Broadway. Organizers promise a cash prize for "the sexiest lady that knows what to do when it's time to get down and dirty and down to business." Make of that what you like. No cover if you bring in a can of whipped cream.

Two more great outdoor concerts this weekend. Friday, catch Classic Addict 7-10 p.m. on Broadway. The show is free. Saturday, Clarence Carter of "Strokin'" fame entertains at the Phenix City Amphitheater. Show starts at 8 p.m. and tickets are $10.

Here's the rest of your lineup:

FRIDAY

• Classic Addict, 10 p.m. Flip Flops, $5.

• Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Jury, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

• Haywire, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Georgia Music Hall of Fame presents “Nashville Portraits Party” featuring T. Graham Brown, Jimmy Hall and Toni Price, 9 p.m. The Loft, $15. 706-596-8141.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• The Relics, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

• Misfortune 500, Debutante Massacre, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

SATURDAY

• Sonia Leigh, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• Jury, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

• Lee Holmes (acoustic), 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Claiborne & Friends, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• Classic Addict, 9 p.m. Flip Flops, $5.

• The Pennies, Poanna, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

• The Relics, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

Love in a point and shoot world

Come, on people: Have we really not learned the hazards of risque photos?

Amid the newest set of "leaked" celebrity pictures, Esquire gives us this advice on how to photograph your scantily clad significant other.

Among the tidbits: "Be positive in your speech and sort of encouraging in your exclamations... much like you would to a child."

You know, making it even easier to save the photos for blackmail purposes once you guys break up.

When it comes to X-rated photos, is there any appropriate advice other than "don't do it"?

(via Jezebel)

Why are you still single?

If that question makes you cringe, you're not alone.

A male AJC blogger complains about it here. In his example, the inquiry didn't come from a prying relative or nosy hairdresser: It came from a potential girlfriend.

Whether you're single or married, pregnant or childless, it's impossible to escape unwelcome personal questions.

They surface frequently during family gatherings. Case in point: This woman's fear she'll spend her brother's wedding answering the dreaded "When are you going to get married?"

But it's not just Grandma. Our peers are just as prone to delve into our private lives with an awkward inquiry.

Are you seeing anyone? Why hasn't he proposed yet? When are you going to have kids?

Some of my friends approach these questions with a rehearsed answer. Others stammer incoherently every time.

What's your strategy? Have you perfected the art of responding to a too-personal question?

What's going on tonight?

Man, the weekend cannot come soon enough. Hopefully these Thursday night party options will ease the wait:

• Stereomonster, Unsung, Ethos, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free. $1.50 PBR.

• U.S, 9 p.m. Shanty Shack, free. 706-507-3418.

• Steve McRay, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, free. 706-494-1584.

• Halo Stereo, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

Lady Drama: Black Celebs Come Out for Maxim

Check out what the cat dragged in... Gabrielle Union and Dania Ramirez along with Ciara and the Kardashians all hit up Maxim's 10th Annual Hot 100 Celebration which went down in Santa Monica this week!


I'm feeling just about everyone except for Ciara, who told her looking like an extra terrestial was cute?




****On a sidenote some model chick had on the same dress as Gabrielle Union... How embarrassing can I get an axe to the stylist please!

The relationship 'break'

What do you think about couples who go on a "break"?

You know, a split that includes a possibility they will get back together.

This college student writes how she and her boyfriend agreed to go on a "break" while she studies abroad over the summer. During that time, they've agreed it's OK to hook up with other people. She concludes:

We have discussed getting back together after I get back, but nothing is set in stone. We know that we’re young and that we have a long way to go before either of us considers settling, so, to be a little cliche about it, whatever happens, happens.

I think this is a recipe for disaster.

These situations always end up the same way. At the start, both partners talk about how wonderful the setup is and how it's great they're not jealous people.

Then, a couple weeks in, one person is pining away for the old relationship while the other has completely moved on.

The term "break" is simply an attempt to lessen the emotional severity of a breakup. Its attempt at leaving doors open is nothing but a vehicle for false hope.

Thoughts?

Why can't we be friends?

I'm talking about the possible friendship divide between married people and singletons.

As her wedding approaches, one writer for The Frisky laments the inevitable loss of her single friends.

She writes, "...The days of 'romancing' my friends — of luxuriating in their company all weekend long and most weekday evenings is over. Given the choice — which, thankfully, I have now that my relationship is not a long-distance one — I’d rather spend most of my free time with my fiance."

Few women keep all their female friendships intact once they get married.

It's just too easy to rely on your husband as your No. 1 companion. Then, when he goes out of town for a weekend and you ask your single friends to hang out, they can't help but feel like they're merely filling a temporary vacancy.

Just consider this reader comment from the aforementioned article:

We singles aren’t morons. We realize that your marriage will always come first, but throw us a bone and don’t treat us like an employee you call only when there’s a crisis to tend to.

Harsh, but all too often, totally true.

Can married people and singletons maintain healthy friendships?

Is skin always in?

I recently described my biggest nightlife fashion pet peeves to a guy: "Women should pick one asset to flaunt," I said. "If you're going to show a lot of cleavage, don't wear really short shorts. And if you're going to show a lot of leg, don't wear a low-cut shirt."

My male companion stared at me blankly. "You know what I mean?" I asked.

"I don't know why you can't show both," he said.

OK, guys...I get it. You like to see a lot of bare skin. But there has to be a cutoff somewhere, right?

Case in point: Last week I spotted a female partier downtown who not only skipped out on a bra, but also opted for a scoop neck that was, well, a little too scooped. She might as well have just been wearing strategically placed stickers up there.

Come on, that can't be attractive.

Tell me honestly, male readers: Do you ever look at a tube top wearing, short skirt flaunting woman and think, "that is just TOO much"?

Amy Winehouse Does a Horrible Job in Comeback

Click the image to watch Amy Winehouse totally f*ck up her comeback performance.  Sad to watch this singer’s amazing career go down the drain.

 

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Three's company?

There's a new marriage debate on the scene, and it hasn't yet been tainted by a controversy involving Miss California.

The partnership at stake? Threesomes.

There's a growing movement to legally recognize the threesome -- or its politically correct cousin, the triad. Read more in this piece from The Daily Beast.

I was skeptical at first, too. But then I realized the permanent addition of a third person in romantic relationships could really hold some benefits, including:

*Instant mediator/tie-breaker

*Much easier to divide a 9-slice pizza

*One more income to aid in bill-paying

*Tremendous potential for double engagement bling

Sold yet?

Black News: Beyonce Plans to Take a Year Off

Beyonce kicks off the American leg of her world tour this June in New York City, but though she works hard balancing being a superstar singer and an actress, she might be gearing up for some serious time at home.

“My priorities are slowly changing. So after this tour I might be tired and want to take two years off,” Beyonce told the June issue of Marie Claire. “I’ve worked hard enough to be able to do that. I’m in a very good place.”

Before that time comes – if ever – Beyonce is working hard to balance family life with her husband, Jay-Z.

“We try to sync our calendars,” Beyonce said. “I started working on my tour a year ago just to make sure that I had time at home. But you know, that’s part of it. Any other woman who has to go to work and pick up the kids and make dinner…

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The toothbrush situation

Few accessories have so much potential to completely destroy a relationship.

Enter the toothbrush. It's a seemingly harmless token of personal hygiene. Leave it at a partner's apartment too quickly, though, and it can become a scary indicator of obsession.

This blogger tells guys to break up with any girl who leaves a personal item at your apartment after three months of dating. With that rule in mind, here's his advice for handling the toothbrush situation:

Buy an electric toothbrush with the replaceable heads. Have 1 extra head and tell each woman who spends the night that you have a "fresh" head that she can use. You don't actually have to replace it for each woman.. that would be expensive.

Yeah guys, you wonder why we don't want to stay at your place...

I know some girls who regard the toothbrush drop-off as a major milestone in a relationship. I'm not among them, but I love me some oral hygiene. And it gets to the point where you're just sick of having morning breath while making out in the morning.

Tell me, readers: When it comes to relationships, is a toothbrush ever "just" a toothbrush?

Priyanka's loss is Bipasha's gain!

The luggage brand, which Shahid Kapoor endorses, recently approached Priyanka Chopra to be part of their second sub-brand ad.

Obviously the brand wanted to cash in on the budding romance between the pair. But the actress quoted a whopping amount and now Bipasha Basu has been signed by the luggage brand, which caters to the youth and comes in vibrant colors.

It was Bling who cracked the deal for Bengali Bombshell. A source reveals, "Bipasha will be shooting for the brand solo. The shooting will start next week in a Mumbai studio. Anaita Shroff Adajania will style Bips for a photo shoot that has been planned before shooting the ad."

Shahid and Priyanka will be seen together in Vishal Bhardwaj's Kaminey, which is slated for release shortly.

Promiscuous girls: MIA

The economy's in shambles, the job market's a wreck and just when you thought things couldn't get any worse, the loose women disappear.

At least that's the assessment from this Esquire reporter, who laments the loss of the skank with a piece that begins, "Brilliant, funny, and powerful women are retreating from sex as never before..."

He notes how TV characters like Liz Lemon ("30 Rock") and Whitney Port ("The City") take up the strong woman role, but don't pair it with the sex obsession that dominated "Sex and the City."

What fueled the loose woman's extinction? Here's an excerpt:

But the post-post-feminist maelstrom that is Danica Patrick and the Real Housewives of Wherever and Secretary Clinton versus Beauty Queen Palin means that women can wield real power, but it comes at the cost of confusion — professional, social, and sexual. Sex has become a minefield just too tricky to navigate as they build a career or a family or a reality-TV-show franchise. They go elsewhere.

I planned to argue against this piece from a pop culture standpoint, but it seems like hardly any remaining shows that include That Woman -- you know, the loose friend who treats men like physical conquests.

Samantha Jones ("SATC"), as we all know, has retired from the small screen. And Nicollette Sheridan's Edie Britt has left "Desperate Housewives."

Are there any loose women left on TV? And if not, is there any impact for the real world?

LOL – Nick Cannon Tries to Get At Eminem

OK, how a dude gonna be a pencil-pusher at Nickelodeon and be trying to get up into some ol Gangsta shyt?  Nick Cannon is apparently upset about Eminem addressing his wife on his track, but is not quick to realize that he can’t do shyt about it.  Dude, didn’t yo daddy help you get your first job in the industry? Check out little Nick-el-odeo-cannon and his words:

"At first I thought it was old material that had been dug up from when dude "fantasized" about having a pretend fling with Mariah," Cannon wrote via his blog. "So as I further examine the track, I hear dude cross the line. He begins to call my wife out of her name! Now as y'all know, I don't take that type of nonsense lightly. So on some grown man sh*t I'm instantly like, I got to get at this Lame...Let's not forget about Eminem's amateur mixtape rants of calling African Americans N*gger and how he hates "Black B*tches." How did we let him get away with that in the first place?! He is a natural born racist in disguise...So I'm putting this out there now. Marshall Mathers, you need to holler at me on some grown man sh*t. Man to man, let's meet up and deal with this like adults...So Miss Marshall, I'm going to make you wish you never spoke my name and regret the ungodly things you said about my wife. This is going to be fun! It's however you want it! Just remember, you did this to yourself! Your legacy has now been tainted from this day forth! You will now be known as the rapper who lost to Corny-a** Nick Cannon!!!" (Nick Cannon's Blog)

 

Em's has this to say on his leaked track opens up name-checking Mariah.

"Oh, it's music to my ears," he said in the song's intro. "How can I describe the way I feel? F*cking great man. Okay, let me see. How can I begin, locked in Mariah's wine cellar/All I had for lunch was bread wine, more bread wine than Cap 'n Crunch/Red wine for breakfast and for brunch/And to soak it up in-between snack crackers to munch/Mariah whatever happened to us/Why did we ever have to break-up/Well all I asked her was for a glass of punch/You see I never really asked for much/I can imagine what's going through your mind after such a nasty break-up with that laughing hump/Nick Cannon, you better back the f*ck up/I'm not playing." ("Bagpipes From Baghdad")

Despite Cannon's claims of Em fabricating his relationship with Mariah, Slim previously discussed the details of their break-up around 2006.

"Yes, me and Mariah did have a relationship for about a good six, seven months," Eminem said recently on his Shade 45 channel. "[But] it didn't work. I wasn't really into what she was into; our personalities collided. She's a diva, and I'm a little more regular, I guess." (Shade 45)

Nick Cannon also went out of his way to recently addressed Internet disses from bloggers.

"I guess she ain't really realize I was a real n*gga," Cannon said in an interview. "On my site, as a comment to me, like, 'Nick, you need to do this with your and eff like this' and I was like yo, there's a line that you cross...I take respect real seriously and when you cross what I feel like you're offending my personal space, I wanna give you the full opportunity to say whatever you need to say to my face directly. So wherever you at, I'ma let you know when I'm in that area so you can come and tell me...Anybody else who got some reckless sh*t to say on the Internet, I will give you my phone number. We can exchange. If you really feel that bad about it, if you really have those harsh personal feelings against me, lets deal with it." (YouTube)

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What's going on this weekend?

Hey everybody! Don't forget about this weekend's two outdoor concerts: Peggy Jenkins performs a free show 7-10 p.m. Friday on Broadway, then Keni Thomas takes the stage at the Phenix City Amphitheater 8 p.m. Saturday. Tickets for his show are $5, or free with military ID.

Here's the rest of your lineup:

FRIDAY

• Two Finger Jester, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

• The Drive, 9 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• Beach party with Heath Jackson Band, 9 p.m. Flip Flops, $5.

• Lauren Barnett, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• DJ D Rock, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free.

• Peggy Jenkins and the Bizness, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

• Spy for Hire, It's Elephant's, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

SATURDAY

• Two Finger Jester, 8 p.m. Daileys, $5. 706-320-3353.

• Filthy Wilma, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5. 706-568-3316.

• Protean Soul, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, $5.

• Heath Jackson Band, 9 p.m. Flip Flops, $5.

• Java Monkey, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, $5. 706-494-1584.

• Classic Addict, 9 p.m. The Loft, $5. 706-596-8141.

• Brad Smith (acoustic) 8 p.m. Saloon & Oyster Bar, free. 706-568-8400.

• Dueling pianos, 10 p.m. The Vault, $5. 706-653-8277.

• The Ranch Hands, 9:30 p.m. Del Ranch Bar and Grill, $5. 334-297-9177.

The breakup safety net

Nobody leaves a relationship without having another one in place.

That's the mentality of the Overlapper, a type of dater The Frisky criticizes here. It's someone who breaks up, and immediately enters a new relationship.

You know, that guy who tolerates a horrible girlfriend for a few extra months just so he has enough time to scout out another girl who's definitely into him.

Without a doubt, Overlappers are sleazy -- and extremely insecure in their singledom -- but you have to show them a little sympathy.

It's scary to leave a relationship, and specifically during your first couple days alone, you want the reassurance of knowing that somebody will give you a call just to say hi.

I've never been an Overlapper, but during my weaker moments of self-esteem I've agreed to be a breakup safety net, mistaking that role as genuine affection.

That scenario doesn't work for anybody. The Overlapper settles for a relationship with someone who's just "there," while his significant other spends too much time trying to convince herself she's something special.

Report: Sex Tape Caused Nas and Kelis to Part Ways

Sources from the Nas camp are saying that Nas and Kelis split up because of the release of a sex tape with Kelis and another dude.  The tape was allegedly made before they got married, but Nas doesn’t care.  There is also a report that the pregnancy was a last ditch attempt by Kelis to save the marriage.  Damn.

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Welcome to the divorce expo

For one afternoon, merchants crowd your mall's center, poised to discuss the intricacies of matrimony.

As in, like, how to end it.

The scene could become a common reality as divorce expos -- similar to the traditional wedding expos -- gain international momentum. The events include booths from professionals like therapists, financial counselors and travel agents, YourTango reports.

Marriage and divorce expos could exist on the same calendar. Divorce cakes might one day be ordered just as commonly as wedding cakes.

Is the public prominence of divorce erasing the discomfort of severed ties, or endorsing it?

What's going on tonight?

Update: Don't forget about the fundraiser tonight at Flip Flops, 1111 Broadway. From 6 to 10 p.m., all proceeds benefit Jack Grugin, a local man battling brain cancer.

Hey Thursday night partiers! Join me tonight as I flaunt my scrunchie and jean skirt for '80s night at the Shanty Shack, 4475 Warm Springs Road. The Breakfast Club, an '80s tribute band, entertains beginning at 9 p.m. No cover.

Here are some other standouts:

• Stereomonster, Unsung, Ethos, 8 p.m. The Roadhouse, free. $1.50 PBR.

• Fixer, Veydan, 10 p.m. SoHo Bar & Grill, $5 (free for military). 706-568-3316.

• Gary Parmer, 9 p.m. Belloo’s, free. 706-494-1584.

Kiss and tell with mom?

With Mother's Day coming up, you're bound to remember the things you appreciate about Mom: home-cooked meals, freshly folded laundry, financial support.

What about makeout tips?

This piece from YourTango poses an interesting question: When, if ever, do you become comfortable enough to kiss and tell with your parents?

I'm always amazed by my 20-something friends who delve into the deepest details of their relationship lives during phone calls home. We're talking serious TMI with mom here.

Then, there are friends who tread a little more carefully, particularly because they fear that being completely open will tell mom it's OK to do the same.

And trust me, some people fear nothing more than hearing a parent start a sentence with, "So while Dad and I were making out last night..."

I'll never be comfortable fully disclosing the details of my love life to mom. Yes, part of the reason is selfish. I fear the kiss and tell will be mutual, and some extent I think all of us should be free to keep an idealized image of our parents' marriage.

But the greater, more important, reason I don't kiss and tell with mom is a compliment to our bond:

In leading by example, my mom provides unspoken guidance for the moments -- inside and outside romantic relationships -- when I'm afraid to ask for the advice I need most.