$95, Alexis Bittar
Handcrafted Lucite fuschia hoops that are simply fantastic!
Monday, April 30, 2007
say my name, bitch
In a news item once confined to my late-night fantasies, Chinese tourism authorities are creating the world's first-ever "women's town," according to this article.
The town, designed to boost tourism, will rely on a concept of "women rule and men obey," and will even punish men for disobedience. The article notes: "The motto of the new town would be 'women never make mistakes, and men can never refuse women's requests,' Chinese media have reported. When tour groups enter the town, female tourists would play the dominant role when shopping or choosing a place to stay, and a disobedient man would be punished by 'kneeling on an uneven board' or washing dishes in restaurant, media reports said."
The $26 million effort started in 2005. Authorities said it would be ready in between three and five years. Pack your ankle restraints and sign me up.
what not to wear
The sun's return has inevitably made for all sorts of fashion mistakes. I'd love to hear your stories of pasty skin, back hair and toe fungus. I'm sure fashion police deputies were out in full force last weekend.
Ironically, the biggest infraction I saw had absolutely nothing to do with summer apparel. While enjoying a cup of coffee Saturday morning, my friend Lily and I spotted two women wearing pajama pants and cowboy boots. With the boots tucked into the PJ pants.
No level of caffeine jolt makes that acceptable.
Ironically, the biggest infraction I saw had absolutely nothing to do with summer apparel. While enjoying a cup of coffee Saturday morning, my friend Lily and I spotted two women wearing pajama pants and cowboy boots. With the boots tucked into the PJ pants.
No level of caffeine jolt makes that acceptable.
success
Another great weekend in C-Town. Friday, we went to the Shanty Shack as planned, and once again enjoyed an eclectic mix of dance beats that literally ranged from Garth Brooks to Juvenile. I know that same randomness has given the Shanty Shack its critics, but there don't seem to be many. Once again, the Warm Springs Road venue was packed. And in my mind, it didn't disappoint. Cheap drinks, no fights and a cool guy selling light-up roses. Perfect.
One of my friends kept pointing to an unusually high hot-guy quotient, but the jury's still out on that one. Agree or disagree, you help but notice the many unique characters who were out and about, including one vertically challenged guy who was flaunting some serious game. Watching him slow dance with a girl -- while his head was strategically placed near her anatomical assets -- was one of the biggest highlights of our night. Pictures will follow. Hopefully.
Other noteworthy sights? For the first time ever, I saw a guy text somebody will dancing with a girl. Bad form? I say yes.
And, of course, we were hit by the ominous male presence who comes to a club unaccompanied, creepily follows girls around and can't grasp the concept of a cold shoulder. For years, I thought such a force existed only at high school dances and college parties without alcohol. False.
Happy Monday, everyone.
One of my friends kept pointing to an unusually high hot-guy quotient, but the jury's still out on that one. Agree or disagree, you help but notice the many unique characters who were out and about, including one vertically challenged guy who was flaunting some serious game. Watching him slow dance with a girl -- while his head was strategically placed near her anatomical assets -- was one of the biggest highlights of our night. Pictures will follow. Hopefully.
Other noteworthy sights? For the first time ever, I saw a guy text somebody will dancing with a girl. Bad form? I say yes.
And, of course, we were hit by the ominous male presence who comes to a club unaccompanied, creepily follows girls around and can't grasp the concept of a cold shoulder. For years, I thought such a force existed only at high school dances and college parties without alcohol. False.
Happy Monday, everyone.
Friday, April 27, 2007
what's going on this weekend?
TGIF. Finally.
I predict this weekend will pretty low-key downtown, especially in view of the fact that next weekend's Cinco de Mayo should generate some pretty big crowds. Btw...I'm writing about Cinco de Mayo parties -- or, if you prefer, fiestas -- in my next column, so if you know of anything that's going on, drop me a comment.
Anyway, back to the weekend...the girls and I will probably go dancing tonight, barring any major last-minute drama. We'll probably either head downtown or venture beyond our comfort zone and revisit the Shanty Shack (4475 Warm Springs Road). I haven't been there since I wrote a column about it a little while ago, and I'm aching for some Pussycat Dolls spiked with a shot of Gretchen Wilson. You get the picture.
Other weekend activities? I'm hoping to hit the gym, since it seems like everyone in the entire world has come to the realization that they are three pounds overweight and consequently have taken up diets. Seriously.
Along those lines, I think I'm also going to dabble in the world of swimsuit shopping, which is perhaps every woman's worst nightmare. Can't live with it, can live without it...right?
Hope everyone has a great weekend. Can't wait to hear your stories.
I predict this weekend will pretty low-key downtown, especially in view of the fact that next weekend's Cinco de Mayo should generate some pretty big crowds. Btw...I'm writing about Cinco de Mayo parties -- or, if you prefer, fiestas -- in my next column, so if you know of anything that's going on, drop me a comment.
Anyway, back to the weekend...the girls and I will probably go dancing tonight, barring any major last-minute drama. We'll probably either head downtown or venture beyond our comfort zone and revisit the Shanty Shack (4475 Warm Springs Road). I haven't been there since I wrote a column about it a little while ago, and I'm aching for some Pussycat Dolls spiked with a shot of Gretchen Wilson. You get the picture.
Other weekend activities? I'm hoping to hit the gym, since it seems like everyone in the entire world has come to the realization that they are three pounds overweight and consequently have taken up diets. Seriously.
Along those lines, I think I'm also going to dabble in the world of swimsuit shopping, which is perhaps every woman's worst nightmare. Can't live with it, can live without it...right?
Hope everyone has a great weekend. Can't wait to hear your stories.
Thursday, April 26, 2007
what's going on tonight?
It's a pretty standard Thursday night in the Columbus area. Mellow out with the usual open mic night at Fountain City Coffee. It's free, and the action starts at 8 p.m.
On the completely opposite end of the spectrum, you can also get down and dirty on the dance floor at The Vault. DJ Che spins starting at 8 p.m. It's $5, but ladies are free.
If you want live music, you have two pretty good options. San Diego-based rock act After the Crash hits Soho Bar & Grill at 10 p.m. The indie rock act was formed when its lead singer, once a millionaire stockbroker, lost everything. The show is $5...ladies are in free.
Finally, don't hesitate to try out Broad Street Blues (913 Broad St., Phenix City), where house band Peggy Jenkins and the Rhythm Roosters will entertain as usual. The show starts at 9:15 and it's $5.
On the completely opposite end of the spectrum, you can also get down and dirty on the dance floor at The Vault. DJ Che spins starting at 8 p.m. It's $5, but ladies are free.
If you want live music, you have two pretty good options. San Diego-based rock act After the Crash hits Soho Bar & Grill at 10 p.m. The indie rock act was formed when its lead singer, once a millionaire stockbroker, lost everything. The show is $5...ladies are in free.
Finally, don't hesitate to try out Broad Street Blues (913 Broad St., Phenix City), where house band Peggy Jenkins and the Rhythm Roosters will entertain as usual. The show starts at 9:15 and it's $5.
what's in a name?
It's easy to forget the role names play in our romantic inclinations. In grade school, I never went so far as to practice my cursive by scrawling my crush's name on college-ruled notebook paper. But in my later days, I do admit to getting caught up in Bennifer fever and trying to create cute little "we have no individual identities" couple monikers for my romantic pursuits.
Unfortunately, it never really worked...even though I always wanted to fall in love with a guy named Lars so our name could be Sonars.
Still can't get enough of that TomKat creativity? Now, USA today has an electronic celebrity name generator where you can type in your name (first or last) and your partner's name (first or last) and get a couple name.
I just tried "Jessica" (Simpson) and "John" (Mayer) and ended up with Jesohn.
The results aren't nearly as promising for Tom and Katie, who end up as Tomtie. Or Brad and Angelina, also known as Bradina.
Oh well. It's a worthwhile distraction, almost good enough to take you back to the days of bad cursive and otherwise useless binder dividers.
Deal of the week (Thursday): Gold Digger
[Singing: I ain't sayin' she a goldigger but she ain't dealin' with no broke...]
As featured in May's InStyle, this bangle has all the shimmer of gold dust. Sometimes everything that glitters is gold, ya dig?
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
THIS OR THAT Tuesday: OUCH!
Hey everyone!
My shoulder is giving me some serious problems so I'll have to delay my posts today. I honestly hope that the pain subsides so that I'm able to share my wonderful finds with you tomorrow. Send those rays of positivity my way :).
Hoping for the best,
ME
My shoulder is giving me some serious problems so I'll have to delay my posts today. I honestly hope that the pain subsides so that I'm able to share my wonderful finds with you tomorrow. Send those rays of positivity my way :).
Hoping for the best,
ME
just hit "send"?
While I'm on the topic of technology, I'll encourage you to check out this article about "Send: The Essential Guide to Email for Office and Home." It's a new book about "e-mail mistakes and how to avoid them." The book's central focus lies in the way in which the "Send" button often promotes impulsiveness and rash emotions. And, in turn, disasters.
The article notes, "We imagine it (e-mail) as a casual private message that vanishes into the ether. In fact, it's likely to be far more permanent than any paper communication. E-mails can be stored with ease by the recipients and by third parties, such as the corporations from which they are sent."
The book, basically, is an etiquette guide...addressing everything from why it's not cool to address your professor with "hiya" in an e-mail to the implications of Britney Spears' 2006 decision to dump K-Fed via BlackBerry.
Do e-mail manners deserve a spot in book retailers' shelves? Absolutely. Take it from the girl who was dumped via a changed relationship status on MySpace. Do you think technology will ever progress to a point where that kind of breakup is not only expected, but accepted?
What's the biggest e-mail mistake you've made? What, if anything, would it take to get you to circulate a once-private e-mail out of rage?
The article notes, "We imagine it (e-mail) as a casual private message that vanishes into the ether. In fact, it's likely to be far more permanent than any paper communication. E-mails can be stored with ease by the recipients and by third parties, such as the corporations from which they are sent."
The book, basically, is an etiquette guide...addressing everything from why it's not cool to address your professor with "hiya" in an e-mail to the implications of Britney Spears' 2006 decision to dump K-Fed via BlackBerry.
Do e-mail manners deserve a spot in book retailers' shelves? Absolutely. Take it from the girl who was dumped via a changed relationship status on MySpace. Do you think technology will ever progress to a point where that kind of breakup is not only expected, but accepted?
What's the biggest e-mail mistake you've made? What, if anything, would it take to get you to circulate a once-private e-mail out of rage?
Monday, April 23, 2007
omg lol ttyl
Think an ability to text while driving is impressive? Think again.
This article describes last weekend's National Texting Championship in New York, which attracted 250 competitors. Winners saw messages on a screen, texted them on their phones and were judged on whose (error-free) text got to the judges first.
The winner was 13-year-old Morgan Pozgar, who mastered texts ranging from "what we do in life echoes in eternity" to "Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious." She got $25,000.
I, meanwhile, have never been a huge fan of text messages, but I think at times they serve their purpose. Especially if that purpose is dirty talk.
Btw...this nugget comes courtesy of my good friend Michael Timm, the former editor of my college newspaper and Webmaster of the coolest platypus site ever.
This article describes last weekend's National Texting Championship in New York, which attracted 250 competitors. Winners saw messages on a screen, texted them on their phones and were judged on whose (error-free) text got to the judges first.
The winner was 13-year-old Morgan Pozgar, who mastered texts ranging from "what we do in life echoes in eternity" to "Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious." She got $25,000.
I, meanwhile, have never been a huge fan of text messages, but I think at times they serve their purpose. Especially if that purpose is dirty talk.
Btw...this nugget comes courtesy of my good friend Michael Timm, the former editor of my college newspaper and Webmaster of the coolest platypus site ever.
Monday Madness: My Heart's A Flutter
$98, Space Mermaid
I'm not sure if it's the fresh water pearls or the Pervian opal but this necklace has got my heart a flutter. It reminds ME of Spring time in country where the fields are painted green and the butterfly sweetly flutter by.
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Madonna Smooches With Britney And Christina; Justin, Coldplay Win Big At VMAs
Britney and Madonna lock lips at the 2003 MTV VMAsBy Corey Moss
Justin Timberlake and Coldplay were the big winners and Missy Elliott ended her Moonmen drought at the MTV Video Music Awards Thursday, but the actual awards were overshadowed by the steamy sight of Madonna kissing Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera.
In a shocking opening performance of "Like a Virgin" and "Hollywood," the three divas raised Justin Timberlake's eyebrows — and everyone else's — when they locked lips just before Missy Elliott joined the trio.
Elliott, who had never won a VMA for her own work despite 17 nominations, won Video of the Year and Best Hip-Hop Video for "Work It," which came into the event with a pack-leading eight nominations. The hip-hop icon thanked Aaliyah in her acceptance of the top award, for which she brought out an enormous posse, including director Dave Meyers, producer Timbaland and her dancers.
Timberlake and Coldplay each earned three trophies, two better than Johnny Cash, who took only one of the six categories for which he was nominated, Best Cinematography.
Although Cash was often called "the man" (or "the mother----ing man" as Snoop Dogg put it), Timberlake's "Cry Me a River" beat the tearjerker "Hurt" for Best Male Video. The 'NSYNC star also won Best Pop Video and Best Dance Video.
"I want a recount," Timberlake said. "My grandfather raised me on Johnny Cash, I'm from Tennessee ... I guess I share this with him in some cool way. He deserves a round of applause." (To learn more about the infamous Man in Black, check out Kurt Loder's "Johnny Cash: Original Gangsta").
Coldplay, who dedicated their performance of "The Scientist" to Cash (the only other tribute to the legendary crooner during the show), batted a thousand with wins for Best Group Video, Breakthrough Video and Best Direction for "The Scientist."
Other multiple winners included Beyoncé's "Crazy in Love," for Best R&B Video and Best Choreography, and 50 Cent's "In Da Club," for Best New Artist and Best Rap Video.
Chris Rock received a warm welcome in his return to the VMA stage and proceeded to lash out with jokes aimed at everyone from P. Diddy (for "teaching the kids wrong from wronger") to Paula Abdul (for judging singers, "which is like Christopher Reeve judging a dance contest") in perhaps his most harsh opening monologue ever.
Rock continued to win many exclamations of "Damn!" from the crowd with his infamous introductions of presenters, beginning with LeBron James and Ashanti: "He's trying to be the next Kobe Bryant and she's trying not to be the next victim."
In the coveted Viewer's Choice Award, Good Charlotte, whose Benji Madden faced the challenge of following the sexy opening spectacle by kissing bassist Paul, appeared visually moved when accepting for "Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous." The award made up for their loss to Linkin Park's "Somewhere I Belong" for Best Rock Video.
Eminem won Best Video From a Film for the "8 Mile" anthem "Lose Yourself," but lost two others to 50 Cent. The mentor and protégé made light of their competition, however, by joining each other at the podium for their acceptance speeches.
The Detroit rapper appeared in a much better mood this year, even joking about his assault of Triumph the Insult Comic Dog last year before his introduction of 50 Cent's performance, which he did with another trash-talking puppet, Special Ed from "Crank Yankers."
The MTV2 Award, which is voted on by viewers, went to AFI, who gave special thanks to their fan club, the Despair Faction.
In categories announced during the pre-show, Radiohead and Queens of the Stone Age both won their first VMAs, for Best Art Direction ("There There") and Best Special Effects ("Go With the Flow"), respectively, while the White Stripes, who won three Moonmen last year and had four nominations in 2003, also won an early trophy, Best Editing for "Seven Nation Army."
Aguilera, who returned to the stage for a medley of "Dirrty," featuring Redman, and "Fighter," with Dave Navarro on guitar, lost in all four of the categories for which she was nominated. Jennifer Lopez, who had four nominations, Kelly Clarkson who had three, and double nominees Sean Paul, Evanescence, Avril Lavigne, Sum 41, Nelly and No Doubt were also shut out.
There was no Michael Jackson surprise at the 20th VMAs, although Jack Black dressed the part when "accepting" his "Super Genius of the Universe Award." Black was one of a few surprise presenters, along with Jimmy Fallon, who did a spoof of "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy," and an unwelcome guest who bumrushed Snoop and Adam Sandler's hilariously-izzle presentation of Video of the Year.
The performances, capped by a Metallica covers medley that included Michael Jackson's "Beat It," were mostly about guest appearances, with 50 Cent and Method Man joining Mary J. Blige, Snoop Dogg and Don "Magic" Juan joining 50 Cent and Jay-Z joining Beyoncé.
Before the Madonna kisses had heads turning, Aguilera was doing more of the same on the red carpet, showing up looking like a hot pink flamingo in a dress made of feathers Other hot topics outside Radio City Music Hall were Snoop Dogg, who was accompanied by two ladies on leashes, and 50 Cent, clad in a sharp gray suit, matching hat and blinging with diamonds.
Outkast took the unofficial P. Diddy award for the best entrance, riding in on a flatbed truck, equipped with a stripper pole, that Big Boi called "the portable boom boom room."
source = www.mtv.com
Friday, April 20, 2007
what's going on this weekend?
This weekend marks my first trip to Huntsville, Ala., where I'll be attending a wedding on Saturday. The bride is my friend/former co-worker Amanda, who's been the subject of many prior blog posts. You'll likely remember her in the context of cage dancing and her remarkable take on the running man. Well, she's (kind of) surrendering those elements for married life now, and I can't wait to see how hot she looks this weekend.
If you're going to be in town this weekend, check out Daileys, 1039 Broadway in Columbus. It's the new club I wrote about in this week's column and I'd like to hear what you think.
In terms of live music, the lineup at The Loft looks pretty good. Tonight, the club hosts Zac Brown, a Southern rocker who says his music demonstrates what would happen "if Jimmy Buffett had a younger brother playing music in the Georgia wild." Saturday, you'll get New York City-based jam band U-Melt.
Another good bet for live music? Broad Street Blues (913 Broad St., Phenix City), which hosts house band Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters tonight and Tony Tyler Trance on Saturday. Both nights pretty much guarantee a good time.
TGIF.
If you're going to be in town this weekend, check out Daileys, 1039 Broadway in Columbus. It's the new club I wrote about in this week's column and I'd like to hear what you think.
In terms of live music, the lineup at The Loft looks pretty good. Tonight, the club hosts Zac Brown, a Southern rocker who says his music demonstrates what would happen "if Jimmy Buffett had a younger brother playing music in the Georgia wild." Saturday, you'll get New York City-based jam band U-Melt.
Another good bet for live music? Broad Street Blues (913 Broad St., Phenix City), which hosts house band Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters tonight and Tony Tyler Trance on Saturday. Both nights pretty much guarantee a good time.
TGIF.
smart is the new sexy
Wanna impress me? Forget the bars and take me to a spelling bee.
At least that's what this Washington Post article says. It's about how more 20- and 30-somethings are choosing intellectual hot spots -- library lectures, museum discussion series, contemporary debates -- as date venues. Also, it describes how the Web increasingly has helped single brainiacs connect, citing the 6,000-member Washington-based Web site intellectConnect as an example.
The best part? A spelling bee for New York singles. The event, held regularly, includes categories like "sex," "medical conditions" and "uncomfortable things."
Sounds cool. Kinda. Even though the article pertains mainly to bigger cities like Manhattan and Boston, I'm wondering how these activities would fare in Columbus. Is our nightlife in need of some intellectualism?
Send me your comments. I'll even ignore any misspellings.
At least that's what this Washington Post article says. It's about how more 20- and 30-somethings are choosing intellectual hot spots -- library lectures, museum discussion series, contemporary debates -- as date venues. Also, it describes how the Web increasingly has helped single brainiacs connect, citing the 6,000-member Washington-based Web site intellectConnect as an example.
The best part? A spelling bee for New York singles. The event, held regularly, includes categories like "sex," "medical conditions" and "uncomfortable things."
Sounds cool. Kinda. Even though the article pertains mainly to bigger cities like Manhattan and Boston, I'm wondering how these activities would fare in Columbus. Is our nightlife in need of some intellectualism?
Send me your comments. I'll even ignore any misspellings.
Frantic Friday: Tickled Pink
These earrings really caught my eye. When I think of bamboo, I always think of a long stalk which is beige in color. The touch of pink is an unexpected surprise and really gives these earrings character.
Thursday, April 19, 2007
what's going on tonight?
It's pretty much the usual suspects for a Thursday. Lay low and hit open mic night at Fountain City Coffee. Or you can travel across the river and see house band Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters at Broad Street Blues (913 Broad St., Phenix City). The $5 starts at 9 p.m.
Other options? Shake your groove thing with tunes spun by DJ Che at The Vault. It's $5, but ladies are in free. The fun starts at 8 p.m.
As far as live music goes, probably your best bet is Soho Bar & Grill, which is slated to feature
Bulletproof Marshmallows, a reggae/rock band that hails from Montgomery, Ala. The show begins at 10 p.m. It's $5, free for the ladies.
Have fun, be safe and get ready for the weekend!
Other options? Shake your groove thing with tunes spun by DJ Che at The Vault. It's $5, but ladies are in free. The fun starts at 8 p.m.
As far as live music goes, probably your best bet is Soho Bar & Grill, which is slated to feature
Bulletproof Marshmallows, a reggae/rock band that hails from Montgomery, Ala. The show begins at 10 p.m. It's $5, free for the ladies.
Have fun, be safe and get ready for the weekend!
don't cha?
On my way to work this morning, I found myself listening to Avril Lavigne's latest single, "Girlfriend." Stop laughing. Please.
Anyway, for those of you who haven't heard it -- imagine that -- the song is pretty much your typical bubblegum pop ranting of something to the effect of, "You're dating a really stupid person and you should be dating me instead." The chorous? "Hey! Hey! You! You! I don't like your girfriend. No way! No way! I think you need a new one. Hey! Hey! You! You! I could be your girlfriend."
A lyrical masterpiece, I know. But ignore that for a minute.
The song follows The Pussycat Dolls' "Don't Cha," which preaches a similar message. While listening to that song, a guy once told me it depicts one of the hottest guy fantasies imaginable -- being seduced by the Other Woman.
Fantasies aside, I can think of multiple situations in the past when a man of my dreams has instead opted for someone with what seem to be glaring flaws. Not minor inconveniences like a bad sense of style or a weird taste in music, but real drawbacks. Like a bad personality. Or a history of cheating. Or an incompatible take on intimacy.
Without the convenience of cute song lyrics to get your point across, when (if ever) is it appropriate to bring a partner's flaws to someone's attention? And is it ever possible to do so without seeming like a jealous third party?
Happy Thursday, everyone.
service with a smile?
This week's column is about what makes a bar successful. I think it's especially pertinent in downtown Columbus, where nightlife venues are all for the most part using the same draws (local bands, cheap drinks, danceable music) to cater to the same demographic (the 25-40 crowd).
Here, I think the average party goer heads downtown with no specific destination in mind, and in the end opts for the venue that merely looks most popular. Not because of its promotions, not because of its entertainment, but simply because people are there.
In light of that fact, I think there's even more pressure on local bars to emphasize the importance of service. Some bars already have strong reputations anchored by their bartenders...not entirely for eye candy purposes, but because their servers genuinely interact with the crowd. And seem to enjoy their jobs. Imagine that.
Others, however, are less lucky...and seem to exude apathy on even the most hopping Saturday night.
What are your impressions of Columbus' nightlife service industry? Who are your favorite bartenders? Any tales of service horror?
Deal of the week (Thursday): America Ferrera
America arrived at the Directors Guild of America Awards looking fantastic in this lil' black number and shows us all that curves are sexy. Aren't the jewels that adorn her outfit fabulous? Get America's glittering jewels without breaking the break.
$35, Emitations
$99, Emitations
America Ferrera photo courtesy of Michael Buckner/Getty
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
luck be a lady
Since when do we rank levels of heartbreak?
Singer Sheryl Crow has been named the Hollywood woman most unlucky in love, according to this article. Crow, who has dated celebs like Eric Clapton and was engaged to cyclist Lance Armstrong, sits at the top of list that includes Jennifer Aniston at No. 2 as well as Cameron Diaz, Tyra Banks and Mariah Carey.
So big deal. They're all big stars who experienced major breakups.
But it brings up a good question: To what extent is love driven by luck? Or lack thereof?
I think there are genuinely good people out there who by some chance happen to stumble across a bad mate. No warning signs, no premonitions, no smoke signals. Sometimes you just can't tell. And when it happens as an isolated incident, and you proceed to dump that person, I you really can attribute it to luck.
But when you constantly find yourself in bad relationships, you're not losing the game of luck. You're being stupid. Often, I think it's easier to attribute our own bad judgments to luck, rather than a failure to higher our standards.
Yes, it would be easier to play a relationship game where success is determined by crossing our fingers and rubbing a lucky rabbit's foot. But maybe we're fortunate to have the ability to opt out of potentially disastrous situations and freely ditch life's losers instead of waiting for an arbitrary jackpot to tell us we're out of luck.
Rolling the dice may be all it takes to enter a relationship. But sustaining that relationship requires a series of calculated risks and strategies.
Rely on luck alone and you'll be miles away from winning the game.
Thoughts?
Wild Card Wednesday: The Sun's Out
$48, Banana Republic
[Singing] The Sun'll come out tomorrow...
Bursting with flavor, the accented petals are comparable to rays of sunlight. This ring is the perfect piece to compliment your beachwear. You know what they say...the skimpier the outfit, the bigger the jewelry.
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
THIS OR THAT Tuesday: Fly by Night
Delicately dramatic, these butterflies can fly by night with a LBD or flutter by day with your office favorite.
Monday, April 16, 2007
the weekend was...
Great.
I hit downtown both nights. Friday, I caught local party band Autumn Haze at The Vault. The show was great, and my only criticism is that I wish the crowd would have been a little bit larger. I talked to a couple bar owners on Friday and Saturday, and they all for the most part agreed this was an especially slow weekend. I blame the relatively cool temperatures.
Saturday, I embarked upon an entirely new adventure and visited Dailey's, the bar formerly known as Bonehead's. It was a pretty exciting night, especially since I previously had no idea this place was even open. If you're expecting an entirely remodeled interior, you might be disappointed. Sure, the ambiance seems generally less smoky/dodgy, but the overall layout is still the same. It'll be hard to tell where Dailey's will rank among the other downtown establishments, but they got a good crowd Friday and an even stronger one Saturday.
Mindblender was playing, which definitely helped things. I love those guys. When my mom was here in January, she (bravely) accompanied me to a Mindblender show at Muldoon's. Let's just say if you can get my mom to sing along with "Crazy Bitch," you must be doing something right. Enough said.
Finally, I was surprised at how many blog readers I met over the weekend. Cheers to the three gorgeous ladies I met Friday en route to my downtown adventure. A slightly less cool fan? The guy who, upon hearing my request for nightlife column ideas, hardly missed a beat before saying, "How about a nightlife column about a night in my bed?"
Um, yeah.
Happy Monday.
I hit downtown both nights. Friday, I caught local party band Autumn Haze at The Vault. The show was great, and my only criticism is that I wish the crowd would have been a little bit larger. I talked to a couple bar owners on Friday and Saturday, and they all for the most part agreed this was an especially slow weekend. I blame the relatively cool temperatures.
Saturday, I embarked upon an entirely new adventure and visited Dailey's, the bar formerly known as Bonehead's. It was a pretty exciting night, especially since I previously had no idea this place was even open. If you're expecting an entirely remodeled interior, you might be disappointed. Sure, the ambiance seems generally less smoky/dodgy, but the overall layout is still the same. It'll be hard to tell where Dailey's will rank among the other downtown establishments, but they got a good crowd Friday and an even stronger one Saturday.
Mindblender was playing, which definitely helped things. I love those guys. When my mom was here in January, she (bravely) accompanied me to a Mindblender show at Muldoon's. Let's just say if you can get my mom to sing along with "Crazy Bitch," you must be doing something right. Enough said.
Finally, I was surprised at how many blog readers I met over the weekend. Cheers to the three gorgeous ladies I met Friday en route to my downtown adventure. A slightly less cool fan? The guy who, upon hearing my request for nightlife column ideas, hardly missed a beat before saying, "How about a nightlife column about a night in my bed?"
Um, yeah.
Happy Monday.
Monday Madness: Lucky Charms
$45, Jennifer KaufmanYou're sure to encounter some good luck while wearing this necklace. With charms like a four-leaf clover, bag of money and horseshoe, [insert your hearts' desire here]...
Friday, April 13, 2007
party @ savana's
Hey guys...I forgot to mention in the last post that Savana's on Broadway in downtown Columbus is hosting Beer-a-Mid tonight at 10 p.m., complete with drink specials, etc. Get there before 11 p.m. and ladies are in free.
One more thing...one of my friends just sent me this list via MySpace and I figured I'd pass it on. It's the top 25 rules guys wish women knew. I love to hear any suggestions for No. 26-50.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
2. Learn to work the toilet seat; if it's up, put it down.
3. Don't cut your hair. Ever.
4. Sometimes, we're not thinking about you. Live with it.
5. Get rid of your cat.
6. Saturday + Sunday = Sports. Learn this equation ( sports can be replaced with video games or paintball)
7. Anything you wear is fine. Really.
8. Women wearing Wonder bras and low-cut blouses lose their right to complain about having their boobs stared at.
9. You have too many shoes.
10. Crying is blackmail.
11. Ask for what you want. Subtle hints don't work.
12. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.
13. "Yes" and "No" are perfectly acceptable answers.
14. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
15. Don't fake it. We'd rather be ineffective than deceived.
16. Anything we said six or eight months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
17. If you don't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys.
18. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad and angry, we meant the other one.
19. Let us ogle. If we don't look at other women, how can we know how pretty you are?
20. Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
21. You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it done, not both.
22. Christopher Columbus didn't need directions, and neither do we.
23. You have enough clothes.
24. Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it.
25. Nothing says, "I love you" like sex.
One more thing...one of my friends just sent me this list via MySpace and I figured I'd pass it on. It's the top 25 rules guys wish women knew. I love to hear any suggestions for No. 26-50.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
2. Learn to work the toilet seat; if it's up, put it down.
3. Don't cut your hair. Ever.
4. Sometimes, we're not thinking about you. Live with it.
5. Get rid of your cat.
6. Saturday + Sunday = Sports. Learn this equation ( sports can be replaced with video games or paintball)
7. Anything you wear is fine. Really.
8. Women wearing Wonder bras and low-cut blouses lose their right to complain about having their boobs stared at.
9. You have too many shoes.
10. Crying is blackmail.
11. Ask for what you want. Subtle hints don't work.
12. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.
13. "Yes" and "No" are perfectly acceptable answers.
14. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
15. Don't fake it. We'd rather be ineffective than deceived.
16. Anything we said six or eight months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
17. If you don't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys.
18. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad and angry, we meant the other one.
19. Let us ogle. If we don't look at other women, how can we know how pretty you are?
20. Don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out.
21. You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it done, not both.
22. Christopher Columbus didn't need directions, and neither do we.
23. You have enough clothes.
24. Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it.
25. Nothing says, "I love you" like sex.
what's going on this weekend?
So it's Friday the 13th, and there are supposed to be thunderstorms most of the day tomorrow, but I haven't lost sight of this weekend's potential. Check out my weekend picks here.
Downtown should be fairly hopping, especially with tonight's gallery stroll (see weekend picks). Also, Bow Wow comes to the Columbus Civic Center tonight at 7:30 p.m. Tickets are $33.50 at the door. Call 706-494-8330.
My live music pick of the week is Atlanta-based rock band HottBoxx, who comes to SoHo Bar & Grill tonight. I pretty much chose them because I liked the name. Shouldn't that be enough? Expect tunes that combine rock and soul in a way rockers say brings to mind images of "old souls, new vibes and good wine."
In addition to partying like a rockstar, you'll be happy to hear that I'll also be watching episode 6 of "Star Wars" at some point this weekend. Last night, I saw "The Empire Strikes Back" and liked it way better than "A New Hope." Basically because people finally hooked up.
Whether you're shaking your booty or showing off your light saber, have a great weekend.
TGIF.
Frantic Friday: Colorful Bangles
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bringing (un)sexy back?
Talk about a gem. Today, I found this list of 2007's top 100 unsexiest men, courtesy of The Boston Phoenix, an arts and entertainment alternative newsweekly.
To kill any suspense...Donald Trump is No. 1, but some of the other standings are just as entertaining. "American Idol" underdog Sanjaya Malakar stands at No. 7, while spot No. 14 belongs to "The US Senators from Massachusetts." Awesome.
My favorite, however, is without a doubt No. 80: Ann Coulter, the American conservative political commentator described succinctly in the list as "hellbitch."
The only selections I disagree with are Jimmy Kimmel, No. 93, and Peyton Manning, No. 74. Regarding Kimmel...funny guys automatically get 762 sexy points, which exempts you from any label involving use of the word "unsexy." As far as Peyton Manning goes...I dated a guy who looked exactly like him. I try not to have my romantic past be unsexy.
An addition to the list? How about Jason Wahler, the "Laguna Beach" punk who on Monday was arrested for the fourth time in nine months. Now, his legal troubles span four states: New York, California, North Carolina and Washington.
"The Hills" are alive with the sound of unsexy.
Who's YOUR unsexiest man alive?
Thursday, April 12, 2007
what's going on tonight?
It's pretty much the usual suspects if you're looking to party tonight. If you want something relatively low key, check out open mic night starting at 8 p.m. at Fountain City Coffee, where you can also take advantage of free wireless Internet.
In terms of live music, you can head over to Soho Bar and Grill at 10 p.m. to see Leslie, a Charleston, S.C.-based rock and blues band. Or change your usual nightlife routine by hitting Broad Street Blues in Phenix City, where Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters will play. That show starts at 9:30 p.m.
Finally, if you need to succumb to an urge to do the booty pop, go to The Vault, where DJ Che will spin as usual beginning at 8 p.m.
Have fun and be safe. The week's almost over!!!!!!
In terms of live music, you can head over to Soho Bar and Grill at 10 p.m. to see Leslie, a Charleston, S.C.-based rock and blues band. Or change your usual nightlife routine by hitting Broad Street Blues in Phenix City, where Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters will play. That show starts at 9:30 p.m.
Finally, if you need to succumb to an urge to do the booty pop, go to The Vault, where DJ Che will spin as usual beginning at 8 p.m.
Have fun and be safe. The week's almost over!!!!!!
girls gone wild?
Can "girls just wanna have fun" justify all your weekend shenanigans? Maybe not.
This week's column is about the divisions, or lack thereof, between saint and skank. After attending a Playboy-themed party at Big City Club last Friday, many friends asked me to write about where female party goers cross the line between being sexy and going overboard.
I was all set to go with that theme, but midway through the process I realized my thinking was kind of flawed. Even though I might be opposed to contests that require nothing other than excellence in grinding, I'm not necessarily in a position to judge other people's concept of fun.
Downtown is supposed to be vehicle for escapism, a place where you let go of the stress and office politics that consume your Mondays through Fridays. Sure, it's possible to relax without bearing your stomach rolls and sticking $1 bills in your bosom...but then who would we rely on for entertainment?
I'd like to hear what you think, though. From bikini contests to Playboy parties, is there a skank culture downtown? And if so, is that OK?
stretching the truth
Are men still stupid enough to believe women who say nothing's wrong? I didn't think so.
Today I came across this list of supposedly the five lies all women tell men. Because I know you'll likely be too lazy to actually click on the link, here they are:
5. "You're the best in bed."
4. "I don't mind picking up the tab tonight. You always pay, anyway."
3. "I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now."
2. "I don't mind if you go to strip clubs with the boys."
1. "I'm not mad at you."
All in all, I agree...with some disclaimers. First, and perhaps most importantly, the whole "I'm not mad at you" lie is complicated. It's kind of a double-edged sword, because as much as guys complain about when you say you're "not mad" or "nothing's wrong," they also hate confrontation. So sometimes I think guys just ask that to cover their bases, not because they really want to know the answer.
Also...reason No. 4 makes women seem like gold diggers. True, nobody's going to be ecstatic about paying for dinner, but it's not because of bent gender roles or relationship issues. I just get mad because I'm a broke ass ho.
And yes...anything that involves use of "the best" -- or, in my case, "the best ever" -- is probably a slight exaggeration of the truth. But not always.
Thoughts?
Today I came across this list of supposedly the five lies all women tell men. Because I know you'll likely be too lazy to actually click on the link, here they are:
5. "You're the best in bed."
4. "I don't mind picking up the tab tonight. You always pay, anyway."
3. "I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now."
2. "I don't mind if you go to strip clubs with the boys."
1. "I'm not mad at you."
All in all, I agree...with some disclaimers. First, and perhaps most importantly, the whole "I'm not mad at you" lie is complicated. It's kind of a double-edged sword, because as much as guys complain about when you say you're "not mad" or "nothing's wrong," they also hate confrontation. So sometimes I think guys just ask that to cover their bases, not because they really want to know the answer.
Also...reason No. 4 makes women seem like gold diggers. True, nobody's going to be ecstatic about paying for dinner, but it's not because of bent gender roles or relationship issues. I just get mad because I'm a broke ass ho.
And yes...anything that involves use of "the best" -- or, in my case, "the best ever" -- is probably a slight exaggeration of the truth. But not always.
Thoughts?
Deal of the week (Thursday): Drew Barrymore
Ms. Drew is doing her thing at the LA premier of The Year of the Dog. I love how she accessorized her outfit with those snazzy bangles. You can snag one below.
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Drew Barrymore photo courtesy of Starmax/InStyle
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
butterface
A former co-worker and I used to call a mutual acquaintance "Double Face Lady." From a distance, and under certain lighting, she looked hot. Sexy, in fact. But when you faced her head-on, it was like you were looking a heifer in the eyes.
Not pretty.
While a face's composition seems straightforward -- eyes, nose, ears and mouth -- the meet market often subtly encourages its participants to intricately dissect those elements. The result isn't always pretty.
Enter the butterface (aka: but-her-face), a term Urban Dictionary defines as a "chick with a hell of a nice body, but the face is ugly." While it's associated primarily with women, I'll be the first to attest to the fact that men are hardly exempt from the butterface curse.
Call me superficial, but I say this is one of the toughest obstacles in the dating arena. Especially since the majority of hookups are initiated in poorly lit rooms. There are few things harsher than waking up to realize that the guy you thought was a dead-on Brad Pitt lookalike actually bears a closer resemblance to Shrek.
This article gives a list of the top 10 female celebrity butterfaces, including Tori Spelling, Lisa Rinna, Christina Ricci and Haylie Duff. At No. 1? Fergie. Let's just say there's likely little disagreement on that one.
A term like "butterface" may be a bit extreme, but I think everyone has an angle of their body that they think is best seen in the dark.
Which is fine. In fact, that fact alone might be enough to challenge the images of perfection that we so often attach from a distance.
Maybe instead of promoting insecurities, butterfaces remind us to accept nothing at face value. Even a face itself.
Happy Wednesday, everybody. Sorry for the lack of posts yesterday. I was suffering from "Star Wars" withdrawal.
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
THIS OR THAT Tuesday: Playmate of the Month
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Monday, April 9, 2007
i like robots and young women
I started my weekend by watching potential Playmates shake their tails and ended it by watching the episode 4 of "Star Wars."
Sexy.
This weekend was pretty quiet downtown, a result of both the Easter holiday and the cold weather. Annoying. Still, a decent crowd was evident downtown Friday, when my friend Andrea and I pinballed it and after dinner at Spices from the Caribbean, hit Savana's, Mario's, Los Amigos Cantina and Big Club. Wow. The most crowded venue of the pack was without a doubt Big City, which was hosting a Playboy-themed party. Catch more insights on the Playmate wannabe contest in this week's column.
I kicked off Saturday by having a six-hour "sesh" with my friend Lily. A sesh, short for session, is basically an exchange of personal information between a maximum of three people. It lasts a minimum of one hour, but usually isn't considered productive unless you hit the three-hour mark and travel to multiple venues. Our sesh, for example, spanned Gold's Gym, Starbucks, Moe's Southwest Grill and Infinity Nails.
Saturday night, we hit Broad Street Blues in Phenix City and had a blast. Loved it as usual.
I started Saturday with an especially stellar Easter brunch courtesy of our friends Dawn and Jeff. The above photo is from a rare moment of sunshine during the unseasonably cold skies. Boo to that. Fortunately, we still look very hot.
I was glad I had the opportunity to load up my stomach, though, because Sunday night I embarked upon a very challenging personal mission to watch episodes 4, 5 and 6 of the "Star Wars" series. Note: I have not seen any of the "Star Wars" movies. Ever.
So last night, Heineken keg in hand, I watched Episode 4, "A New Hope." In summary, I didn't hate it as much as I thought I would. Even better, I now have this huge crush on the little robot man also known as R2-D2. He is so hot. Tonight, we're watching "The Empire Strikes Back," and I really hope people finally hook up.
I find your lack of faith disturbing.
Han shot first.
I'm so cool now!
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Friday, April 6, 2007
what's going on this weekend?
Um, hello, everything.
OK, maybe I'm exaggerating. We ARE in Columbus, remember. Still, I'm pretty amped about this weekend, and you should be, too. Tonight, my friend Andrea and I are going to Spices Caribbean Restaurant & Bar. It'll be my first time visiting the Columbus restaurant, so I'll be anxious to see where it ranks in my dining hierarchy. According to aforementioned Web site, Friday is karaoke night, while Saturday is Latin night with $3 margaritas.
If you need another food recommendation, try Jamaica Grill. And not only because I wrote a dining profile about it this week. Want to know what wasn't included in the article? Jamaica Grill's dirtily named cocktails, like 'Dat Bitch and Kama Sutra. Jamaica Grill hosts a party every Saturday night until about 2 a.m. I don't think the restaurant has its own Web site, but it's at 1901 A-3 Manchester Expressway in Columbus. Call 706-507-5745.
Oh! And something else I'm excited about doing this weekend is getting my nails done on Saturday with my friend Lily. Normally I wouldn't devote a blog paragraph to girly stuff -- OK, maybe I would -- but if you're new in town and looking for a clean, safe place to get a manicure/pedicure/eyebrow wax, try Infinity Nails, 1591 Bradley Park Drive in Columbus. It took me forever to find a good nail place here, and let's just say cleanliness isn't something you want to fool around with at those places. Two words (kind of): Hepatitis C.
In terms of nightlife, I'll probably head downtown as usual Saturday...don't really know where I'll end up, but I really hope dancing is in the cards. If you want live music, I think The Loft is probably your best bet this weekend. Friday, the club hosts Packway Handle, an Athens, Ga.-based bluegrass act that allegedly does a mean cover of "Like a Prayer." Saturday, you'll get No More Kings, rockers who say they're reminiscent of '80s nostalgia.
Anyway, have a great weekend and do something really crazy because I need column ideas.
TGIF.
OK, maybe I'm exaggerating. We ARE in Columbus, remember. Still, I'm pretty amped about this weekend, and you should be, too. Tonight, my friend Andrea and I are going to Spices Caribbean Restaurant & Bar. It'll be my first time visiting the Columbus restaurant, so I'll be anxious to see where it ranks in my dining hierarchy. According to aforementioned Web site, Friday is karaoke night, while Saturday is Latin night with $3 margaritas.
If you need another food recommendation, try Jamaica Grill. And not only because I wrote a dining profile about it this week. Want to know what wasn't included in the article? Jamaica Grill's dirtily named cocktails, like 'Dat Bitch and Kama Sutra. Jamaica Grill hosts a party every Saturday night until about 2 a.m. I don't think the restaurant has its own Web site, but it's at 1901 A-3 Manchester Expressway in Columbus. Call 706-507-5745.
Oh! And something else I'm excited about doing this weekend is getting my nails done on Saturday with my friend Lily. Normally I wouldn't devote a blog paragraph to girly stuff -- OK, maybe I would -- but if you're new in town and looking for a clean, safe place to get a manicure/pedicure/eyebrow wax, try Infinity Nails, 1591 Bradley Park Drive in Columbus. It took me forever to find a good nail place here, and let's just say cleanliness isn't something you want to fool around with at those places. Two words (kind of): Hepatitis C.
In terms of nightlife, I'll probably head downtown as usual Saturday...don't really know where I'll end up, but I really hope dancing is in the cards. If you want live music, I think The Loft is probably your best bet this weekend. Friday, the club hosts Packway Handle, an Athens, Ga.-based bluegrass act that allegedly does a mean cover of "Like a Prayer." Saturday, you'll get No More Kings, rockers who say they're reminiscent of '80s nostalgia.
Anyway, have a great weekend and do something really crazy because I need column ideas.
TGIF.
mmm...infidelity
Does a lap dance constitute cheating? Some 32 percent of men think so.
I bought my first copy of GQ last weekend. It was a decision motivated by boredom and the fact the April edition was billed as the magazine's second annual "Love, Sex and Madness Issue." All in all, it was $3.99 (plus tax) well spent, as I learned all about both Lindsay Lohan and Tori Spelling's ex-husband. Hot.
The most fascinating find, however, was "It's Not Cheating If...," a piece based largely on a survey of "504 sober American men." That's where I got the aforementioned statistic. Here's some other findings of note:
*Twenty-five percent of men said fantasizing regularly about another woman was cheating.
*Fifty-three percent said phone sex was cheating.
*Sixty-five percent said cybersex was cheating.
*Ninety-two percent said hooking up with a co-worker was cheating.
*Ninety-five percent said hooking up with an ex-flame was cheating.
So what does this do for me? Other than reaffirm a belief that guys are pretty much the meanest people ever? Nothing, I guess.
But more than anything, I really don't think that the whole cheating issue is all that complicated. Guys...if you're in a relationship and you're getting physical gratification from another woman, you're cheating. I guess the blurry lines come more in regard to emotional gratification, but even that isn't too hard to decipher. If you've bonded with another woman to extent that you feel closer to her than the girl you're in a relationship with/married to, you're probably cheating.
The thing that annoyed me about the majority of guys interviewed in the article is this summary of their beliefs: "No matter what the act, if it's purely physical, it's not really cheating. Cheating is only cheating if there's a deep emotional component; otherwise it's a mere slipup that can be rinsed away with a hot shower and a bouquet of daffodils from the airport gift shop."
I have no doubt that's true on the guy's part...but in many cases, while the guy is dismissing an event (or series of events) as a "mere slipup," the girl is entertaining fantasies of future dates and exclusivity.
Trust me. I understand all about primal urges and carnal cravings. I've never cheated on anyone, but I know plenty of unfaithful girls who have done things far worse than anything outlined in GQ.
Most of all...this whole issue brings me back to the importance of defining your relationship. Because, as I discuss at work virtually every day, people have different understandings of even simple terms like "dating." While one person may define it as merely going on dates -- in which case hooking up with other people is OK -- the other person may think it implies exclusivity. Thus, you'll be labeled a lying, cheating snake when really you just operate on a different vernacular.
Whatever.
Maybe cheating is just a fact of life. Sometimes, however, I wish you didn't have to count on a 504-person poll to convince yourself your partner isn't creeping on the down low.
Thoughts?
Thursday, April 5, 2007
what's going on tonight?
Expect the usual Thursday night options. Low-key partiers can opt for open mic night at Fountain City Coffee. It's free and starts at 8 p.m.
If the pictures in the post below turned you on -- or not -- go to the scene of the crime, Broad Street Blues in Phenix City. House band Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters will perform. The show starts at 9:30 p.m. and there's a $5 cover.
Soho Bar & Grill is also slated to offer live music tonight, with a performance by the Spencer Durham Group, a Georgia jam band fronted by an 18 year old. Band members compare themselves to The Black Crowes and The Grateful Dead. The show is $5 (ladies free) and starts at 10 p.m.
Finally...you can always opt for the usual booty shaking party at The Vault, where DJ Che will take on his standard Thursday spinning. The party starts at 8 p.m. and it's $5 (ladies free).
Happy Thursday. Can't wait for the weekend.
If the pictures in the post below turned you on -- or not -- go to the scene of the crime, Broad Street Blues in Phenix City. House band Peggy Jenkins and the Rythm Roosters will perform. The show starts at 9:30 p.m. and there's a $5 cover.
Soho Bar & Grill is also slated to offer live music tonight, with a performance by the Spencer Durham Group, a Georgia jam band fronted by an 18 year old. Band members compare themselves to The Black Crowes and The Grateful Dead. The show is $5 (ladies free) and starts at 10 p.m.
Finally...you can always opt for the usual booty shaking party at The Vault, where DJ Che will take on his standard Thursday spinning. The party starts at 8 p.m. and it's $5 (ladies free).
Happy Thursday. Can't wait for the weekend.
elizabeth the rockstar
These pics are long overdue, largely because I had to set up a separate Photobucket account prior to posting them. Thanks again for the help, Brog.
Anyway, we took the photos during a recent night out at Broad Street Blues, that new Phenix City club I'm always talking about. I got the pics courtesy of Elizabeth, the uber-hot chick I'm hugging in both shots.
The evening was a blast, especially since it marked one of Elizabeth's first nights out in quite some time. Her boyfriend Ira recently left for Iraq, so needless to say, she's had more serious things on her mind than scoring a cheap margarita or mastering her cage-dancing skills.
I can't even imagine what that must be like. I devoted about a year of my life to a quasi-long distance relationship. Even with the ease of being able to fly cross-country to see the then-man of my dreams, I still was never really able to enjoy a Saturday night like my friends who could with a phone call reach their crushes and be holding hands at the bar almost instantly.
In a statement courtesy of Captain Obvious, being away from the person you love sucks. Not only is there the pain of watching other couples caress and cuddle, but there's also the guilt that comes with feeling like instead of having fun, you should be at home pining away for the one you miss. Not to mention the fear that at one moment the bar music might be so loud that you'll miss the phone call you've been waiting for all week.
Elizabeth, however, is doing a much better job handling her boyfriend's absence than what I'd ever expect out of myself.
Weekends become so routine that you forget sometimes that going out isn't always as easy as putting on body glitter and a pair of stilettos. Cheers to everyone with the will to get off the couch, remove their hands from their cell phones and hit downtown with the best of 'em.
You're the coolest.
Wednesday, April 4, 2007
lights, camera, action?
So today, in an attempt to better understand the male brain, I was playing around on AskMen.com. Shortly after reading "The Top 10 Ways to Get the Office Babe," I came across this article about the top 10 chick flicks guys can allegedly stomach.
It made me laugh, largely because I've been discussing my immense hatred of most chick flicks for the past week. When some of my female co-workers wanted to devote a recent Saturday night to watching "Under the Tuscan Sun," I threw a giant fit and eventually was successful in aborting the mission and going downtown instead. (Sorry, Dawn!)
I don't really hate all chick flicks. I just hate the ones that focus on someone who gets dumped and then rediscovers herself. So 99 percent of chick flicks.
My reason? I just feel as if these movies often work to only deepen depression by putting dejected women in a room together with a lifetime supply of Kleenex when the same women could be ditching their attempts at self-analysis, getting off their butts and actually filming another chapter of their own life movies.
Moreover, the majority of these breakup-turned-good movies work on a premise that something life-changing and inspirational will happen to you after you're dumped, when in reality that's not always true. You could spend months crying in front of your TV and gaining weight on Eskimo Kisses ice cream. So ironically, these movies also have a tremendous potential to backfire when a viewer comes home not to a mysterious stranger or lucrative independent career offer, but instead the same memory-inducing sheets she sought to escape.
Anyway, here are the top 10 chick flicks guys can enjoy, according to the article:
10. Meet Joe Black
9. Desperately Seeking Susan
8. Thelma and Louise
7. An Officer and a Gentleman
6. When Harry Met Sally
5. Serendipity
4. The Craft
3. Blue Crush
2. Mean Girls
1. Bridget Jones' Diary
I'll be anxious to hear what you think. I disagree with the list to some extent, because its writer seems to define "chick flick" as any movie with an ensemble cast that is primarily female.
False. Right?
It made me laugh, largely because I've been discussing my immense hatred of most chick flicks for the past week. When some of my female co-workers wanted to devote a recent Saturday night to watching "Under the Tuscan Sun," I threw a giant fit and eventually was successful in aborting the mission and going downtown instead. (Sorry, Dawn!)
I don't really hate all chick flicks. I just hate the ones that focus on someone who gets dumped and then rediscovers herself. So 99 percent of chick flicks.
My reason? I just feel as if these movies often work to only deepen depression by putting dejected women in a room together with a lifetime supply of Kleenex when the same women could be ditching their attempts at self-analysis, getting off their butts and actually filming another chapter of their own life movies.
Moreover, the majority of these breakup-turned-good movies work on a premise that something life-changing and inspirational will happen to you after you're dumped, when in reality that's not always true. You could spend months crying in front of your TV and gaining weight on Eskimo Kisses ice cream. So ironically, these movies also have a tremendous potential to backfire when a viewer comes home not to a mysterious stranger or lucrative independent career offer, but instead the same memory-inducing sheets she sought to escape.
Anyway, here are the top 10 chick flicks guys can enjoy, according to the article:
10. Meet Joe Black
9. Desperately Seeking Susan
8. Thelma and Louise
7. An Officer and a Gentleman
6. When Harry Met Sally
5. Serendipity
4. The Craft
3. Blue Crush
2. Mean Girls
1. Bridget Jones' Diary
I'll be anxious to hear what you think. I disagree with the list to some extent, because its writer seems to define "chick flick" as any movie with an ensemble cast that is primarily female.
False. Right?
hate her
I'm writing this post largely as a service to my co-workers, who have been forced to listen to me complain about Heather Mills since approximately 9:47 this morning.
Basically I really hate her.
Prior to "Dancing with the Stars," I'd heard about her in tabloids and the like, but I never gave her the intense hatred I've attached to stars like Tara Reid. That changed when I started watching "Dancing," though.
My temper first rose last week, when she performed a flip maneuver that technically violated one of the show's major rules -- at least one foot must stay on the ground at all times. Actor Mario Lopez violated this rule multiple times last season, and was consequently penalized. The judges said nothing about Heather's mishap, though, and instead praised her for her courage.
(Side note for anyone unfamiliar with Heather Mills: She has a prosthetic leg.)
That was a technical element, though, and it really didn't bother me too much. But here's what really got me going. This week, in order to perform the jive, Heather got entirely new -- and likely very expensive -- prosthetic leg that would let her jump.
Sure, she probably looked great, but it just angers me how she's repeatedly hailed as this gigantic inspiration for disabled people when the reality is that the average handicapped individual lacks the money to buy a specially designed limb to deal any time life throws out a new challenge.
I don't care about the whole Paul McCartney divorce thing. I do, however, care about the fact that she's using the "Dancing" opportunity not as a chance to highlight courage, but instead as an opportunity to rub social and economic disparities in the faces of the many fans she could be inspiring.
Hate her.
Wild Card Wednesday: MIA
Hi there!
I will be out of pocket for the rest of the week. Please feel free to visit the archives in my absence.
Love,
ME
P.S.
I'm still looking for contributing writers. If you're interested, email ME.
I will be out of pocket for the rest of the week. Please feel free to visit the archives in my absence.
Love,
ME
P.S.
I'm still looking for contributing writers. If you're interested, email ME.
Tuesday, April 3, 2007
LEONARDO DICAPRIO IS GETTING MARRIED
It looks like one of Hollywood’s most eligible bachelors, Leonardo DiCaprio, may be ready to walk down the aisle with his model girlfriend, Bar Rafaeli. Word is the Oscar nominee recently popped the question to his Israeli girlfriend. “Leo and Bar are ecstatic, as are both their families. Bar’s mom and dad think Leo’s a total gentleman and love the way he’s treated their daughter,” a snitch told the National Enquirer magazine. “They’re thinking about getting married this June. That’s when Bar turns 22.” Apparently the 32-year-old hottie just visited ‘the parents’ in Israel, where, rumour has it, the pair are planning to wed. “They say they’ll probably have a private ceremony in Israel, then a big ring ceremony and party in the US towards the end of the year,” the source added.Leonardo has gone through his fair share of SUPER-DUPER models. For him to settle down with one, is a huge compliment to Bar Rafaeli. Will he want kids? Is he going to be doing kids movies now? How domesticated will this star get? Best of luck and if you read this Leo: I am a huge fan and your performances in the Departed and Blood Diamond were on spectacular. Those performances sealed the deal for me. You are THE BEST right now, hands down. If you did a movie with you siting and talking in a cardboard box, I would be the first to see it. You truly become any character you take on and even if the movie isn’t a blockbuster, you make it worth seeing over and over again. For this, I thank you.( source = http://www.starmuscle.com/ )
need something to do tonight?
It's Tuesday, usually a dull night in the Columbus area, but the Chicago Afrobeat Project is performing at The Loft. Let's just say Africa doesn't come to Georgia often. Check it out. The show starts at 8 p.m. and costs $5. Don't forget...Tuesday is the new Friday.
punk this
So it's April and I'm wishing everyone a very happy April Fool's Day, even though I'm three days late. Even though the prank-inspired holiday has come and gone, I strongly encourage you to check out this article in the Chronicle of Higher Education about college pranks taped for YouTube purposes.
It's pretty funny...you'll see a roommate's possessions screwed to a room's ceiling, not to mention a college lecture interrupted by one student's attempt at a musical.
Aside from the time I got busted in college for some prank calling, I can't say I've executed too many punk'd-type ventures successfully. My biggest achievement, I think, is when I was part of a plan to put an open-faced tostada on a classmate's seat during a third-grade Cinco de Mayo party. She sat on it, and proceeded to get refried beans -- and more -- smeared all over her butt.
My partners in crime got the obligatory recess time-outs, but my teacher was so reluctant to believe I was part of the plan that she didn't give me any kind of punishment. Eventually, however, the guilt got to me and I gave myself a voluntary time-out.
Yeah...I'm weak like that.
Monday, April 2, 2007
Leonardo Dicaprio Gets Plastic Surgery After Fight
Late Friday, Leonardo DiCaprio was spotted outside a Beverly Hills plastic surgery center sporting a bandage around his nose, confirming rumors that he required plastic surgery following a hotel bar fight in Los Angeles a day earlier that left DiCaprio with a broken nose and a black and blue on his eye. Stitches were also made in the star’s temple due to a cut. Exclusive photos obtained by Make Me Heal, show a bruised and battered DiCaprio. The apparent fight was induced by a fight between DiCaprio and another man over a woman who was in DiCaprio’s company. The man who attacked DiCaprio “beat Leo to a pulp,” before jetting out of the bar in an Escalade. At presstime, no information was available other than the name of the plastic surgeon being Dr. Raj Kanodia. Beverly Hills-based Dr. Kanodia has operated on countless stars, including Jennifer Aniston, Ashlee Simpson,Cameron Cruz, and is now set to perform matching nose jobs on the Olsen Twins next.Our hearts go out to Leo as we hope that the rhinoplasty (nose surgery) will not jeopardize the actor’s looks. Nose jobs can often change a person’s look and have made or broken an actor’s career. As an example, Jennifer Gray of Dirty Dancing fame ended her career promptly after a nose job completely changed her look and rendered her unrecognizable to her fans.
Happy April Fool’s Day.
This story is completely fictional
(source = http://www.makemeheal.com/news/?p=111 )
Leo Takes the Bar to Vegas
Something was in the water (or Grey Goose) this weekend in Vegas, because the place was crawling with celebs, and even famously camera-shy Leonardo DiCaprio got snapped.Leonardo and Britney Spears made separate, but equally notable splashes in Sin City this weekend, with Leo showing up for JET Nightclub's first anniversary party with girlfriend Bar Refaeli and her dad, while Britney had dinner -- and a soft drink -- at TAO.
DiCaprio, perhaps returning the favor for Bar's taking him home to meet the folks in Israel last month, brought the lady and her pops to JET's birthday bash, partying with "Blood Diamond" co-star Djimon Hounsou, and pals Luke Wilson, Woody Harrelson and Kevin Connolly.
Meanwhile, Britney donned her now-customary wig 'n hat look to dine with two unidentified friends at TAO, munching on veggie dumplings and, yes, drinking Pepsi. We're told that she stayed for a brief dinner and wasn't spotted thereafter.
(source = http://www.tmz.com/2007/04/02/leo-takes-the-bar-to-vegas/ )
Monday Madness: Pretty Plates
This pendant reminds me of those decorative plates that are always featured at Ethan Allen. It looks totally sheek, chic and is the perfect accessory for Spring.
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet to Star,
Sam Mendes to Direct ”Revolutionary Road” for DreamWorks Studios in Association with BBC Films
LOS ANGELES,CA–(rushprnews) March 29, 2007- Three-time Academy Award nominee Leonardo DiCaprio and five-time Oscar nominee Kate Winslet have been signed by DreamWorks Studios to star in “Revolutionary Road” to be directed by Academy Award winner Sam Mendes, it was announced today by Stacey Snider,Co-Chairman and CEO.
“Revolutionary Road” will be the first time DiCaprio and Winslet have worked together since the 1997 all-time box office hit and Oscar winning “Titanic.” Based on the celebrated novel by Richard Yates, “Revolutionary Road” is a heartrending story of thwarted passion and the search for fulfillment. A young couple find themselves caught between their own desires and the pressure to conform, with explosive consequences.
Justin Haythe has written the screenplay based on Richard Yates’ 1961 novel. Production will begin this summer with Paramount handling worldwide distribution.
John N. Hart, Scott Rudin, Bobby Cohen, and Mendes will produce in association with BBC Films.
“Revolutionary Road” was Richard Yates’ first novel and earned immediate acclaim. For two generations, it has continued to be a seminal landmark book. It not only achieved this special status among readers but by other writers who recognized its impact and story-telling skill. It was a finalist for the prestigious National Book Award and was named one of the Top 100 Novels on Time Magazine’s All-Time list.
“This is an extraordinary combination of three very special talents who represent the best in motion pictures. We are very fortunate to bring Leo, Kate, and Sam together to tell a story that can reflect the excellence that audiences around the world expect of them,” said Adam Goodman, President of Production at DreamWorks.
“Having bought the rights to the book and developed it with John Hart, we could not be more delighted at the way this film has come together,” said David Thompson, Head of BBC Films. “This is an extraordinary story with wide international appeal and resonance. To be working with the best and brightest talent from both sides of the Atlantic is particularly exciting.”
“As one of the most venerated post-war American novels, it is both fitting and thrilling that it’s come together with this extraordinary group of artists,” said Rudin, whose company, Scott Rudin Productions, produced 5 films last year, three of which (”The Queen,” “Notes on a Scandal” and “Venus”) garnered 11 Academy Award nominations and one win for Helen Mirren as Best Actress.
DiCaprio most recently starred in “Blood Diamond,” for which he received an Academy Award nomination, and in this year’s Best Picture Oscar winner, “The Departed.” He received his other Oscar nominations for his roles in “The Aviator” and “What’s Eating Gilbert Grape.” This will be his second film for DreamWorks having previously starred in the Steven Spielberg directed “Catch Me If You Can.”
Winslet was also honored with an Academy Award nomination this year for her role in “Little Children.” Her previous nominations were for “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,” “Iris,” “Titanic,” and “Sense and Sensibility.”
Mendes has a long history with DreamWorks, having directed his first feature for the studio, Best Picture Oscar winner, “American Beauty.” Mendes received an Oscar and Golden Globe for his direction on “American Beauty,” as well as the Directors Guild of America’s award for Outstanding Directorial Achievement in Motion Pictures. He also directed “Road to Perdition” for the studio and is currently producing two films for DreamWorks - “Things We Lost in the Fire” and “The Kite Runner,” both of which will be released later this year.
Contact:
DreamWorks Studios
Marvin Levy, 818-733-9787
marvin_levy@dreamworksstudios.com
Source: DreamWorks Studios
LOS ANGELES,CA–(rushprnews) March 29, 2007- Three-time Academy Award nominee Leonardo DiCaprio and five-time Oscar nominee Kate Winslet have been signed by DreamWorks Studios to star in “Revolutionary Road” to be directed by Academy Award winner Sam Mendes, it was announced today by Stacey Snider,Co-Chairman and CEO.
“Revolutionary Road” will be the first time DiCaprio and Winslet have worked together since the 1997 all-time box office hit and Oscar winning “Titanic.” Based on the celebrated novel by Richard Yates, “Revolutionary Road” is a heartrending story of thwarted passion and the search for fulfillment. A young couple find themselves caught between their own desires and the pressure to conform, with explosive consequences.
Justin Haythe has written the screenplay based on Richard Yates’ 1961 novel. Production will begin this summer with Paramount handling worldwide distribution.
John N. Hart, Scott Rudin, Bobby Cohen, and Mendes will produce in association with BBC Films.
“Revolutionary Road” was Richard Yates’ first novel and earned immediate acclaim. For two generations, it has continued to be a seminal landmark book. It not only achieved this special status among readers but by other writers who recognized its impact and story-telling skill. It was a finalist for the prestigious National Book Award and was named one of the Top 100 Novels on Time Magazine’s All-Time list.
“This is an extraordinary combination of three very special talents who represent the best in motion pictures. We are very fortunate to bring Leo, Kate, and Sam together to tell a story that can reflect the excellence that audiences around the world expect of them,” said Adam Goodman, President of Production at DreamWorks.
“Having bought the rights to the book and developed it with John Hart, we could not be more delighted at the way this film has come together,” said David Thompson, Head of BBC Films. “This is an extraordinary story with wide international appeal and resonance. To be working with the best and brightest talent from both sides of the Atlantic is particularly exciting.”
“As one of the most venerated post-war American novels, it is both fitting and thrilling that it’s come together with this extraordinary group of artists,” said Rudin, whose company, Scott Rudin Productions, produced 5 films last year, three of which (”The Queen,” “Notes on a Scandal” and “Venus”) garnered 11 Academy Award nominations and one win for Helen Mirren as Best Actress.
DiCaprio most recently starred in “Blood Diamond,” for which he received an Academy Award nomination, and in this year’s Best Picture Oscar winner, “The Departed.” He received his other Oscar nominations for his roles in “The Aviator” and “What’s Eating Gilbert Grape.” This will be his second film for DreamWorks having previously starred in the Steven Spielberg directed “Catch Me If You Can.”
Winslet was also honored with an Academy Award nomination this year for her role in “Little Children.” Her previous nominations were for “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,” “Iris,” “Titanic,” and “Sense and Sensibility.”
Mendes has a long history with DreamWorks, having directed his first feature for the studio, Best Picture Oscar winner, “American Beauty.” Mendes received an Oscar and Golden Globe for his direction on “American Beauty,” as well as the Directors Guild of America’s award for Outstanding Directorial Achievement in Motion Pictures. He also directed “Road to Perdition” for the studio and is currently producing two films for DreamWorks - “Things We Lost in the Fire” and “The Kite Runner,” both of which will be released later this year.
Contact:
DreamWorks Studios
Marvin Levy, 818-733-9787
marvin_levy@dreamworksstudios.com
Source: DreamWorks Studios
Donald Trump wins ``hair match'' at Wrestlemania
By MIKE HOUSEHOLDER
Associated Press Writer
DETROIT -- One of the world's most famous 'do's _ considered by many to be a fashion don't _ remains intact after its owner, Donald Trump, prevailed in Sunday night's "hair match" at Wrestlemania.
Trump trumped World Wrestling Entertainment owner Vince McMahon in the "Battle of the Billionaires" at the WWE's largest annual pay-per-view event. After the real estate mogul and reality TV star triumphed, he gleefully took the shears to Mr. McMahon's head.
Trump and McMahon didn't actually battle it out in the ring, but instead had WWE wrestlers representing them grapple to see who would go bald. The winner, Trump's guy Bobby Lashley, bested McMahon's chosen wrestler, Umaga.
Trump wasn't just a cheerleader during the match, however _ he leaped off his feet at one point and drove McMahon into the ground, then pummeled him with some close-fisted punches.
Lashley's pinfall victory over the 300-plus-pound "Samoan Bulldozer" meant that McMahon had to yield to Trump's razor and the locks fell. Wrestling legend and action film actor "Stone Cold" Steve Austin served as the special guest referee for the match at Ford Field, home of the NFL's Detroit Lions.
It wasn't all laughs for Trump, though.
After celebrating in the ring with a cold beer _ Austin's preferred post-victory beverage _ an unsuspecting Trump was given a "Stunner" by Austin _ he had his head driven into Austin's shoulder. Lashley tended to Trump while Austin jogged toward the dressing room to the roaring approval of the crowd.
The "sports entertainment" event was held fittingly on April Fool's Day and was filled with loud music, pyrotechnics and screeching, flashbulb-snapping fans.
The Trump-McMahon showdown was one of the featured matches at the 23rd edition of the professional wrestling extravaganza, which returned to Detroit after two decades.
Wrestlemania 3, held at the Pontiac Silverdome in 1987, drew 93,000 fans and featured a seminal moment when Hulk Hogan bodyslammed Andre the Giant.
Sunday's event drew 80,103 fans, a new Ford Field record, breaking the previous record of 78,129 set during the December 2003 college BasketBowl between Michigan State and Kentucky.
(source = http://www.newsday.com/news/local/wire/newyork/ny-bc-ny--wrestlemania-trum0401apr01,0,6937791.story?coll=ny-region-apnewyork )
Associated Press Writer
DETROIT -- One of the world's most famous 'do's _ considered by many to be a fashion don't _ remains intact after its owner, Donald Trump, prevailed in Sunday night's "hair match" at Wrestlemania.
Trump trumped World Wrestling Entertainment owner Vince McMahon in the "Battle of the Billionaires" at the WWE's largest annual pay-per-view event. After the real estate mogul and reality TV star triumphed, he gleefully took the shears to Mr. McMahon's head.
Trump and McMahon didn't actually battle it out in the ring, but instead had WWE wrestlers representing them grapple to see who would go bald. The winner, Trump's guy Bobby Lashley, bested McMahon's chosen wrestler, Umaga.
Trump wasn't just a cheerleader during the match, however _ he leaped off his feet at one point and drove McMahon into the ground, then pummeled him with some close-fisted punches.
Lashley's pinfall victory over the 300-plus-pound "Samoan Bulldozer" meant that McMahon had to yield to Trump's razor and the locks fell. Wrestling legend and action film actor "Stone Cold" Steve Austin served as the special guest referee for the match at Ford Field, home of the NFL's Detroit Lions.
It wasn't all laughs for Trump, though.
After celebrating in the ring with a cold beer _ Austin's preferred post-victory beverage _ an unsuspecting Trump was given a "Stunner" by Austin _ he had his head driven into Austin's shoulder. Lashley tended to Trump while Austin jogged toward the dressing room to the roaring approval of the crowd.
The "sports entertainment" event was held fittingly on April Fool's Day and was filled with loud music, pyrotechnics and screeching, flashbulb-snapping fans.
The Trump-McMahon showdown was one of the featured matches at the 23rd edition of the professional wrestling extravaganza, which returned to Detroit after two decades.
Wrestlemania 3, held at the Pontiac Silverdome in 1987, drew 93,000 fans and featured a seminal moment when Hulk Hogan bodyslammed Andre the Giant.
Sunday's event drew 80,103 fans, a new Ford Field record, breaking the previous record of 78,129 set during the December 2003 college BasketBowl between Michigan State and Kentucky.
(source = http://www.newsday.com/news/local/wire/newyork/ny-bc-ny--wrestlemania-trum0401apr01,0,6937791.story?coll=ny-region-apnewyork )
Jennifer Lopez Likes To "F---ing" Party
And we come to the end of our Jenny Lopez CD giveaway. Check the next post to see who the fifth and final winner is. This past Tuesday Jennifer took over a bunch of blocks in NYC’s Times Square, according to the NY Daily News. She actually arrived late to her own event at Spotlight Live on Broadway, only to be greeted by 700-plus aficionados."Tonight is such a special night for me," Lopez told the crowd. "I'm gonna sing a couple of songs, and then we can get to really fucking partying!"According to the News, she proceeded to sing a couple of songs including a duet with Marc Anthony. Apparently when he wasn’t performing he was playing air guitar and lip-synced to every J Lo track. LOL. Someone tell Marc to get back in the studio and make a full-length salsa album. Leave that English pop ish alone. Go back to your roots, which you’re actually dope at.
(source = http://blogs.sohh.com/latino/2007/03/jennifer_lopez_likes_to_fing_p.html )
Anthony Gives Lopez Singing Tips
(andPOP) - Pop star JENNIFER LOPEZ has been getting singing advice from her Latino husband MARC ANTHONY, because she feared she wasn't good enough.The WAITING FOR TONIGHT performer suffered from anxiety about her ability while recording a new, un-named track, until a crash course from her singing spouse restored her confidence.
She says, "The song I was about to record was a beautiful ballad. Marc just looked at me and he said, 'Jennifer, read the words, sing the words. Don't think about your voice, think about what you are singing.'"
The couple, meanwhile, claim their Hispanic roots help them to understand each other.
Lopez says, "My husband is from my culture, from my background and he totally understands me both emotionally and creatively. He is the first person to give me total confidence as an artist."
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(source = http://www.andpop.com/article/8945)
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